Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi jia-joey,

Thanks
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Hi Master Tong,

A couple of things that i need advise

1. For Fengshui of the house,Direction of which the door faces is the 1st thing to consider?

2.Some people select house base on calculation of unit number, is numberology more impt than direction of main door for fengshui

3.WE have been trying to conceive, anything we can do or need to avoid in fengshui to enhance our fertility luck?
 
Hi Master Tong

For minor renovation in existing house, do we still need to choose an auspicious date to start work, i.e painting, changing of stove, and changing of kitchen basin, etc.

For our wedding bed, can the delivery be made any time as long as we don't sleep on it or must we choose an auspicious date as well?
 
Hi brand new me,

To answer your qns:

1. For Fengshui of the house,Direction of which the door faces is the 1st thing to consider?

The main door is the most important in any property. If the Qi at the main door is bad, the feng shui of the house cannot be that good. If it is good, generally we just need to fix the rest of the things like stove positioning, bed positioning etc etc in the house to make it perfect. Of course, we need to identify what is the exact problem that will occur to the occupants first. Feng Shui is not just about good and bad, if good, we must know what is good. And if bad, what is bad exactly.

2.Some people select house base on calculation of unit number, is numberology more impt than direction of main door for fengshui.

House number is NOT important from Feng Shui perspective. A house with the No. 444 can still be very good in terms of wealth if the main door and other factors are good. Similarly, a house with No. 888 can still be bad if the main door, stove and other factors are bad.

I am not an expert in numerology, so i can't answer this part of the question for you
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3.WE have been trying to conceive, anything we can do or need to avoid in fengshui to enhance our fertility luck?

For fertility, there can be various factors causing it. If the gynae proved nothing wrong with a couple, then it could either be the Bazi or Feng Shui that is causing the problem. For a ladies Bazi chart, some are hard or even impossible to conceive. In this case, it will be difficult to conceive unless certain luck comes and clash away the elements causing this problem and in that yr, you might have a higher chance.

If there is nothing wrong with the couples's Bazi chart, then likely it could be the Feng Shui that is causing the problem. The door could be situated in a location & direction where the Qi is not conducive for kids or the stove could be sitting and facing certain Qi that cannot have kids.

Unfortunately, there is no generic feng shui cures for this sort of issues. Hope this helps.
 
Hi roystream,

For changing of stove, yes an auspicious date need to be chosen. This is VERY important. For other renovations, so long as it involves hacking, drilling etc etc, then a date needs to be chosen.

The delivery of the wedding bed can be made anytime. No need to select a date for it. Only setting the bed needs a date.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

Need your advise on our AD selection.

We are looking at the following dates:

03 Oct
17 Oct
24 Oct
31 Oct
07 Nov
14 Nov
21 Nov

Groom 20 Feb 1980 - Monkey
Dad - Tiger
Mum - Snake

Bride 04 Feb 1982 - Dog
Dad - Pig
Mum - Dog

Thank you.
 
Thanks for your advice, Master Tong.

May I ask...so those dates other than 10th July, we definitely cannot use? Even after the Tong Shu is out and we do another calculation? Or if we do a ba zi calculation now, will it be possible that the other dates can be used?

Also...can I ask you to check a few more dates...31st July 2010, 7th August 2010, 11th Sept 2010, 18th Sept 2010 and 25th Sept 2010.

Here's the info again.
Groom: 3rd July 1980(Monkey)
Father: Dog
Mother: Ox

Bride: 17th July 1984 (Rat)
Father: Rat
Mother: Snake

Thanks so much!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the advise!

If the lady's Baizhi affects her fertility, does the man's baizhi has effect on his descendent's luck as well?

Am I able to give u our Baizhi to take a look?

Thanks!
 
Hi fudgemallow,

Yes that is correct. Only 10th July "can be used". I put this in quote coz as i mention, i won't know if this will end up to be a good or bad day in the tong shu., but it doesn't clash to anyone.

If you calculate by Bazi, then the dates will be different. There might be more or less dates, but regardless, those dates will be good for both of you specifically. That is the difference.

31st July 2010 - Clash to Rat (you). Cannot use.
7th August 2010 - Not a good month for marriage
11th Sept 2010 - Doesn't clash to anyone.
18th Sept 2010 - Clash to Ox (groom's mum). Cannot use.
25th Sept 2010 - Clash to Monkey (Groom). Cannot use.

So you are left with 11/9.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi SS,

Wedding dates has to be selected using Bazi. Only in this way can you tell if the date selected is compatible with both your Bazi Destiny chart and specifically good for both of you. This is very important.

For Tong Shu, it is for mass consumption only. If you buy different publications of Tong Shu from different countries and if you check online tong shu, you will realise that different tong shu will state different things for the same day. One tong shu may say this date good for marriage, the other may not. It is inconsistent.

And in the Tong shu, it may indicate that a particular date is good for marriage. But logically speaking, it cannot be this date is good for marriage for the whole world right? This date will be good for some and bad for the rest. How to determine this? Only by using Bazi.

Let's give another example. In the Tong Shu, there is a day call a "Success" day. This day is suppose to be good for all important activities. But on these days, there will be someone making lots of money and there will be someone losing lots of money. How did you explain that? This is suppose to be a good day for everyone...! The secret lies in the Bazi. If the day is compatible with the Bazi, it is considered a good day for that person. If the day is incompatible with the Bazi, it is considered a bad day for that person.

Hope this clears your doubts
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Hi brand new me,

A man's chart can of course affect his fertility. It is not always the woman is the one having the problem. It can be the guy side too.

For Bazi, it is part of my consultation service so i do charge for this, or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for it. Hope you understand
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Hi David,

We are planning to get married by end of this year or early next year. Our details are as follows:

Bride : 7 Oct 1979 (Goat)
Bride's mum : 7 Sep 1952 (Dragon)
Bride's dad : 18 Nov 1952 (Dragon)

Groom : 10 Apr 1984 (Rat)
Groom's mum : 22 May 1956 (Monkey)
Groom's dad : 18 Jun 1956 (Monkey)

The complication is this. My hubby to be is a malaysian. So there has to be a dinner in Singapore and Malaysia. In this case, which day is considered our marriage day. What about our registration date? Would these be considered 3 wedding days?

Currently, we have no dates in mind yet.
 
Hi Master Tong

If i just need a date to start the renovation, can you calculate when is a gd day? what info must i provide to you?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Initially, we decide to use 13 Nov 2010 as our wedding day(Rom and AD) and was adviced by you that this date does not crash to anyone of us. But due to some miscommunication, my parents prefer us to hold our wedding on a Sunday instead of Saturday.

So we need your advice whether we can change the date to
1. 14 Nov 2010
2. 5 Dec 2010
3. 12 Dec 2010

or we should still stick to the 13 Nov 2010

Below is our details:
Bride : 7 Jan 1983 (Dog)
Bride's mum : Dragon
Bride's dad : Tiger

Groom : 28 Oct 1980 (Monkey)
Groom's mum : Tiger
Groom's dad : Ox

Thanks so much
 
Hi LMY,

The registration date (ROM date) is your marriage date. This is the most important. This is the day both of you officially and legally become husband and wife.

For the other 2 days (SG & Malaysia banquet), you can also choose a good day for it. There is no harm in doing so and not difficult. However, the focus is still the ROM day.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi SS,

If you are after a general Tong Shu start of reno day, I can give it to you here free in the forum. I will need the animal zodiac signs of all the occupants in the house.

But as i mentioned, this way of selecting date does not take into account the feng shui of the house. It is not accurate.

For dates selected according to the feng shui of the house (and the occupants), I will need to visit your property to take the direction. I do charge a fee for this.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Qiu Ling,

No worries. Here they are:

1. 14 Nov 2010 - This date clash to Dog (not advisable to use)
2. 5 Dec 2010 - Does not clash to anyone
3. 12 Dec 2010 - Bad day for wedding.

Only 5th Dec does not clash to anyone. Whether if it is a good date or not, i will not know unless your Bazi is taken into account.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can I ask for youe expertise in advice if below dates are suitable for my ROM.

16 April 2010
17 April 2010
23 April 2010
24 April 2010
30 April 2010

Below is our details:
Bride : 11 August 1986
Bride's mum : Monkey
Bride's dad : Rat

Groom : 27 March 1977
Groom's mum : Ox
Groom's dad : Ox

Thanks in advance for your help.
 
Hi Master Tong, it is me again...

Any dates in June (exc. 18 June to 21 June) that is good for moving in? If there is none, 2 Jul will do for me too (as advised). Thanks thanks!

Father: 1970 (Dog)
Mother: 1970 (Dog)
Daughter: 2000 (Dragon)
Son: 2004 (Monkey)

Best regards.
 
Hi Angie,

10 Oct 2010 is not a suitable day for wedding. I know a lot of people have been asking for this day coz of the nice numbers 101010...but then, it is not a good day. I won't recommend using this day. Every day has a purpose. It will even be listed in the 2010 Tong Shu. The purpose of this day is not for wedding purpose.

Yes of course it is important to choose a good day for wedding. Date selection, whether for wedding, start reno, moving in and other feng shui implementations, are very important.
 
Hi LY,

To answer your qns:

16 April 2010 - BAD day for wedding. Avoid.
17 April 2010 - Doesn't clash to anyone
23 April 2010 - Not a good day for wedding
24 April 2010 - Doesn't clash to anyone
30 April 2010 - BAD day for wedding. Avoid

In summary, only 17th and 24th doesn't clash to anyone. Whether if it is a general auspicious date in the tong shu, we have to wait for it to be out in July/Aug period.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Minishop,

The next earliest day in June will be 3rd June. Don't know if this is too early for you. If not, then the next one will be 2nd Jul. The rest of the dates clashes, so cannot use.

Note that this is a very general date selection for moving in. It did not take into account the house direction etc.

Hope this helps
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Master Tong,
hope you can help me- but i am in Australia getting married and cannot find any advice here.
My partner and i (both rabbits) had planned to marry July 18, 2009, but his brother has now announced that he and his partner will marry in Malaysia July 4. I do not know whether to continue with our date or cancel due to bad luck of siblings marrying so close. I believe next year is bad year for us to marry and wonder whether to postpone to 2011?
any advice?
 
Hi Master Tong, super useful tip for me. I am happy with general date.
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Will think hard about the 2 dates. Many thanks and have a great day ahead.

B.rgds, Mini
 
Hi Master Tong,

I will like to check if any one of these dates is good/ suitable for ROM.

27th June 2009
1st July 2009
7th July 2009

Below is our details:
Bride : 05 July 1982 (Dog)
Groom : 19 July 1983 (Pig)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Are 5 June 2010 auspicious date for AD? Or any day in june suitable for us.

Thanks

Below is our details:
Groom: 11 June 1985 (OX)
Groom's Father: Rabbit

Bride: 27 June 1984 (RAT)
Bride's Father: Rooters
Bride's Mother: Rat
 
Hi lula,

Normally siblings should not get married on the same yr. It should ideally be 12 mths apart. Some "cheat" by doing it in different calendar yrs.

Why is it that it is not good for you to get married next yr? Next yr 2010 is not good for those born in yr of the Monkey, not Rabbit. You can get married next yr, so long as you choose a good date for it.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Angie,

Yes that is correct. 10/10/09 is not a general Tong Shu good date for wedding as well (but this date is still salvageable if it is compatible with your Bazi).
 
Hi Valerie,

The date doesn't clash to any of you. But i won't know if it is a general tong shu auspicious date till the tong shu is out. The only way now and the correct method is to use Bazi to check if the date is compatible with your Bazi.

FYI, a general auspicious date in the tong shu can be be deemed bad for you if the date is not compatible with your Bazi.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I need your help with this. We have decided the date for our AD which is on the 19 Sep 2010. I want another date (which is one or two weeks before the 19 Sep 2010) for our dinner which gonna hold in malaysia.

Below is our details:
Groom: 17/10/1975 (Rabbit)
Groom's Father: rooster
Groom'a Mother: Pig

Bride: 12/03/1984 (RAT)
Bride's Father: Rooters
Bride's Mother: Goat
 
Hi Master Tong,

Below is our details:
Groom: 19/07/1983 (Pig)
Groom's Father: Pig
Groom'a Mother: Dragon

Bride: 05/07/1982 (Dog)
Bride's Father: Horse
Bride's Mother: Goat

I am looking if 1st 0r 7th July are suitable for our ROM. Thanks in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to rom in this Dec 09 and are considering these dates -
12 Dec 09
13 Dec 09
17 Dec 09
19 Dec 09

Pls advise which date is a good day for us.

Below are our details:
Groom: 21 May 1981 (Rooster)
Groom's father: Monkey
Groom's mother: Rooster

Bride: 26 Oct 1981 (Rooster)
Bride's father: Dragon
Bride's mother: Goat

Thank you.
 


Hi sher_gum,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates, the Tong Shu is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2010 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 

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