Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


cmg_consulting said:
Hi j3slin

Fetch bride timing will be 9-11am

Real dog doesn't matter! Only humans :)
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Hi Master Tong,

Thank v muchies for your reply..
Can I double check with you again.. So is 06 sep/2014 suitable for me & my HTB?
Both couple Rabbit.
Parent are Snake, Rat & Chicken.

And you mentioned <Fetch bride timing will be 9-11am>
Is this the only gd timing to fetch the bride betwwen 9-11am??

Many many thanks for your kind advise.
Cheer/J3slin:)
 
Hi Master tong

thanks for the reply. If 2015 , any dates to recommend ? preferably in the earlier of the year. Do you provide service of calculating couple ba zi as well ?
 
if my friend rom ceremony is in May, and my wedding actual day(with rom) is in June, will it clash? there is a saying it must have a three mth gap between wedding. does it apply to rom also?
 
Hi Master Tong

Thanks.
How about 27/12/2014?
How much you charge for just bazi calculations?

Details are:
Groom: goat
Bride: pig

Groom dad: monkey
Groom mum: ox

Bride dad: ox
Bride mum: dragon

Thank you!

Ps: sorry for repeated post
 
Hi Mr Tong,

Is it possible that a date that is inauspicious according to the tong shu, can actually be auspicious to a particular couple depending on their 'eight character'? Thanks.
 
hi mr Tong .. i have chinese wedding coming up in 3/12/2013. i have cal by a feng shui master that my hubby need to fetch me at 5 am in the morning and reach my hubby house before 6.30 sharp. we have rom for one year . is the timing super early ?

groom side :
fil : rat
mil : tiger
bil : goat

brides side :
mum : rabbit
sis: snake
bro: monkey

me : tiger
hubby : pig

is it on tt day will crush with rooster and rat ? what is the things to do to avoid to do or anything happen ??
 
Hi j3slin

It is a general good date and doesn't clash anyone

And yes 9-11am or 5-7am only, for that day

** Note that tong Shu dates are general dates only. Couples bazi (birthday and time of birth) are not taken into consideration. Hence the date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and bazi does not match **
 
Hi chivaslife88

The tong Shu for 2015 will only be out in sept 2014, hence can only check then. Right now the only way is use bazi to select. If you wait till tong Shu is out, all the venues will be fully booked !
 
Hi Flyingbear

That is not a good date for wedding. 7th dec to 5th jan is 岁破 year breaker month, hence not a period for wedding.

For bazi selection of dates, you can drop me an email [email protected] and I will revert you details via email
 
Hi Constance,

5am is more for teochew dialect. But again you have to check with him for alternative timings if he use your bazi to calculate.

Clash rooster that day.so all your key personnel like bestman bridesmaid, open car door little boy, Mei Po etc cannot be that zodiac sign. No workaround. U cannot use them.
 
Hi Master,


Groom: Ox
Brides : Dragon
Mother in Law : Rat
Father in Law: Horse
Mother: Ox
Father: Rooster


1) We are looking into 6th Sept 2014 any clashes on that day?

2) Can I know what is the best timing for brides fetching?
Brides is Teochew dialect.
Groom is Hainanese dialect.


Thank you so much!!!! :)
 
Hi Master Tong

Do you have any great dates for nov then?


Details are:
Groom: goat
Bride: pig

Groom dad: monkey
Groom mum: ox

Bride dad: ox
Bride mum: dragon

Thank you!
 
cmg_consulting said:
Hi Constance,

5am is more for teochew dialect. But again you have to check with him for alternative timings if he use your bazi to calculate.

Clash rooster that day.so all your key personnel like bestman bridesmaid, open car door little boy, Mei Po etc cannot be that zodiac sign. No workaround. U cannot use them.
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thanks Mr Tong.

groom side is cantonese and my side is hokkien. thanks for the information :)
 
Hi Master Tong! :)

Can I ask for the best date for our wedding in June 2014?

Bride: Nov. 7, 1990 - - - Horse
Groom: Dec. 22, 1988 - - - Dragon

Hope to hear from you soon because we are planning to reserve the places... thanks! :)
 
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to know which are the auspicious date for the following and what zodiac does the days clashes with:

05/12/2015
12/05/2015
15/02/2015
05/10/2015
25/10/2015

groom (goat 26/3/1991)
bride (goat 03/10/1991)

Groom's mum: monkey
Groom's dad: goat

Bride's mum: pig
Bride's dad: dragon

Thanks,
Shirley
 
Hi Master Tong,

My fiancée and I intend to hold our wedding banquet on a Sunday in the months of March, April, May or June of 2015.

We hope it does not clash with any Chinese festivals such as Qingming Festival. We are not concerned if it clashes with our bazi.

Are you able to find such a date?

Thank you very much!

Robin.
 
Hi Master Tong,
We are looking to hold our ROM and banquet on the same day in the period between May to Nov 2015, preferably on Sat/Sun.
Can you advise us on the auspicious dates that we can consider?

Western dates:
Groom: 1/11/1984 (Rat)
Bride: 23/04/1984 (Rat)

Groom's Dad: 1/11/1954 (Horse)
Groom's Mum: 29/6/1956 (Monkey)

Bride's Dad: 24/9/1948 (Rat)
Bride's Mum: 29/5/1952 (Dragon)

Thanks in advance!
 
Hi Master Tong,

May I know if the following are auspicious wedding dates for 2015?
19/09/2015
26/09/2015
14/11/2015

Groom: Rooster
Bride: Rabbit

Groom's Parents: Goat, Rabbit
Bride's Parents: Snake, Ox

Hope to hear from you soon!
Miss.drey
 
Hi Master Tong,
I've posted previously and i would like to add another two dates in to my choice of dates which are:

08/08/2015
25/12/2015

Groom (goat 26/3/1991)
Bride (goat 03/10/1991)
Groom's mum: monkey
Groom's dad: goat
Bride's mum: pig
Bride's dad: dragon

Would you help advise if these two dates are good for holding my wedding too?
Thanks alot!
 
Hi Master Tong

I have checked the almanac calendar and it stated that 21st June clashes with Snake.
My mum and sis are both snakes.
Are there any ways that they can avoid this clash?

Date of choices:
21/06/2014 (top choice but clash with snake)
26/07/2014
02/08/2014 (is this considered in lunar 7th mth and not wise for marriage?)
06/09/2014
13/09/2014
20/09/2014


Bride (rooster: 17/12/1981)
Groom (horse: 27/03/1978)

Bride's mum (snake: 28/06/1953)
Bride's dad (rabbit: 23/06/1951)

Groom's mum (dragon: 1952)
Groom's dad (tiger: 1950)
 
Hi Master Tong!

I would like to ask, as I'm from single parent family and had never met my father before not to say know about his zodiac etc.

Can you advise me where and what should I do and go about from here?

Is my mom's detail sufficient enough or? She's remarried now, should I give my step-father detail in replacement or?

Really appreciate if you can guide me on what info should I prepare etc before going for the consultation to get my wedding date etc.

Thanks!
 
Hi Hui Ting

That day clashes with Dog, hence none of you. And it is a general good date as well

** Note that tong Shu dates are general dates only. Couples bazi (birthday and time of birth) are not taken into consideration. Hence the date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and bazi does not match **
 
Hi Flying bear

These are the only general good weekend dates for nov

- 22/11, 29/11

Hope this helps

** Note that tong Shu dates are general dates only. Couples bazi (birthday and time of birth) are not taken into consideration. Hence the date can still be considered inauspicious if the date and bazi does not match **
 
Hi constance_alan

Usually both your dialect no need fetch bride so early. You can check with the master you get the dates from again for alternative timing as he may use bazi to select for you
 
Hi shirleypebbles

The tong Shu for 2015 will only be out next yr sept, so if you are looking at using general tong Shu dates to select,will have to wait till then. Right now can only use bazi to select

5/12 a clash rooster
12/5 is if Qing Ming 3rd lunar mth
15/2 clash monkey
5/10 clash monkey
25/10 clash dragon

Hope this helps :)
 
Hi Robin and winter2304

The only way to select 2015 dates now is using bazi to select, but I do charge for it as it is part of my consultancy services.

For using tong Shu to select general dates, you have to wait till sept next yr for the tong Shu to come out before we can select

Hope this helps :)
 
Hi miss.drey

All the 3 dates doesn't clash to anyone. But will have to wait for the tong Shu (Chinese almanac) to be out next yr sept to check if they are general good dates. Right now the only way is using bazi (birthday and time of birth) to select

Hope this helps
 
Hi itchybackside

All dates will definitely clash to someone. Your sister can be the jie Mei or helping you in the wedding as key personnel that is all. And she have to hide during gatecrash till after groom step in then can come out

But the date cannot clash to parents. If so, you cannot use this date

So 21/6 is out
26/7 clashes to dragon, cannot be used
2/8 is in 7th mth
6/9 clashes to dog, none of you and is a general good date
13/9 clashes to snake, so cannot be used
20/9 clashes to rat which is none of you, but not a general tong Shi good date

Hope this helps
 
Hi eilistal

If not in contact, no need that person's zodiac. The reason why we need is to avoid clashing to him and bring him bad luck or sour relationship after marriage. If not in contact, I don't think we need to bother right ? :)

You can use your step-father zodiac to replace.
 
Hi Master,


Groom: Ox
Brides : Dragon
Mother in Law : Rat
Father in Law: Horse
Mother: Ox
Father: Rooster


We are looking into 6th Sept 2014.

Can I know what is the best timing for brides fetching?

Brides is Teochew dialect.
Groom is Hainanese dialect.


Thank you so much!!!! :)
 
Dear Master Tong,

May I know what is the difference of using baizi and w/o using baizi to calculate wedding dates?

Understand that tong zhu for 2015 dates will only be out next year, however we can still get auspicious wedding dates for 2015 too is it? The only way is to use baizhi or can be done so w/o baizhi.

Hence, back to my first question, what is the difference is using baizhi and not? For tong shu dates have to use baizhi is it?

thank you!! :D

mantouz
 
Dear Master Tong,

On the month of September 2014, which Satursday is good for wedding ?

GROOM : OX
BRIDE : RABBIT

Groom mother : Pig
Groom father : Dragon
Bride father : Dog
Bride mother : Rabbit

And which hour to pick up the bride ?

Thank you !!
 
Hi mantouz

Date selection using bazi ensures that the dates are specifically good to both of you only as it uses both your bd n time of birth. Tong Shu are generic dates based on zodiac only, so it is more for mass consumption, not accurate enough. If tong Shu say this date is good , but the elements of the day is not compatible with both your bazi , that day is still a bad day. So yes we can select dates for 2015 using bazi . Hope this helps
 
Dear Master Tong,

Thank you for your informations,

For 20/09 - 27/09 - 11/10 - 18/10 which date is the better for the two of us ?

GROOM : OX born on 09/04/85 at 13h30
BRIDE : RABBIT born on 22/06/87 at 14h30

Groom mother : Pig
Groom father : Dragon (is not there)
Bride father : Dog
Bride mother : Rabbit
 
Hi Master Tong! :)

Can I ask for the best date for our wedding in June 2014?

Bride: Nov. 7, 1990 - - - Horse
Groom: Dec. 22, 1988 - - - Dragon

Bride Mother: Sheep/Goat
Bride Father: Snake -- (Deceased)

Groom Mother: Rabbit
Groom Father: Dragon

Hope to hear from you soon because we are planning to reserve the places... thanks! :)
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to hold my wedding Chinese ceremony on 20 Sep 14 and lunch on 21 sep 14.

May I know are the dates suitable? What about 8 dec 14?

Groom: 1986 (tiger)
Groom dad: 1957 (rooster)
Groom mum: 1958 (dog)

Bride: 1988(dragon)
Bride dad: 1956(monkey)
Bride mum: 1959 (pig)

Thank you so much.
 
cmg_consulting said:
Hi itchybackside

All dates will definitely clash to someone. Your sister can be the jie Mei or helping you in the wedding as key personnel that is all. And she have to hide during gatecrash till after groom step in then can come out

But the date cannot clash to parents. If so, you cannot use this date

So 21/6 is out
26/7 clashes to dragon, cannot be used
2/8 is in 7th mth
6/9 clashes to dog, none of you and is a general good date
13/9 clashes to snake, so cannot be used
20/9 clashes to rat which is none of you, but not a general tong Shi good date

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong

Thanks for your reply.
Did u mean to say my sister cannot be jiemei and as key personnel? I have marked them in bold just for confirmation.
How about 14/6/2014? Is this a good date to hold my wedding then?
Also how much do u charge for bazi calculations?

Bride (rooster: 17/12/1981)
Groom (horse: 27/03/1978)

Bride's mum (snake: 28/06/1953)
Bride's dad (rabbit: 23/06/1951)

Groom's mum (dragon: 1952)
Groom's dad (tiger: 1950)

I have sent u a separate email as well including time of brith.
 
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Hi cactus2

I assume it is 2014?

If yes, all the dates does not clash to anyone, but they are not general tong Shu good dates either, hence usually if you went to use these dates, it must be calculated using bazi to make sure the dates and bazi are compatible.
 


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