Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Rayne,

These 3 yrs don;t clash to either of you,so generally yes you can do it in any of the 3 yrs. A more specific way of determining which is a better yr will have to take a look at your Bazi to determine so.

20th Nov 2011 and 20th December 2012 does not clash to any of u. It will clash to Rooster for both days.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi purinne,

Yes, generally 3 months before and after your own wedding, you are not suppose to attend other people's wedding, funerals or wakes.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi kladen,

For these 2 days, see my answer in brackets:

- AD: 20 sep 2009 (not a general good day for wedding. Cannot be used)
- Dinner: 29 sep 2009 (general good day. does not clash to any of you)

Within the month of Sept, only 29th Sept can be used. The rest of the dates clashes to either your parents or either of you, or they are in the 7th lunar month.

 

[smallpotato]

Quote from Thursday, March 19, 2009 - 1:38am

Hi Verine,

Here are some general dates you can use:

- 03/06, 10/06, 14/06, 22/06, 26/06, 15/08, 02/10, 03/10, 08/10, 16/10, 25/10, 17/11, 29/11, 01/12, 06/12, 11/12, 13/12, 25/12

Hope this helps
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Hi David,

May i know the dates you gave me is it calculated based on Tong Shu or Bazi? Thanks!

 

[gin]

Hi Verine,
Sorry to interupt...

I think the dates quoted by Master Tong are all from Tong Shu which are generally good dates...and dun clashes with your animal/zodiac signs.

 

[thommy]

David can only give general Tong Shu dates here. Bazi method is chargeable.

 

[smallpotato]

Ooo.. IcIc... haha thanks Gin & Thomas =D

 

[purinne]

Dear Master Tong

Thank you for your advice

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Gin and Thomas,

Thanks for the reply

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Purinne,

You are welcome

 

[gin]

Verine and Master Tong,
Welcome ^^

 

[miwa_miharu]

Dear Master David Tong

Many thanks for advising me previously on the selection of wedding dates. I have a major issue with the dates now. Most of the dates are taken (when I am about to book for my wedding) and I am forced to look other dates. I would be most grateful if you could please advise if 24 January 2010 is generally good for wedding?

Our birthdays, animal signs and our parents' animal signs are as follows:

1) Bride
Birthday : 20 October 1980
Animal Sign: Monkey

2) Bridegroom
Birthday : 16 January 1980
Animal Sign: Sheep

3) Bride's parents
Dad's animal sign : Rat (1948)
Mum's animal sign : Rabbit (1952)

4) Bridegroom's parents
Dad's animal sign : Pig (1947)
Mum's animal sign : Pig (1947)

Kind regards
Miwa

Million thanks in advance.

 

[xmm79]

Hi Master David Tong,

Appreciate if you can advise on which are the general good dates suitable for weddings from April to May in 2010.

Our animal signs and parent's animal signs as follows:

1. Groom
Birthday 20th Feb 1975
Animal Sign: rabbit

2. Bride
Birthday 28th April 1979
Animal Sign: sheep

3. Groom's parents
Dad - Rat
Mom - Ox

4. Bride's parents
Dad - Snake
Mom - Snake

Many thanks in advance.

Ling

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Miwa,

It is not easy to find hotels with auspicious weekends dinner banquet dates for 2009 now. As far as i know, for Sat and Sun, many of the hotels are fully booked, esp those general auspicious dates.

24th Jan 2010 is not a general auspicious dates, although it does not clash to any of you.

17th Jan will be a better choice. And it clash to Rooster, which is none of you.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sing Ling,

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates, the Tong Shu is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2010 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

Hope this helps

 

[xmasxmas]

Hi David,

Is the timing of birth very crucial to the calculation of Bazi? If just take the D.O.B of the couple to calculate is it good enough?

Thanks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi xmasxmas,

Yes the time of birth is very crucial in the calculation of Bazi. A different time of birth can change the entire destiny of a person.

If you are talking in terms of destiny analysis, the time of birth is a must. Without it is at most 75% accurate, or even less. If you are speaking from the perspective of wedding dates selection, sometimes just the DOB is sufficient, but it depends on the Bazi. Some will suffice, some need the time of birth. I will have to see the Bazi in order to determine if just the DOB is sufficient.

Hope this helps

 

[cheenapork]

Hi David

Can I just ask if 21 Nov 2009 is a good wedding date (AD) for 29yo male (Monkey) and 26yo female (Pig)?

Thanks loads for your help!

 

[winson_tl]

Hi Master,

Please help with your valuable advice.

Groom: 15 Jun 1974 (Tiger)
Mum : Pig
Dad: Deceased

Bride: 01 Feb 1983 (Dog)
Mum: Horse
Dad: Rabbit

ROM: 01 May 2009
AD : 15 Feb 2010

Please advice on whether they are good dates?


Thanks in advance

 

[chobee]

Hi David,

I heard that it's not a good year for those born in the monkey year to get married in tiger year. Is it true?

 

[gin]

Master Tong ah,
If I want to attend FRIEND's wedding in Dec 09 and my wedding in Jan 10 ok or not ah?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cheenapork,

21 Nov 09 is not a good day for wedding purpose. Choose another day if possible. Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi winson_tl

ROM: 01 May 2009 - This day is ok. Does not clash to any of you.

AD : 15 Feb 2010 - This is a very bad date for wedding and any important activities. Avoid at all cost.

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi chobee,

This is true. If you born in yr of the Monkey and if you can wait, i would suggest you avoid the Tiger yr for your ROM or AD.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Gin,

Unfortunately you can't. Normally 3 months before and after your own wedding, you are not suppose to attend another person's wedding, funerals/wakes and child birth

 

[gin]

Thanks Master Tong...

 

[cheenapork]

thanks Master Tong! would 10 October 2010 be better then?

Thanks once again for your help

 

[sunshines]

hi Master,

I'm getting married in 2010. I hv booked restaurant for my AD on 27 Feb 2010. Is it a good date for us or which date is suitable for us , preferable it's a saturday

The restaurant still allow us to change the date by this month.

Appreciate your valuable advice. Tks


Groom: 27 Feb 1978 (horse )
Mum : Rooster
Dad: Dog

Bride: 26 Dec 1979 (Goat)
Mum: Rabbit
Dad: deceased

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Gin,

you r welcome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cheenapork,

That day will clash to Pig, which is you. Not advisable to use

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Audrey,

This is a very bad day for wedding!!! You have to change it no matter what.

Unfortunately i can't advise you which is a good date in Feb coz the tong shu is not out and i have to use Bazi to calculate it. But if it is a bad date, i will know coz every yr there are certain "bad dates" you definitely have to avoid, no matter what. The date you just chose falls into this category.

Btw, CNY for 2010 falls on Valentine's Day, 14/2. Some elderly don't like their children or grandchildren to get married during the CNY period. Just for your info coz 27th Feb is still within the CNY period as well.

Hope this helps.

 

[cheenapork]

Hi Master Tong

D: i just realised that next year is the year of the tiger and you've advised the monkeys to stay away from choosing the tiger year..

is there any good date at the end of the year (preferably after late Nov) for the Monkey and the Pig to do AD? asked my bf if he'd like to get married in 2011 and he says it's wayyyyy too far haha.

Thanks thanks thanks much!

 

[sunshines]

Hi Master,

Oh my GOD.i din know 27 feb is such a bad date! it is actually my hubby birthday..:<

Ok i will change the date.
Can i choose either one of these 3 dates- 6 march 2010 / 8 may 2010 &amp; 23 oct 2010? These 3 days all fall on sat

Tks again for ur advise

 

[amanda1982]

Hi Master Tong, I will like to check if my wedding date is on 22 May 2010 is suitable for us?
Bride: 5 July 1982 (Dog)
Groom: 19 July 1983 (Pig)

Thanks in advance for your advise.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cheenapork,

Nov 2010 and Feb 2011 is just 3 months away, so if possible, 2011 will be a better year for wedding.

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates, the Tong Shu is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2010 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Audrey,

6/3/2010 clash to Rooster, your hubby's mum.

8/5/2010 doesn't clash to anyone, but it is not a good day for marriage

23/10/2010 clash to Rat, so if none of you are born in yr of the Rat, then it is ok.

I can't guarantee if it is a really auspicious date for both of you coz that will need to see the Bazi of both of you to determine that. But at least this date don't clash to anyone.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Amanda,

22/5/2010 is a very bad day for wedding or other important activities. Avoid at all cost.

 

[bomohpang]

Hi Master Tong,

are 5 june 2010 &amp; 26 june 2010 good days for marriage?

do the dates clash with goat/horse/dog/rooster&amp; rabbit?

Tks in advance.

 

[xmasxmas]

Hi Master David Tong,

Can you advise me if 23 May 2010 is good for ROM / AD?

1) Bride
Birthday: 27 Dec 1981
Animal Sign: Rooster
Dad's Animal sign: Horse
Mum's Animal sign: Monkey

2) Bridegroom
Birthday: 24 May 1977
Animal Sign: Snake
Dad's Animal sign: Snake
Mum's Animal sign: Snake (Deceased)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi bomohpang,

5/6/2010 clash to Dragon, so it doesn't clash to any of you.

26/6/2010 is nota good date for marriage.

Hope this helps.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi xmasxmas,

23rd May 2010 clash to rabbit, therefore it doesn't clash to any of you. As for good or not, it must be determined using both of you Bazi. Assuming it is compatible with the day, then this day can be used for wedding.

 

[amanda1982]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks. Is there any reason why is a very bad day? I had tried to avoid the lunar 3rd month as it is the Qing Ming period. Then I will like to know if 06, 13 or 20 March or 15 May be suitable?

 

[cheenapork]

Hi Master Tong

We're thinking of 5 June 2010. Again, my bf's a Monkey, I'm a Pig, and our parents are Cow, Rooster, Horse and Goat.

Will this date be okay? Keeping my fingers crossed!

Thanks much

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Amanda,

22/5 is a bad day coz that day is a "Monkey" day, and it clash with the Tiger yr, hence in Chinese, we call this "Sui Po". This is a bad day for any important activities.

I will need to know your parents' animals signs as well so that i can see if those days clashes to your parents.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cheenapork,

Your crossing of fingers works

5/6/2010 does not clash to any of you.

Again, i need to let you know that this is not a guaranteed good day coz the Tong Shu is not out for general auspicious day and the Bazi also have to be taken into account to determine if this day is compatible with your Bazi. If you just want to ensure this date don't clash to anyone, then you can use this day.

Hope this helps.

 

[cheenapork]

Hi Master Tong

WAHHHHHHHH!!!! think it was all the joss sticks i offered this morning hahaha. thanks soooooo much! at least now we have a rough date to work with.

Thanks once again!

 

[gavin25]

Hi Master Tong,

Appreciate your advice on our AD?
AD: 7 Aug 2010

1. Groom
Birthday 25th Oct 1980
Animal Sign: Monkey

2. Bride
Birthday 26 July 1982
Animal Sign: Dog

3. Groom's parents
Dad - Dragon
Mom - Monkey

4. Bride's parents
Dad - Horse
Mom - Rooster

Thanks!

 

[rubypumps]

Dear Master Tong, Please advise on the wedding date.

AD 11 Sep 2010

Groom Bday 23/6/1981 Rooster
Groom Dad - Snake
Groom Mum - Goat

Bride Bday 6/9/1983 Pig
Bride Dad - Rabbit
Bride Mum - Monkey

One problem i faced is that they keep insisting that next year is not a good date for marriage, why is that so?

Please check for us if our mentioned date clashes with anyone?

You also mentioned that if we need more accurate readings, we need to give you our Bazhi which is our time of birth? What is the charge for reading Bazhi?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Fong,

7th August 2010 is not a good month to get married in. Every yr there will be one month that is bad (the month that clash with the yr), and in 2010, this date falls into that month.

If possible, avoid this month for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi G,

This date clash to Horse, so if none of you are born in yr of horse, it is ok. However, i only ensure this day don't clash to any of you. To see if it is really auspicious for both of you, the Bazi have to be used.

As for next yr no good for marriage, it is coz many elderly relate the atrributes of Tiger to the yr. They say next yr is not good coz Tigers are fierce etc, so not a good yr. This yr Ox also no good coz hard life. But all these are just superstitions. There is no logic or basis in it. There are still many many people married in yr of Tiger that are living happily ever after. If 100% of the people that gets married in Tiger yr divorce, then yes this is true. But we all know this is not true.

Many people may say Dragon is a good yr for marriage. But if you think back...is it really so? Is Dragon really a good yr for marriage? If you go by the above logic that "Tiger yr not good for marriage coz of its characteristics/attributes", then Dragon may be the worst year to get married in. Why? Your wife or husband will "fly" away with someone else!!!

I hope you get what i mean.

As for the Bazi thingy, i use Bazi to calculate your wedding dates. Bazi Destiny analysis is a different service I provide. For the rate for calculation of wedding dates using Bazi, can you drop me an email at [email protected] ? Or you can post your email online here and I will email you.

Hope this helps.