Hi Seow weekoon
28 Sep & 19 Oct does not clash to anyone. However, The tong shu for 2013 will only be out in Aug this yr, hence i can only check for general good dates after Aug. Right now, the only way is use Bazi to calculate the dates, which is the right and authentic mtd and bazi dates are personalised to both of you, whereas tong shu dates are for mass consumption only