Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Master Tong,

We are thinking for holding our ROM on 04 Sept 2011 or 11 Sept 2011. Would like to know if these dates are ok, if not what will be an auspicious date that you would recommend to us?
Zodiac sign for my family is:
Father pig
Mother rabbit
Elder bro tiger
Elder sis dragon
Bride cow

Family Zodiac for his family:
Father horse
Mother pig
Elder bro dragon
Groom chicken
 


Hi Giny

Within 100 days before and after your ROM, you cannot attend other's wedding/ROM, wakes and childbirth

U can email me at [email protected] and i will revert you with more info
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Hi Remus

Only the following are general good dates and don't clash anyone:

3) 9 November 2011
15) 02 December 2011
17) 06 December 2011
20) 09 December 2011

Hope this helps
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Hi Andrew

The tong shu for 2012 is not out yet. it will only be out in July/Aug period, hence can only check for general 2012 good dates after it is out. Right now the only way to select is using Bazi.
 
Hi boon2niko

2012 clashes with Dog only.

The tong shu for 2012 is not out yet. it will only be out in July/Aug period, hence can only check for general 2012 good dates after it is out. Right now the only way to select is using Bazi.
 
Hi xrevlis

No you can't. So long as it is witin 3 mths before and after your wedding, you cannot visit baby that is ful mth or less than one mth old. Basically from day one he/she is born till full mth, you cannot see him/her.
 
Hi Li Jun

4th Sept will be better. Clash to dragon and both of you and parents are not dragon. Siblings not counted. We don't factor in siblings. 11th is not good and clash pig, hence cannot be used
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can you help to advise for us a generic date between Oct - dec 2012? Preferable for a weekend date?

Groom - Pig
Groom Dad - Horse

Bride - Tiger
Bride Dad - Rooster
Bride Mom - Pig

Thanks!
 
Hi Mr David Tong,

Is year 2012 not good for those born in Year of Dog to get married?

Is there a reason why ?

We are thinking for holding our ROM in 17 Nov 2011 or 20 Nov 2011. Would like to know if these dates are ok, if not what will be an auspicious date that you would recommend to us?

Zodiac sign for my family is:

Father pig
Mother Horse
Elder bro Horse
Elder 2nd bro roster
Bride Rat

Family Zodiac for his family:
Father snake
Mother roster
Elder bro Goat
younger bro horse
Groom Dog

Thank you.
 
Hi Joysnow

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
Hi bluewingz

Yes, the year of the dragon clashes to Dog, hence for those born dog yr, not ideal for marriage (unless no choice HDB is pressing you for ROM cert for flat..then we can only choose the best among the yr).

17/11 clash to Horse, 20/11 clash Rooster, hence out.

12th Nov will be better (clash Ox). Siblings zodiac not taken into cosideration.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to have my solemnisation ceremony on the same day with my wedding dinner. May I seek your expert advise on when will be the best date for Yr2011 and Yr2012 for us to held both?

Groom: Horse
Groom's Dad: Tiger
Groom's Mum: Rabbit

Bride: Rat
Bride's Dad: Snake
Bride's Mum: Horse

Thank you in advance for your advise.

Look forward to hear from you soon.
 
Hi Paz

The 2012 tong shu is not out yet, hence can only advise after it is out in Aug if you are looking at only general dates. For now, the only way and correct way of doing it is using Bazi to select as Tong Shu dates are inaccurate and meant for mass consumption only. Basically if a day is good for marriage, how can it be good for everyone in the whole world?

In any case, by the time the tong shu is out, most of the weekends dates for hotels will be taken up. Hence the best time to select is before the tong shu is out.

For 2011, which month you looking at?
 
Hi David,

would like to ask can the groom follow along / drive the brides parents around when the brides parents are going around to distribute the cakes & cards to relative?

thks.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am looking at the following dates for my wedding dinner

- 1 December 2011
- 27 December 2011
- 5 January 2012

Could you advise which date is better? Also, if we are having the solemnisation on a different date from the wedding, do we need to check the dates for the solemnisation as well?

Groom - Dog
Groom Dad - Dragon
Groom Mum - Dragon

Bride - Rat
Bride Dad - Rat
Bride Mom - Pig

Thank you!
 
Hi discreed

Only 1 December 2011 is a general tong shu good date and don't clash anyone

Yes ROM is more impt than Banquet,hence you need a good date as well

**Note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible
 
Hi Paz

Here are some general tong shu good dates:

2011:

- 3/11, 09/11, 12/11, 20/11, 24/11, 02/12, 06/12, 13/12, 15/12

2012 (Jan):

- 02/01, 07/01, 09/01

**Note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

We have decided to choose 4/9/2011 for our wedding date

However, we are unsure on how to get the gatecrashing time. Can you help us?

groom: rat
groom's dad: tiger
groom's mom: rat

bride: tiger
bride's dad: dog
bride's mom: pig
 
Hi Master Tong,

A million of thanks for your advise. I will take note on that.

If we would like to use our Bazi to check and get the auspicious date which is compatible, how do we go about it?
 
HI Master Tong,

I am trying to decide between these dates for the most auspicious for me and my fiance.


June 30, 2012 Lunar date 5/12
July 7, 2012 Lunar date 5/19
September 22, 2012 Lunar date 08/07

Can you advise on which date is best? We will be having our wedding in Los Angeles, CA.

Bride - Rooster
Bride Dad - Rat
Bride Mom - Tiger

Groom - Snake
Groom Mom - Rabbit

Thank you so much!
 
Hi Master Tong

May I seek your expert advise on when will be the best date for Yr2012 for us to hold our customary wedding.

Groom: Rat
Groom's Dad: Cow
Groom's Mum: Boar

Bride: Rat
Bride's Dad: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Cow

Thank you in advance for your advise.

Look forward to hear from you soon.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am looking for a date to hold ROM in 2011, will prefer lunar 8th, 11th or 12th month. COuld you please list a few dates?

Groom: Ox
Groom's Mum: Horse
Groom's Dad: Rabbit

Bride: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Ox
Bride's Dad: Rat

Thanks for your help.
 
Hi Master David Tong,

Can you advise me if 06 Oct 2012/10 Oct 2012/16 Oct 2012 is good for wedding?

1) Bride
Birthday: 16 Nov 1986
Animal Sign: Tiger
Dad's Animal sign: Rooster
Mum's Animal sign: Pig

2) Bridegroom
Birthday: 19 July 1983
Animal Sign: Pig
Dad's Animal sign: Horse



Hi joysnow

6/10 clashes to Horse

10/10 and 16/10 are the super bad dates for wedding. Avoid

Hope this help.

(Previous post)

How about the following dates?
7/10/2012
13/10/2012
14/10/2012
20/10/2012
21/10/2012
27/10/2012
28/10/2012
03/11/2012
04/11/2012
10/11/2012
11/11/2012
16/11/2012
17/11/2012
18/11/2012
24/11/2012
25/11/2012
01/12/2012
02/12/2012
08/12/2012
9/12/2012
16/12/2012
 
Hi master tong



Wanna check whether 24th sep 11 is suitable
For my wedding?

Bride : ox
Mum : dragon
Dad : pig


Groom : pig
Mum : dog
Dad : dragon



Thanks for yo help
Regards!
 
Dear Master Tong,

Please could you advise whether 24 Dec 2011 is auspicous for our wedding day (+ROM)?

Bride: Monkey
Bride's parents: Pig (both)

Groom: Rabbit
Groom's mother: Bull (Groom's father deceased)

In addition, which date is good for guo da li?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check with you if my dad's birthday falls on 20/11, can I still hold my solemnization on that day?

Groom: Dog
Groom's mum: Snake

Bride: Pig
Bride's dad: Monkey
Bride's mum: Ox

I have checked on the Chinese calendar for weekends solemnization, there are only 2 dates suitable for us: 15/10/2011 and 20/11/2011. Is there any other dates we can take if 20/11/2011 will clash with dad's birthday as we are unable to take 15/10 too.

Thank you for your advise.
 
Hi Jayden

The fetch the bride time will be 9-11am. Gate crashing will be before that. U will need to step in to her home at 9am or after, and fetch her back to your home and finish tea ceremon by 11am. Going back her parent's home for tea ceremony no need any timing

Hope this helps
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Hi Aurelie Kyinn

July 7, 2012 is the only date that don't clash and possibility of having a good date.

However, the tong shu (almanac) is not out yet, hence will have to wait till Aug to determine if it is a general good date. Right now the only way and correct way to do it will be using Bazi (birthday and time of birth) to calculate. Bazi calculations of dates is personalised to both of you, whereas tong shu method is for mass consumption..ie generic only...it assumes if Dog can get married, then all the Dogs in the whole can get married, which as you know, in real life, this is not possible or true
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Hooe this helps
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Hi Lina

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2012, the Tong Shu for 2012 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2012 yet. Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 
Hi Kerl

Here are some general good dates:

- 4/9, 02/12, 13/12, 15/12, 02/01, 07/01, 09/01

**Note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible

Hope this helps
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Hi joysnow

06 Oct 2012 clash to Horse, cannot use.

10 Oct 2012 is a super bad date for wedding

16 Oct 2012 is a super bad date for wedding

Hence all 3 dates cannot be used
 
Hi merry

For all 2012 dates, now is the best time. In fact, most of the 2012 hotels dates are packed already and i already start to calculate 2012 dates for couples since last year this time. In July, i will start the 2013 dates. If you wait till tong shu is out, by then, all weekend dates will be gone for most popular hotels.
 
Hi cylvia

Yes that is a general good date for wedding and don't clash anyone. But do consider if anyone will turn up since it is X'mas eve and most people have their programs (which is y most hotels still have vacancies)
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Hi jetan12

Yes, if you consider general tong shu dates, then you are left with those 2 dates from Oct - Dec. Rest clashes.

Normally by feng shui it is ok to proceed, but by chinese superstition, some elderly don't like as it is a clash of luck, so most choose not to proceed. Hence it really depends on how pantang your family's elderly are
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Hi master tong,


Well .. Actually for some reason I have no choice to plan on 24th sep 11.. So is there anyway for me to do some thing? And may I know why , since sep is a bad mth for wedding.. Why there's still have alot of ppl plan on that mth? And most of the hotel are fully book for that mth? Some even say sep is a hot mth for wedding?
 
Hi Master David Tong,
1) Bride
Birthday: 16 Nov 1986
Animal Sign: Tiger
Dad's Animal sign: Rooster
Mum's Animal sign: Pig

2) Bridegroom
Birthday: 19 July 1983
Animal Sign: Pig
Dad's Animal sign: Horse

How about the following dates?
7/10/2012
13/10/2012
14/10/2012
20/10/2012
21/10/2012
27/10/2012
28/10/2012
03/11/2012
04/11/2012
10/11/2012
11/11/2012
16/11/2012
17/11/2012
18/11/2012
24/11/2012
25/11/2012
01/12/2012
02/12/2012
08/12/2012
9/12/2012
16/12/2012
 
Hi Master Tong

Sorry I forgot to state the date in my previous msg. I'm actually looking at the weekend in Feb 2012 most prob ard 17 Feb that weekend.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advise.

As my bridal shop said that 20/11/2011 is a hot date for them and all their makeup artists are fully booked. Are there any good dates for weekdays 2011 solemnization?

Groom: Dog
Groom's mum: Snake

Bride: Pig
Bride's dad: Monkey
Bride's mum: Ox

Thank you.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your previous advice on the ROM date. I am considering an alternative of holding ROM and wedding next year on lunar 8th, 9th and 10th. Could you advice a few weekend dates?

Groom: Ox
Groom's Mum: Horse
Groom's Dad: Rabbit

Bride: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Ox
Bride's Dad: Rat

Thanks for your help.
 


Hi master tong,
We have selected 27th nov 2011 as wedding date. The lady was recommended by mil. Now that everything is booked, my mum commented that the whole morning has bad timings until 11am. I am very upset because I was not advised so previously.

I'm Probably going to marry off from hotel so no burning of joss sticks etc. Does the timing still matters?

It's too late for me now. Really upsetting.
 
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