Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Master Tong,

I have read from your posts that this year is not a good year for rooster, may i know if the year of snake(2013), is it a bad year for those born in the year of boar?

Bride: Boar
Groom: Rooster

Thanks for your advise
 


Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold the wedding & dinner on 9 June 2012. Pls advise if it is a good day.

Groom: Rat
Groom's Dad: Snake
Groom's Mum: Ox

Bride: Dog
Bride's Dad: Horse
Bride's Mum: Dragon

Is it alright for Tiger to be the sisters for the day?


Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong, my brother is getting married in sep this year and I am also planning to get married early next year and we hear from some advice from our elderly that is better to have a gap of 4 months is it true?? please advise
 
hi master tong

just wanted to check 2 additional dates.. nov 5 2011 and jan 14 2012

bride and groom: rats
my side
mum: rabbit
dad: cow

groom's side
mum: pig
granny: pig

thanks! much appreciated!!
 
Dear Master Tong,

Please help me to check, whether 18 February 2012 (Lunar Date is 农历01月(大)27日) is auspicious day for wedding?
Groom : 30 June 1981 (Rooster)
Bride : 18 Sept 1980 (Monkey)
Groom's dad : Horse
Groom's mother : Pig

Bride's dad : Horse
Bride's mother : Sheep/goat

What the auspicious time to go out from the house and go to salon bridal? 06.00am ?
and we plan to have a wedding bless ceremony in the temple at 11.00am. And for the reception party at 19.00pm.

Please advice...thanks
 
Dear Master Tong,

Is 2012 a good year for our wedding?
We plan to hold around feb/mar after CNY.

Preferred dates: 12feb12, 11mar12

Groom: Pig 1983
Bride: Rat 1984

Groom's dad : Rabbit
Groom's mother : Monkey

Bride's dad : Monkey
Bride's mother : Rabbit

Siblings: Horse, Rat

Can you calculate the dates now for 2012 if the tongshu is not out yet? is it accurate?
What if the dates calculated using our bazi is not good dates in tong shu, does it matter?

Where are you located? Thanks!
 
Hi Eugene

Yes ideally in 2011 or 2114
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And yes, generally most elderly prefer not to hold wedding in a leap month (more for chinese superstitious reasons than feng shui...in feng shui, it is prefectly ok..but your parents wont like it!)
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Hi Shayna Tan

That date don't clash anyone (clash Goat). However, if it is a general tong shu good date for wedding or not, will have to wait till tong shu is out in July/Aug period.

So long as the sisters are not born Goat yr, it is ok to be the jie mei.
 
Hi Lyn Huang

Yes, ideally siblings cannot get married in same yr. If no choice, it must be at least 3 or 4 mths apart (depending on your family's belief). Otherwise, you cannot even attend each other's wedding!
 
Hi Stephanie Ng

Both dates don't clash, but they are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. Hence ideally it can only be used if the date and both your bazi are compatible.

Hope this helps
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Hi Dedi,

that day don't clash anyone (clash Rabbit). However, will have to wait tong shu is out to see if it is a general good date for wedding as the tong shu is not out yet. Now the only way to select will be using both your bazi.

Auspicious timing for fetch the bride will be 7-9am
 
Hi Jasline

So long as you are not born Dog yr, you can get married in 2012. If you want to see which yr is better, both your bazi will have to be analysed to tell, not from zodiac signs.

I've already done over 400++ couples for 2012 dates already. But the time the tong shu is out, most of the weekend dates for 2012 will be gone. Even for now, it is not easy to book the weekends dates for some hotels already.

Tong shu is general guide only and for mass consumption. It is not accurate. If you do some research, you will know. Dates selected by bazi are personalised to both of you, does'nt matter what the tong shu says eventually. think of it logically..everyday there will be someone in good luck and someone in bad luck right? Irregardless of what the tong shu says...

If you are keen on using bazi to select, drop me an email at [email protected] for more info.
 
Dear Master Tong,

My little brother will get married on October 2011, but I will get married on February 2012. Can I attend my little brother's wedding ?
Whether it's good if my little brother married first? because i'm as his older brother will get married after him.
Thank You.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the reply. My mother believe should be 4 mths apart but i will like to ask with our animal sign can we get marry in 2012??

My Brother: Rooster
His Wife to be: Dog

My sign: Dog
My husband to be: Dog

Understand dog is not advisable to get marry in 2012 but if our bazi allows can we still get marry??

Reason being my brother getting marry in Lunar month August 2011 if 4mths apart I can only marry in Lunar month December 2011 is it??

Pls advise..
 
hi master tong,

1. can my preg fren attend my ROM?

2. my other frens giving birth in may and their bb first mth celebration will be in mid jun, and my ROM is earli sept, can i attend their bb first mth celebration?

3. another fren giving birth in nov, can i go hospital and visit her and attend her baby full mth in dec when my rom is earli sept?

appreciate your advice, pls
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thks!
 
Hi Demut

Nowadays, it doesn't matter who get married first.

So long as it is more than 3 mths apart (or 4 mths if your parents believe in that), it is ok to attend.
 
Hi Raining,

As both of you are born Dog yr, Dragon yr 2012 will clash to both of you, hence not good for wedding.

Whatever technique you use it is the same. If really no choice, we just have to choose a good date within a not so good yr.

Yes ard Dec 2011 period. After 4 mths.
 
Hi xrevlis

1. can my preg fren attend my ROM?

No. By right if you are pregnant, you should not attend red and white events including wedding and wakes.

2. my other frens giving birth in may and their bb first mth celebration will be in mid jun, and my ROM is earli sept, can i attend their bb first mth celebration?

3 (or 4 mths depending on your parents belief) mths before and after your wedding, you cannot attend wedding, funeral and childbirth/full mth celebration.

3. another fren giving birth in nov, can i go hospital and visit her and attend her baby full mth in dec when my rom is earli sept?

Same answer as above
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Hi Master Tong,

I would like to ask if we should avoid getting married in year of snake 2013?

Does that mean 2012 is more suitable for us?

Bride: ox
Groom: pig

Thanks
 
Hi Master Dong
I am thinking of getting married in dec 2012 (either 18 dec 2012 or 20 dec 2012).
Hotek has been booked.
Groom: Horse
Bride: Pig

We plan to get married in 2012 (dragon year) before snake year. We pla to have baby in Horse year,

Any opinion?
for your advice.thks
 
Hi godbirdie

I need your parents zodiac signs as well. I can only check for you if the date will clash to any one or not. Whether if it will be a general tong shu good date or not will have to wait till the tong shu is out in July/Aug period.
 
Hi, my parents:
Groom 's Dad: Dog
Groom's Mum: Horse

Bride's Dad: Rabbit
Bride's Mum: Monkey

Oh, i did not know have to check parents' zodiac

Sorry, what you mean by Tong Shu?
So given the above parents details, is it sufficient to check if it is a good date?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would you please adv me which is the good day for moving house? am looking at the period between 24Apr-03May2011

Thanks in advance
 
Hi master tong,

Can i check if which day is better for me and groom?
We are deciding between 5 Nov 2011 or 17 Dec 2011

Bride: pig
Groom: dog

Thanks and lookin forward to your reply!!!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can i find out if 5 June 2011, 10 July 2011 or 25 Dec 2011 are good dates for me to get married?

Bride: Monkey 1980
Groom: Rabbit 1976

Appreciate your advice. Thank you
 
Hi, we have been given the wedding customary date on a Sunday. However, since all our relatives are from other states, we decided to hold a banquet on a Saturday. Is it ok to hold the combined banquet before the wedding ceremony? Thanks.
 
Dear Master Tong,

We are planning to hold the customary around November or December 2011

ROM preferred date: 20 Nov 2011
Customary preferred on December 2011

Groom: Tiger 16 Jul 1986
Bride: Ox 8 May 1985

Groom's dad : Dragon
Groom's mother : Snake

Bride's dad : Rabbit
Bride's mother : Snake

Siblings: Pig, Dragon, Monkey, Rooster

Can you find out the good date on November or December 2011 for getting married?

Thanks and looking forward for your reply.
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to celebrate our marriage in October to November of 2012. The dates we favour are 14, 21 or 28 of October 2012. Do you believe these dates are suitable?

Groom: Pig 03/01/1984
Bride: Tiger 09/04/1986

Grooms Dad: Tiger
Grooms Mum: Rooster

Brides Dad: Goat
Brides Mum: Dragon

Which would be the best date to get married? -and any dates we should avoid?
Thanks, and really appreciate your advice
 
Hi Master Tong,

My ROM date is on the 7/10/2011. We are planning to hold the customary in Nov or Dec 2012. Can you advice when is a good date to hold a customary wedding on a saturday?

Groom: Rooster 20/04/1981
Bride: Dog 28/10/1982

Groom's Dad: Rooster
Groom's Mum: Rat

Brides's Dad: Pig
Bride's Mum: Goat

Thanks and appreciate your advice.
 
Dear Master Tong,

Greatly appreciate if you would to suggest good dates in September 2011 to hold a customary wedding.

Groom: Horse
Bride: Pig

Groom's Dad: Snake
Groom's Mum: Monkey

Bride's Mum: Monkey

Thanks alot.
 
Hi godbird

Both dates don't clash to anyone. However, will have to wait till the tong shu is out in july to check if it is a general good date in the tong shu for wedding or not. Tong shu is the chinese almanac for checking general good dates.

The only way to select now is using Bazi, which is more accurate as it is personalised to 2 of you. Tong Shu is meant for mass consumption only.
 
Hi Lai KP,

Move house and start reno dates cannot be chosen generally using the tong shu. The dates chosen have to match the house direction and the occupants's bazi. Hence an authentic feng shui master will have to go down to your home to measure the house direction (to the exact degrees) before he can calculate the move in and reno dates.

If using tong shu, then it is as good as anyhow select one date coz the tong shu dont factor in the house direction, which is very important as in feng shui, every year, there are some directions that you cannot reno (call the San Sha/3 Killings and Sui Po) and the date chosen got to factor these in to make sure these area are not accidentally triggered , else all the negative qi in the house will be triggered and the occupants will suffer negative impact ranging from falling sick, loss of money, to the more extreme of surgery or death. Not to scare you , but personally i already encountered a lot of such cases..hence the reason why i don't give general tong shu start reno dates.

Hope this helps
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Hi Sumi,

I need your parents animal zodiac signs as well. Pls repost all your info again together in the next post with the parents' details
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Hi Jolene,

Normally the ceremony have to come fist, then the banquet. So far, i don't think i've encountered anyone doing this reverse order
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Hi eunie

The ROM date is ok as it don't clash anyone and is a genral tong shu good date for wedding.

For customary, here are some dec dates you can use:

- 2/12, 13/12, 15/12, 27/12

Hope this helps
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Hi steven luu,

generally 8th Oct - 6th Nov is not a good mth for wedding in 2012. The mth clahes with the year, hence we call it a Sui Po month. Avoid this period if possible
 
Hi May

8th Sept - 7th oct is not a good mth for wedding. Avoid this period if possible. The mth clash with the year, and this is call the Sui Po month.
 
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Hi Master Tong
Thanks for your feedback.
So for me,wedding is fine for either 18 dec 2012 or 20 dec 2012?
Any better date for wedding in Dec 2012?

Thanks
 


Hi Master Tong
Thanks for your feedback.
So for me,wedding is fine for either 18 dec 2012 or 20 dec 2012?
Any better date for wedding in Dec 2012?

Groom: Horse
Bride: Pig

Groom 's Dad: Dog
Groom's Mum: Horse

Bride's Dad: Rabbit
Bride's Mum: Monkey

ANy recommendations for other dates in Dec 2012?or based on bazi?


Appreciate alot for your kind advices.
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