Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Sean,

Yes if you are using a general tong shu good date. Engagement date can also be used for wedding
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Hi Joice

Whole yr is to big a range to select a date. Hence let me know which months you are considering. Just to let you know..if you are booking hotel banquets for weekends 2011, it is near impossible to book now.

As for which months to avoid, we have to use the bazi method of calculation. The tong shu general method cannot tell you that.
 
Hi Leng

Can you repost all your info again? As the thread gets longer, all the post are archived up and it takes me sometime to search thru all the threads. Tks
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Hi Brian

Can you repost all your info again? All the post are archived up as the postings increase and it will be take a while to seach thru all the previous thread to find all your records. tks
 
Hi hellogirl,

Both dates does not clash to anyone. Whether it will be a general tong shu good date or not will have to wait till the tong shu is out in July/Aug this yr.

The only way to do it now will be using Bazi to select the dates.

Frankly by the time the tong shu is out in July, all hotels weekends dates will be mostly gone
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Hello everyone,

I will be at Page One Bookstore @ Vivocity today and tomorrow (29th & 30th Jan), 2pm-6pm for a "Read Your Fortune Event 2011".I will be doing a Bazi Destiny Analysis roadshow at a super discounted rate of $18 for non Page One Members and $10 for Page One members for a 10-15mins session. This is a super discounted rate so if you want to try a Bazi Consultation but never have the chance to, do come down to Vivocity these 2 days. See you
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Hello Master Tong,

Please advise us whether these following dates are suitable for us to carry our wedding, both ROM and customary on the same day.

9 June 2012
16 June 2012
23 June 2012
8 Dec 2012
15 Dec 2012
22 Dec 2012


Groom: Dog
Groom's Mother: Snake
Groom's Father: Dragon

Bride: Dragon
Bride's Mother: Monkey
Bride's Father: Sheep (Passed away)

Thank you in advance!
 
Hi master tong,my geomancer has calculated based on bazi the date of marriage for my husband n I to be on 31 march 2012 but I just realized it is very near to the Qing Ming festival,I am very confused now and I am not sure whether shall I go ahead with the date?nobody gets married during the Qing Ming mth am I correct?which mth will it be for 2012 as in from which date to which date for the Qing Ming mth?
 
Hi Evelyn

The groom is born in yr of the dog, hence 2012 is not a good yr for wedding in the first place coz dragon n dog clashes. If possible do it another yr
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Hi Dawn

that date is already in the 3rd lunar month, the Qing Ming mth! This date, to be frank, should not be given in the first place coz too near Qing ming already n people already start to "sweep grave".

Qing ming is on 4th April in 2012, n usually people don't get married 10 days before n after this date. Most people will avoid the whole 3rd lunar mth
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Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

As mentioned in the above posts, Sep 2011 is considered a bad month for wedding. May I know if it is the whole month or part of it?

Thanks.
 
Dear Master Tong

Happy Lunar New Year.

Can I please find out whether December 2011 and January 2012 is suitable for our wedding.

Groom: Goat
Groom's Dad: Rat
Groom's Mum: Rat

Bride: Rabbit
Bride's Dad: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Tiger

Thanks very much for your help and advise. I really appreciate it.
 
I'm curious to know. If the animal clashed coincide with the siblings of the bride and the groom. How does the bride and groom go about avoiding it and still be able to carry on with the tea ceremoney?
 
Hi Master Tong,

Happy Lunar New Year to you!!

Can I please find out whether the following dates are suitable for our wedding.

1) 8 Oct 2011
2) 15 Oct 2011
3) 5 Nov 2011
4) 6 Nov 2011
5) 20 Nov 2011

Groom: Dragon
Groom's Dad: Rat
Groom's Mum: Ox

Bride: Horse
Bride's Dad: Pass away
Bride's Mum: Horse

Thank you very much for your help and advise.
 
Dear Master Tong

Happy Lunar New Year.

Can you help me to find out whether Nov/Dec 2012 and Jan/June 2013 is suitable for our wedding.

Groom: Tiger
Groom's Dad: Goat
Groom's Mum: Horse

Bride: Cow
Bride's Dad: Monkey
Bride's Mum: Cow

Thanks very much for your help and advise. I really appreciate it.
 
Hi Master David,

Happy New Year!
I attended your talk before.
Planning to get married somewhere end of March,April or May but understand in April there is ching ming, may i know which day is best and which day should i avoid other than the month of ching ming? Also would like to know is there any "pre-day" of ching ming or few days after ching ming that we should avoid?

Date of birth :-

me the bride : 9th Aug 1967 (goat)
groom : 2nd Feb 1967 (goat)
groom's dad : 1st May 1940 (dragon)
groom's mum : 11th May 1944 (monkey)

We are running out of time, your speedy reply is very much appreciated master David, many thanks!

Regards,
Cat
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am planning to get married on 4th Feb 2012. I read your previous posts for other couples, the li chun takes place on 4th/5th Feb every year, then the zodiac would change. Both me and my husband to be are both roosters, so we are not advisable to get married in the rabbit year, so is 4th Feb 2012, considered the rabbit or the dragon year, and is 4th Feb 2012 a good date for us? Thanks so much. Hope I can receive your advice soon!
 
I would like to get marry next year. Is there any å²ç ´ that is not suitable to get marry in 2012?

As the tong shu have not open, I can only wait till Sept to see the dates for next year. I have find one Master but they cannot see the date for us as they need to see the tong shu and ba zhi.

Groom's sister is getting married on 11 Nov 2011. Do we have to wait for the 3 months gap?

Groom is Monkey, Bride pig. We are considering 2012 JAn, Feb, MAY or Sept.
Thank you ;-)
 
Hi master tong, I want to ask you three mths before and after my actual day wedding date  cannot attend weddings n wakes den can give Ang bao and condolences money?
 
hi master tong, i am new.
i wonder that we can talk about my new home will moving in. not wedding date. our wedding is over, now we stay side with family in law at home. my new home already open and got key last month but renovation not start yet. when we will moving in? my papa in law choose good date for me is 21st march 2011. is it for good date? please advise. thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Happy Lunar New Year to you!!

Can I please find out whether the following dates are suitable for our wedding.

1) 8 Oct 2011
2) 15 Oct 2011
3) 5 Nov 2011
4) 6 Nov 2011
5) 11 Nov 2011 (Added date)
6) 20 Nov 2011

Groom: Dragon
Groom's Dad: Rat
Groom's Mum: Ox

Bride: Horse
Bride's Dad: Pass away
Bride's Mum: Horse

Thank you very much for your help and advise.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Happy Lunar New Year to you!!

I am wondering if is it alright for 2 dragons to marry in the Year of Dragon?

Thanks.
 
Hi fuyumi03,

They just need to hide when the groom come and fetch the bride and vice versa. And they cannot be the bridesmaid and bestman. Yes of course they can still do tea ceremony.
 
Hi preciousdivine

Only the following dates are general tong shu good dates and don't clash anyone:

1) 8 Oct 2011
2) 15 Oct 2011
5) 20 Nov 2011

** Note that this is a general good date only. It can be turn out to be inauspicious if the dates and both ur bazi are not compatible
 
Hi Zongyu

Happy CNY to you too
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To see which is a better yr will have to analyse both your bazi. Animal sign alone cannot do that. But these 2 yrs don't clash to any of u, so generally it is safe. All u need is a good date
 
Hi Cat,

Yes, Qing Ming is on the 5th Apr, hence normally we avoid the whole 3rd lunar mth for wedding. Also, normally 10 days before Qing Ming, we also don't hold weddings during that period

Here are the general 2011 tong shu dates you can use for march and may:

- 04/03, 17/03, 25/03, 12/05, 24/05, 26/05

** Note that these are general good dates only. It can still turn out to be inauspicious if the dates and both ur bazi are not compatible
 
Hi Swee Ping,

Normally i don't advise clients to get married on that day coz you have to look at the time where the animal signs transit. For 2012, it will turn into dragon yr at 1818hrs.Hence unless you do everything after that (that is, signing of ROM papers, fetch the bride, tea ceremony etc), then it is ok, but not possible as tea ceremony and fetch the bride is still in the morning, Rabbti yr.

In addtion, for 2012, that day is still within 15 days of CNY, and normally due to chinese superstition, we don't hold wedding within the CNY period.
 
Hi Shu fang,

So long as you are not born Dog yr, generally it is safe to do so in 2012.

When the tong shu is out for 2012 (somewhere Aug period this yr), by then, most of the weekends hotel banquet dates will be gone, left mostly the inauspicious ones. It will be bit too late, unless you going for weekends lunch or weekdays.

And yes, siblings by right cannot get married within the same yr. If no choice, at least 3 mths apart

Hope this helps
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Hi Dawn,

Yes you can give ang bao or condolences money via a 3rd party or on a different day. So long as you don't attend the wedding or wake, you will be fine
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Hi Ivy Goh,

Moving in and Start Reno is very very complex to choose. It CANNOT be chosen using a Tong Shu. That is totally wrong and inaccurate. A move in and start reno date has to factor in all the occupants bazi, as well as the house direction. The tong shu doesnt take these into account, only the aminal signs!

the house direction and bazi is very impt coz if a wrong date is chosen, you could activate the negative Qi in the house and suffer bad luck after moving in. Basically, any dates related to the house have to factor in the house direction. Tong Shu does not allow you to do so.

Hence this is the reason why i don't give out general tong shu dates for start reno and move in
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Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for speedy reply. In that case, I am not taking the 4th Feb date, is there any good auspicious dates in Feb weekend suitable for weddings. We are both roosters. And you also mentioned it is not favorable to marry within th 15 days of cny. Is there any other gd dates in Feb? What about 25 or 26 feb?

Thank again
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Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your reply.
Understand you said usually 10 days before the ching ming shoulf not hold any wedding,but......since we are runing out of time i was thinking no choice but to ROM on 29/3/2011 (which is 6 days before ching ming), so may i know how crucial is it?

Also may i know how do i check whether his pareants bazi clashes with us? is it the same method how i check me and the groom bazi on the year breaker, month and day breaker?

Your reply is very much appreciated, many thanks!

me the bride : 9th Aug 1967 (goat)
groom : 2nd Feb 1967 (goat)
groom's dad : 1st May 1940 (dragon)
groom's mum : 11th May 1944 (monkey)

Best Regards,
Cat
 
Hi Master Tong,

Gong Xi Fa Cai! Happy Lunar New Year to you!!

Can i check if 11.11.11 is suitable for my wedding.

Groom: Dog
Groom's Dad: Dog
Groom's Mum: Pig

Bride: Rooster
Bride's Dad: Tiger
Bride's Mum: Rabbit

Thank you in advance, Michelle
 
Dear Master Tong,

Would you be able to check if any of animal sign clashes with the year 2012 and 2013?

Groom: Rat
Groom's Dad: Monkey
Groom's Mum: Pig

Bride: Ox
Bride's Dad: Monkey
Bride's Mum: Pig

Thanks for your great advise!
 
Hi Master Tong

Can i check if 06.03.11 is suitable for my wedding

Groom : Rat
Groom's Dad : Tiger
Groom's Mum : Ox

Bride : Dragon
Bride's Dad : Rabbit
Bride's Mum : Goat

Thank u in advance.
 


Hi Master Tong

any advise for dates in May-Jun as well for 2011?

Bride: OX
Father: HORSE
Mother: ROOSTER

Groom: GOAT
Mother: DRAGON

thank you!
 
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