Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

yuki84

New Member
So sorry. I give the wrong date.

Groom: Dog
Groom's Dad: Snake
Groom's Mum: Horse

Bride: Rat
Bride's Dad: Monkey
Bride's Mum: Rat

Date: 10th Dec 2011
Thanks

Nat Chew, where did u see Master tong saying 10 dec 2011 is a bad day? OMG, dun scare me leh
 


lefabuleux22

New Member
Hi Master David,

Thanks for your advice.

Would like to trouble you again as we are unable to get the desired date in March with the hotel.
Any other dates that we can consider in Late April or early May 2011? (Sundays preferred)

Groom : Tiger (Mar 1974)
Groom's Dad : Snake
Groom's Mum : Dragon

Bride : Monkey (Aug 1980)
Bride's Dad : Dragon
Bride's Mum : Dog

Thanks in advance.
 

jazzswift

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your reply.

example:
Is an ROM date consider auspicious (calcuation from couple's bazi and both parents' sign) if both the father's sign clash with the bride's sign on that auspicious hour that date?

Instead of asking both fathers not to attend the solemisation process, is there any other way to allow them to attend without clashing the bride?

What will happen if both fathers attend the solemisation process as the witnesses.

**assuming that there are no other dates suitable for selection again.

Thank you. Please advise.
 

alvinmia

New Member
Hi Master David

Please help us to check if 07, 14 and 21 of May 2011 would be a good day for us to hold our ROM and Dinner.

Groom : Pig 1983
Groom's Dad : Rooster
Groom's Mum : Pig

Bride : Cow 1985
Bride's Dad : Cow
Bride's Mum : Goat
Bride's Grandpa : Horse

Thanks in advance.
 

xinyi71

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to consult you. If my htb’s younger brother is holding their wedding in 2011, can we hold our wedding in the same year? How long apart must our wedding be from theirs? If can’t do in the same year, would like to consult if 25th November 2010 is a good date for us.

Groom : Dog
Groom's Dad : Sheep
Groom's Mum : Snake

Bride : Dog
Bride's Dad : Cow
Bride's Mum : Dragon

Thanks alot~
 

pei78

New Member
Hi Master David,

Please help us to check which of the following dates 28 May,4 June or 25 June 2011 is the best day for us to hold our ROM and Dinner.

Groom : Snake 1977
Groom's Mum : Dragon 1952

Bride : Horse 1978
Bride's Dad : Rooster 1945
Bride's Mum : Pig 1947


Thanks in advance.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nat,

Both dates does not clash to anyone. 10th Dec is not an ideal date for wedding coz everyday has a purpose. The purpose of this day is not meant for wedding use, hence normally i won't choose this day, unless no choice (but day must also be compatible with Bazi to use this day, else will be a bad day).

For 15th Oct, it is better. Note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet. And i also don't know if 15th Oct will be a good tong shu day for wedding as the tong shu is not out yet.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Lee Ling,

Late April and early May is in the Qing Ming 3rd lunar month, hence normally no one gets married in that month.

Also the tong shu is not out yet, hence i can't select for u dates based on tong shu now.

Hope this helps
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jazzswift,

I don't understand your question. Do you mean the father's animal signs clashes with the couple's animal sign? If this is so, then everyday also cannot get married??
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We only consider the day clashes to the couple as well as the parents, NOT the parents clashes with the couple (if i get your qns correctly). If i am wrong, pls elaborate more about your qns
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Alvin Quah,

Only 7th May doesn't clash to anyone, hence a 'potential" good date. Will have to wait for tong shu to be out to see if it is a general good date. However, if bazi is compatible with that date, then it can be used.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Xinyi,

By right, sibling's weddings should be 1 year apart. However, some cannot wait that long, hence some do it in different calendar years. If there is really no way to resolve this, at the very minimum, 3 months apart. This is "by left". So i would prefer the "by right" method
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Btw, both of you are born Dog yr, hence 2012 Dragon yr is a bad yr for both of you to get married in, so you have to do it 2011 or 2013
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Rebecca,

28 May & 4 June does not clash to any of you. If u are looking at general dates only, then when tong shu is out and if this is a good day, it is ok to use. However, note that bazi is not taken into consideration yet. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the date and Bazi is not compatible, hence also your "Unlucky Day".

Hope this helps.
 

jazzswift

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thak you for your reply.

Do you mean that the selected rom date must be suitable for both couple's bazi and both parents' animal sign?

What shall we do if the date selected is good for both couple's bazi but not good for both father because both father's sign clash with the bride ON THAT DATE.

Anyway, we hope both our parents can attend our rom.

Please advise on the above. Thank you in advance.
 

timsahoy

New Member
Hi Mr Tong,

My fiancee and I are thinking of getting married on Dec 3rd 2011.

Our birthdays are as follows:
Timothy-2nd October 2011 (rat)
Jenny- 9th August 2011 (rat)

Tim's dad: Rabbit 1951
Tim's mum: Goat 1956

Jenny's dad: Rat 1948
Jenny's mum: Dragon 1952

Could you advise us whether 3rd Dec 2011 is a good date? any auspicious dates or bad dates on Dec 2011 or June 2012?

Thanks for your help.

Timothy & jenny
 

lluv_angel

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check if 5 Feb 2011 (lunar date) is a good date for our ROM.

Groom DOB: 28 Jun 82 (western date) Dog
Bride DOB: 4 Nov 81 (western date) Rooster

Bride Dad horoscope: Sheep
Bride Mom horoscope: Dog
Groom Dad horoscope: Sheep
Groom Mom horoscope: Cow

Thank you very much!
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi jazzswift,

The selected date must be compatible with the couple only. For parents, we just make sure the date don't clash with them. So long as the date seleced don't clash with parents (and it should not be...), they will defnitely be able to attend your ROM.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Timonthy Song,

3rd Dec 2011 does not clash to any of you (clash Dog). However, will have to wait for tong shu to be out if you want to know if it is a general good date for wedding. As the tong shu is not out yet, i can't advise you on general good dates for 2011. It will be out next month. Now the only way and right way will be using Bazi to select the dates.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Siew Pei,

That will be 9th March? (it will be good to use english dates here for ease of understanding
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If it is, that day will clash Snake, which is none of you. Whether if it is a general good date for ROm will have to wait for tong shu to be out next mth
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi minttychoco,

The pregnant lady's luck will be affected, not yours. Normally, we view it as a clash of luck (coz pregnant is considered a "red" or "auspicious" event).
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Irene,

That is a general tong shu good date for wedding. However, it clashes to Rooster that day. If none of your parents are Rooster, then ok to use (note that Bazi is not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the date and bazi is not compatible)

Hope this helps
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didee

New Member
Hi David

Is it true that a couple is not supposed to do anything that is related to the wedding / do any wedding planning during the lunar 7th month (hungry ghost festival)? It is bad for the couple is it?

TIA!!!

And thank you so much for giving me the timing for the lunch... realized that it is my bad, had informed you that it was dinner then we later changed to lunch... so so sorry!!! thank you again for giving me the timing!!!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi didee,

Wedding planning is ok, no problem. Those are just 'hearsay" that "so and so says that ...". There is no logical basis to it. So long as we try to avoid getting married in 7th month (which by right, according to pure feng shui rules, you can..), that is good enough.

However, if your parents insist cannot, then avoid doing it to please them
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BUT in Chinese Metaphysics, there is no such rule. that is pure superstition or hearsay only.

Hope this helps
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starr

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
could you advise if 29 Oct 2011 is a suitable date for solemnisation and actual day? Thanks!

Bride: 1983 Pig
Groom: 1982 Dog

Bride's Mum & Dad: 1952 Dragon

Groom's Mum: 1946 Dog
Groom's Dad: 1945 Rooster

Thanks very much!!
 

sangqing

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
I was told to complete the tea ceremony at the groom's side between 0700-0859.

If the relatives are late, does that mean I cannot serve tea to them anymore once I pass the good timing?
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sang Qing,

For this timing, relatives will definitely be late!
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Most importantly, you must complete tea ceremony to your parents within the 2 hrs. If the relatives are late, you can always serve tea to them when they arrive. It is ok even if it is past 9am for the relatives.

Hope this helps
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raineebowz

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Could you kindly advise which of the following dates are ideal to have our wedding dinner and tea ceremony - 19 Feb 2011, 26 Feb 2011, 20 Mar 2011.

Groom: 12 Jul 1979, Goat
Bride: 21 Apr 1981, Rooster

Groom's Mum: Dragon 1952
Groom's Dad: Tiger 1950

Bride's Mum: Rabbit 1951
Bride's Dad: Dragon 1953

Thank you very much!
 

bbekandy

New Member
Hi David,

Please help advise if 17/09/2011 is a good day to get married!

Groom : Rabbit
Groom father : Rat
Groom mother : Dragon

Bride : Snake
Bride's father : Pig
Bride's mother : not around.

Thanks!!!
 

kozmik

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you please tell me if any of the following dates are good for a wedding:

Saturday July 9, 2011
Saturday July 23, 2011
Saturday July 30, 2011

Here are the relevant birthdays:

Bride: June 24, 1985; ox
Bride's mum: Rat
Bride's dad: Snake

Groom: March 23, 1983; pig
Groom's mum: Snake
Groom's dad: Tiger

Thank you so much!
 

sangqing

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Haha..ya..it is damm early!

Btw, do you mean I must serve tea to my husband's parents within the 2hours and this timing does not include my parents right?

All the while I thought I need to finish the tea ceremony by 0859, including relatives.
 


yuchi

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if 4 and 25 June 2011 is a good date for us to conduct our soleminsation and chinese matrimony?

Both of us are rooster, 1981.
 

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