Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)
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Hi Master Tong,
Thanks for your help... know that 2010 is not really a gd year for MONKEYS... so we select year 2011 which you mention the tong shu will only be out later in 2010.
You also mention BAZHi will be more accurate in calculating is it referring to our DOB?
Mine is Dec 19 1980 MY HTB is Jul 14 1980, both of us are in the year of MONKEY.. thinking of Nov 20 2011 is that date feasible? thinking of earlier date too.. Do advise me (''/)
Thanks in advance.
Sheena
Thanks for your help... know that 2010 is not really a gd year for MONKEYS... so we select year 2011 which you mention the tong shu will only be out later in 2010.
You also mention BAZHi will be more accurate in calculating is it referring to our DOB?
Mine is Dec 19 1980 MY HTB is Jul 14 1980, both of us are in the year of MONKEY.. thinking of Nov 20 2011 is that date feasible? thinking of earlier date too.. Do advise me (''/)
Thanks in advance.
Sheena
Hi Master Tong,
Can you help me to check whether 11 or 12 Mar 2010 is an auspicious date for ROM and wedding dinner (I'm planning to do it on the same day):
Groom: Ox (1985)
Groom's Brother: Monkey (1980)
Groom's Mother: Pig (1961)
Bride: Rat (1984)
Bride's Father: Goat (1955)
Bride's Mother: Monkey (1956)
If both of these dates are not good, then i will wait for 2011.
Many thanks in advance.
Can you help me to check whether 11 or 12 Mar 2010 is an auspicious date for ROM and wedding dinner (I'm planning to do it on the same day):
Groom: Ox (1985)
Groom's Brother: Monkey (1980)
Groom's Mother: Pig (1961)
Bride: Rat (1984)
Bride's Father: Goat (1955)
Bride's Mother: Monkey (1956)
If both of these dates are not good, then i will wait for 2011.
Many thanks in advance.
cmg_consulting
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Hi Sze Sze,
It will be hard for me to advise you on this coz i don't know how the master select the dates etc etc. I guess the only way at this moment is which master you feel more comfortable and use his/her dates. Also very importantly, how he explain to you the dates are dervied (or any explanations to the dates) so that you know it is not "plucked from mid air" and give it to you
It will be hard for me to advise you on this coz i don't know how the master select the dates etc etc. I guess the only way at this moment is which master you feel more comfortable and use his/her dates. Also very importantly, how he explain to you the dates are dervied (or any explanations to the dates) so that you know it is not "plucked from mid air" and give it to you
cmg_consulting
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Hi Kimono,
You can use any of the 2 dates if these 2 dates are good and compatible with both your Bazi.
In authentic date selections, we don't take into account chinese culture, superstitions or beliefs. Hence the popular belief that 8th lunar mth is the best for wedding is not correct. So does 10/10/2010. Put it this way...we all know that there are many many people that got married in these so call "good dates" still going thru divorce, correct?
Hence, you don't have to take into account these factors too seriosuly. Just ensure that is a good date for both of you, and just choose one that you feel you like better
You can use any of the 2 dates if these 2 dates are good and compatible with both your Bazi.
In authentic date selections, we don't take into account chinese culture, superstitions or beliefs. Hence the popular belief that 8th lunar mth is the best for wedding is not correct. So does 10/10/2010. Put it this way...we all know that there are many many people that got married in these so call "good dates" still going thru divorce, correct?
Hence, you don't have to take into account these factors too seriosuly. Just ensure that is a good date for both of you, and just choose one that you feel you like better
cmg_consulting
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Hi bomohpang,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi Gina,
For parents and in-laws, we just need the animal signs will do. I only need the Bazi (birthday and time of birth) for both of you.
For parents and in-laws, we just need the animal signs will do. I only need the Bazi (birthday and time of birth) for both of you.
cmg_consulting
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Hi Sheena,
Bazi refers to your birthday and time of birth.
However, for 2011 dates, I won't be able to provide general good dates now as the tong shu is not out yet till next year 7th lunar mth. For Bazi Wedding Dates selection, it is part of my consultation service, hence i can't provide it here free or it will be unfair to all my clients who engaged me for this service. Hope you understand
Bazi refers to your birthday and time of birth.
However, for 2011 dates, I won't be able to provide general good dates now as the tong shu is not out yet till next year 7th lunar mth. For Bazi Wedding Dates selection, it is part of my consultation service, hence i can't provide it here free or it will be unfair to all my clients who engaged me for this service. Hope you understand
cmg_consulting
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Hi Sher,
This is just a chinese belief/superstition. To me, so long as you are comfortable with it, you can still proceed. After that, it will not impact your marriage (a person's marriage is determined by his/her destiny chart at the time when you are born), not to worry.
This is just a chinese belief/superstition. To me, so long as you are comfortable with it, you can still proceed. After that, it will not impact your marriage (a person's marriage is determined by his/her destiny chart at the time when you are born), not to worry.
cmg_consulting
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Hi snow_tea,
March 11 and 12 2010 are both very bad dates for wedding. Not advisable to use.
March 11 and 12 2010 are both very bad dates for wedding. Not advisable to use.
Hi Master Tong,
Need to seek your advice on whether 20 May 2010 is a good date to get married based on the details below.
Groom: Monkey
Groom's father: Monkey
Groom's mother: Rooster
Bride: Pig
Bride's father: Pig
Bride's mother: Monkey
I read from one of your earlier post that Year of Tiger is not a good year for Monkey to get married. Would using Bazi to calculate the marriage date be a good way to mitigate this?
Tks in advance!
Need to seek your advice on whether 20 May 2010 is a good date to get married based on the details below.
Groom: Monkey
Groom's father: Monkey
Groom's mother: Rooster
Bride: Pig
Bride's father: Pig
Bride's mother: Monkey
I read from one of your earlier post that Year of Tiger is not a good year for Monkey to get married. Would using Bazi to calculate the marriage date be a good way to mitigate this?
Tks in advance!
cmg_consulting
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Hi purinne,
This is pure superstition. Not to worry. This is definitely NOT true
This is pure superstition. Not to worry. This is definitely NOT true
cmg_consulting
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Hi Gina Soh,
We don't take the birth data of grandparents and siblings into consideration for wedding dates selection. Only both of you and your parents
We don't take the birth data of grandparents and siblings into consideration for wedding dates selection. Only both of you and your parents
cmg_consulting
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Hi juaaany,
I will need both your animal signs as well as your parents.
I will need both your animal signs as well as your parents.
cmg_consulting
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Hi che,
That is a very bad day for wedding. Avoid at all costs.
To check for general dates, i need your parents animal signs as well.
That is a very bad day for wedding. Avoid at all costs.
To check for general dates, i need your parents animal signs as well.
cmg_consulting
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Hi Zay Liew,
That day is not ideal for wedding. Better dates can be chosen.
Bazi calculations will not override the fact that getting married in tiger year (for those born in Monkey years) is not good. You can't mitigate this. It is still best to avoid this year. If you really really have to do it in tiger yr, then you have to use Bazi calculations (instead of just general tong shu dates) to make sure that day is really good (note that this will not mitigate the problem, but just to make sure at least the date is good under this scenario).
That day is not ideal for wedding. Better dates can be chosen.
Bazi calculations will not override the fact that getting married in tiger year (for those born in Monkey years) is not good. You can't mitigate this. It is still best to avoid this year. If you really really have to do it in tiger yr, then you have to use Bazi calculations (instead of just general tong shu dates) to make sure that day is really good (note that this will not mitigate the problem, but just to make sure at least the date is good under this scenario).
cmg_consulting
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Hi Kimono,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi Veron C,
You can buy it in Popular bookstores or Kinokuniya (think they sell it too). Or you can try those neighbourhood shops that sells chinese incense sticks or Waterloo street area.
You can buy it in Popular bookstores or Kinokuniya (think they sell it too). Or you can try those neighbourhood shops that sells chinese incense sticks or Waterloo street area.
cmg_consulting
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Hi purinne,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi bling,
this date clash to Ox. Since none of you are born in Ox yr, it does not clash to anyone. This is a also a general tong shu day for wedding. Note that Bazi is not taken into account yet as a date stated as auspicious in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious for both of you if the date is not compatible with your Bazi. Tong Shu is more for mass consumption only.
Hope this helps
this date clash to Ox. Since none of you are born in Ox yr, it does not clash to anyone. This is a also a general tong shu day for wedding. Note that Bazi is not taken into account yet as a date stated as auspicious in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious for both of you if the date is not compatible with your Bazi. Tong Shu is more for mass consumption only.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
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Hi Sher & Gina Soh,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi Veron C,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi tan,
Whether if a baby is good for you in the Tiger year will have to see both your Bazi. Furthermore, to be exact, after the baby is born, the Bazi (birthday and time of birth) has to be anaylsed to see if the baby brings bad luck to the parents etc etc. Hence Tiger year alone is insufficient to determine if the baby is good for both of you. This is too superficial.
Hope this helps
Whether if a baby is good for you in the Tiger year will have to see both your Bazi. Furthermore, to be exact, after the baby is born, the Bazi (birthday and time of birth) has to be anaylsed to see if the baby brings bad luck to the parents etc etc. Hence Tiger year alone is insufficient to determine if the baby is good for both of you. This is too superficial.
Hope this helps
cmg_consulting
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Dear all,
I will be conducting a second run of the Wedding Feng Shui Seminar on the 14th November 2009 (Saturday) at SMU. Seats are limited so do register early if you are keen
This seminar is unique in a way that the contents are specially designed and catered for couples who are getting married soon. As far as I know, we are the pioneers in this field and my aim is to address and answer all your doubts so that at the end of this 4 hours seminar, you will leave fully prepared, knowing what to do for your wedding. You will have a clear idea what is a must to do for your wedding and what is a superstition, which if not followed, will not affect your marriage.
You will also gain a full understanding how authentic Feng Shui and Bazi works and how it can help you in changing your destiny and daily lives. I will also show you techniques on how you can select a property on your own. Some of these techniques are worth its weight in gold, if you apply them. Getting it wrong in the first place will bring disasterous results to the feng shui of your house. You will also learn tips and tricks on face reading and palmistry to understand a person's character, which can be used to improve relationship.
For full details about this seminar, check out the September section of David's Blog on my website at www.cmgconsulting.com.sg
I will be conducting a second run of the Wedding Feng Shui Seminar on the 14th November 2009 (Saturday) at SMU. Seats are limited so do register early if you are keen
This seminar is unique in a way that the contents are specially designed and catered for couples who are getting married soon. As far as I know, we are the pioneers in this field and my aim is to address and answer all your doubts so that at the end of this 4 hours seminar, you will leave fully prepared, knowing what to do for your wedding. You will have a clear idea what is a must to do for your wedding and what is a superstition, which if not followed, will not affect your marriage.
You will also gain a full understanding how authentic Feng Shui and Bazi works and how it can help you in changing your destiny and daily lives. I will also show you techniques on how you can select a property on your own. Some of these techniques are worth its weight in gold, if you apply them. Getting it wrong in the first place will bring disasterous results to the feng shui of your house. You will also learn tips and tricks on face reading and palmistry to understand a person's character, which can be used to improve relationship.
For full details about this seminar, check out the September section of David's Blog on my website at www.cmgconsulting.com.sg
Hi David,
My dad just passed away and I understand that I will need to hold my wedding within 100 days of his passing.
1) Must it be after 49 days?
2) Can I have my ROM first then customary later? If this is the case does it mean that my customary have to be 3 years later?
3) Any other things that I need to take note of?
Thank you for your kind attention.
My dad just passed away and I understand that I will need to hold my wedding within 100 days of his passing.
1) Must it be after 49 days?
2) Can I have my ROM first then customary later? If this is the case does it mean that my customary have to be 3 years later?
3) Any other things that I need to take note of?
Thank you for your kind attention.
macadamia3050
New Member
Hi Master Tong,
So sorry to bother you again, could you advise if 12 Dec 2010 is good for wedding?
Groom: Pig (1983)
Groom's Dad: Dog (1946)
Groom's Mum: Pig (1947)
Bride: Pig (1983)
Bride's Dad: Dog (1946)
Bride's Mum: Sheep (1955)
Many thanks in advance!
So sorry to bother you again, could you advise if 12 Dec 2010 is good for wedding?
Groom: Pig (1983)
Groom's Dad: Dog (1946)
Groom's Mum: Pig (1947)
Bride: Pig (1983)
Bride's Dad: Dog (1946)
Bride's Mum: Sheep (1955)
Many thanks in advance!
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi Aiko,
My condolences to you and your family.
1) Must it be after 49 days?
>> Some people practice this, but not everyone. So it really depends on your family's beliefs. So long as it is within 100 days, it will be fine.
2) Can I have my ROM first then customary later? If this is the case does it mean that my customary have to be 3 years later?
>> Yes you can ROM first, no problem. Nowadays, people seldom practice the 3 years wait. Normally 1 year will suffice. This is a mark of respect for the deceased person. 3 years is too long...
3) Any other things that I need to take note of?
>> That will be all. Either you do it within 100 days or 1 year later (unless your family insist on the 3 years thingy...)
Hope this helps.
My condolences to you and your family.
1) Must it be after 49 days?
>> Some people practice this, but not everyone. So it really depends on your family's beliefs. So long as it is within 100 days, it will be fine.
2) Can I have my ROM first then customary later? If this is the case does it mean that my customary have to be 3 years later?
>> Yes you can ROM first, no problem. Nowadays, people seldom practice the 3 years wait. Normally 1 year will suffice. This is a mark of respect for the deceased person. 3 years is too long...
3) Any other things that I need to take note of?
>> That will be all. Either you do it within 100 days or 1 year later (unless your family insist on the 3 years thingy...)
Hope this helps.
cmg_consulting
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Hi bling,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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Hi Zay Liew,
You are welcome
You are welcome
cmg_consulting
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hi macadamia3050,
That day is a very bad day for wedding. Avoid at all costs.
Hope this helps
That day is a very bad day for wedding. Avoid at all costs.
Hope this helps
macadamia3050
New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Sigh, thanks very much again!
Sigh, thanks very much again!
cmg_consulting
Active Member
Hi macadamia3050,
You are welcome. Are those dates left over by hotels? If it is, high chance it will not be good coz the good ones are normally already taken by this time.
You are welcome. Are those dates left over by hotels? If it is, high chance it will not be good coz the good ones are normally already taken by this time.
cmg_consulting
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Hi Kit,
This day will clash to Dog, which is the Groom's dad. Hence cannot be used.
Hope this helps
This day will clash to Dog, which is the Groom's dad. Hence cannot be used.
Hope this helps