Hi Barbie Girl,
I rest assured you that it doesn't mean if you are a dragon and your hubby is a dog, that means both of you are incompatible. This is a very simple and elementary way of analyzing compatibility. I've seen many couples' bazi who are born in the year of dragon and dog (as well as other animals sign where they are suppose to clash) and they are living happily together with no marriage problems.
I've actually wrote an article on this at David's Blog on my website at www.cmgconsulting.com.sg
. If you have the time, you can read the article and hopefully it will help to clarify some of your doubts and misconceptions.
Since your ROM is over in 2006, I suggest we don't look back to check if it is good or bad. Reason being that it is already over and since we cannot turn back time, I do not want you to get paranoid over the dates if it happen to be not so good etc.
What I suggest is that you choose a good AD date with a good timing for fetching the bride. By the way, for 2009 weekend auspicious dates, it is almost near impossible to book now as many banquet venues are fully booked. You might have to consider lunch or weekdays if you really want to hold it during that period.
I always believe we should focus on doing what we can control. What's beyond our control, there is no point worrying.
I hope this answers your question Barbie Girl
Have a Happy New Year.