Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tutubun

based on lunar year

1st march 2020 is not a general good date for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jacqueline Tan

9th aug is a general good date for wedding, dont clash any of u

lunar 6th mth thingy is no logic old pple superstition/hearsay, no feng shui logic. But then sometimes u just have to please them!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi ponica

if you mean your wedding day clash Pig, then that it fine. we only factor both of u and parents. if factor everyone, u dont need to get married already!

they just need to hide during gatecrash and cannot be your key role like bridesmaid etc

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tian Le

email me at [email protected]

 

[Mello]

Hi Master Tong,

We would like to seek your kind advise on our ROM date in October 2019.

My zodiac below:
Groom - Dog
Bride - Pig

Groom’s parents - Rooster and Rat
Bride’s parents - Rabbit and Dog

Thanks very much in advance!

 

[SummerCherry]

Hi Master David,

Seeking your kind advice on wedding 吉时for 嫁娶 on 23/11/2019

Groom: Pig
Bride: Tiger

Groom Mother: Ox
Bride Father: Tiger
Bride Mother: Snake

 

[xBABY]

Hello Master Tong,
We would like to seek your kind advise on our ROM date in December 2019/January 2020?

Groom: 15th Dec 1992 Monkey
Bride: 08th Nov 1990 Horse

Groom's Father: Rat
Groom's Mother: Pig
Groom's Younger Brother: Dog

Bride's Father: Snake
Bride's Mother: Rabbit
Bride's Younger Sister: Rooster
Bride's Grandma : Tiger

Thank you very much in advance!

 

[skyshades]

Hi Master Tong,

Will like to seek your expert advice on suitable dates to hold wedding in 2020? Looking at Sept/ Oct 2010.

Groom's birth date: 29/06/1987, Rabbit
Bride's birth date: 26/09/1986, Tiger

Groom's father and mother: Monkey
Bride's father: Snake
Bride's mother: Goat
Groom's sister: Cow
Bride's sister: Dragon

Looking forward to your reply!
Thanks very much!

 

[8283ww]

Hi Master Tong,

Will like to seek your advice on my zodiac for the purpose of picking auspicious wedding dates.

My birth date is on 08 Feb 1983. Am I a dog or pig by zodiac? I’ve heard two different saying: to follow 正月初一， so I’m a dog zodiac, and to follow 立春 which I should be a pig zodiac.

To be safe, do I avoid those dates that 冲狗 and 冲猪？But seems to limit my choices further, we’re looking at weekends of second half of 2020... e.g. 04 Oct 20 (冲狗), 01 Nov 20, 08 Nov 20, 19 Dec 20....

Groom - Dog/Pig???
Bride - Horse

Groom’s Father - Dragon
Groom’s Mother - Goat
Groom’s Grandma - Rat
Groom’s Brother and SIL - Monkey and Rooster
Groom’s Nephews - Pig and Rabbit

Bride’s Father - Rat
Bride’s Mother - Dragon
Bride’s Brothers - Tiger and Snake

For your kind advice, please.
Thank you very much.

 

[Sheryl Yeo]

Hi Master Tong,

The auspicious timing for my wedding is between 7am - 12pm. This means that the Chinese ritual (接新娘，敬茶， etc) must be done within this timing. However, does our ROM (signing of marriage certificate) need to be within this timing too? Because we plan to have our ROM and AD on the same day. Could our ROM be in the evening before the dinner reception as suggested by the wedding planner?

Thank you so much for yr advice!

 

[jellyoh]

Dear Master Tong.

I’ve seek advice from my mum’s to-go geomancer in regards to my Actual Day.

Before going to him, I’ve checked online in regards to the dates and saw that 11th July is a no-no as fiancé and I are both born in the year of Rooster in 1993. However, he told us that 11th & 18th July are very auspicious dates that we can look at. So we actually have our doubts and went with 18th instead, as that’s one of the auspicious dates I saw online too..

Acc to him, 18th July clashes with Tiger, but again, the online one indicates that 18th July clashes with Dragon instead.. Appreciate if you can advise us in regards to the clashing part..

Also understand that auspicious timing on 18th is between 9-11am, does that means that gatecrashing should start at 9am or earlier?

Groom: Rooster, 9 Dec 1993
Bride: Rooster 19 Nov 1993

Groom's Father: Pig
Groom's Mother: Monkey
Groom's Younger Brother: Rooster

Bride's Father: Rabbit
Bride's Mother: Horse
Bride's Brothers: Monkey, Rat

Mum trust that geomancer a lot and fiancé’s family is quite pantang abt such things.. hopefully we can get some advice from you. Thank you in advance!

 

[blurqying]

Dear Master Tong,

My fiancé and I are planning to get married on 10 Oct 2020. Is there an auspicious timing for gatecrash and to pick bride up after day break?

We are both Teochews and we read that it’s bad luck to for bride to see sunlight before the groom picks her up. Just wondering if there’s an alternative timing instead of having to gatecrash before 7am.

Our details as follows:
Groom chinese zodiac - Rabbit (time of birth - early in the morning)
Bride chinese zodiac - Ox (time of birth 7.20am GMT8)

Both our parents are born on the same chinese zodiac year
Father - Horse
Mother - Rooster

 

[txr]

Hi Master Tong,

Is 23 October 2021 an auspicious date for marriage? Does it clash with any zodiac signs?

Thanks in advance!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi SummerCherry

it will be 7 to 9am for fetch the bride

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi xBABY

these are some general tong shu dates

9/12, 15/12 , 13/1

hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi skyshades

10/10/2020 is a general good date and dont clash any of u

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi 8283ww

you are born pig year, follow Li chun, not cny 1st day

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sheryl Yeo

usually we give 2 hrs for fetch bride and a separate 2 hrs for ROM. so i dont know why your timing is so wide range. u check with the person that select for u

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jellyoh

11th jul 2020 clashes to rooster, u are correct. so if both of u are rooster, that day is out...hmm

18th jul clash dragon , u are correct again. i duuno where the tiger comes from!

Also understand that auspicious timing on 18th is between 9-11am, does that means that gatecrashing should start at 9am or earlier?

yes correct. 9am groom step in to your house

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi blurqying

10/10/2020 fetch bride timing is 5-7am for teochew, or 9-11am for non teochew or if u dont want follow teochew way. 7-9am is a bad timing as that is dragon hr clashes with the day (dog day)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi txr

it is a 破日 very bad day

 

[txr]

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for the reply! Is there any suitable dates or Saturdays that are good for marriage in 2021 between September to November that doesn't clash with any of the family zodiac signs? (Preferrably October if there's a good date)

Bride's Zodiac: Horse / Goat (born before CNY but after LiChun)
Groom's Zodiac: Horse

Bride's Father: Rat
Bride's Mother: Goat
Bride's Sister: Pig
Bride's Brother: Monkey

Groom's Father: Rat
Groom's Mother: Snake
Groom's Sister: Rooster

Both families are Hokkien.

Thank you in advance!

Hi txr

it is a 破日 very bad day

 

[imalibaba]

Hi Master Tong.
My Fiancée and I would like to get married on 6 Jun 2020.

Is this a good date to get married?

What is the best timing to fetch the brides? (Groom is Hokkien, Bride is Teochew)

What is the best date and timing for Guo da li and An chuang ?


Groom: dragon
Bride: ox

Groom's Father: snake
Groom's Mother: horse
Groom's Brother: rabbit


Bride's Father: horse
Bride's Mother: goat
Bride's Brother: dog
Bride's Sister: rooster

Thank in advance!

 

[joysl82]

Hi Master Tong,

My fiancé and I are planning to get married on 12 Dec 2020.

What is the best timing to fetch the brides? (Groom is Hokkien, Bride is Cantonese)
What is the best date and timing for Guo da li and An chuang ?

Groom Chinese zodiac - 1986 Tiger (time of birth 9pm)
Bride Chinese zodiac - 1982 Dog (time of birth noon)

Groom Father - 1951 Rabbit
Groom Mother - 1954 Horse
Groom Brother - 1991 Goat

Bride Father - 1942 Horse
Bride Mother - 1944 Monkey

Many Thanks!!! =)

 

[imalibaba]

Hi Master Tong.
My Fiancée and I would like to get married on 6 Jun 2020.

Is this a good date to get married?

What is the best timing to fetch the brides? (Groom is Hokkien, Bride is Teochew)

What is the best date and timing for Guo da li and An chuang ?


Groom: Dec, 1988 dragon
Bride: Dec, 1985 ox

Groom's Father: 1953 snake
Groom's Mother: 1955 horse
Groom's Brother: 1987 rabbit


Bride's Father: 1954 horse
Bride's Mother: 1955 goat
Bride's Brother: 1982 dog
Bride's Sister: 1993 rooster

Thank in advance!

 

[Pei Yee]

Hi Master Tong,

Will like to seek your expert advice on suitable dates to hold wedding in 2020? Looking at Dec 2020 or earlier 2021

Groom's birth date: 28/05/1984, Mouse
Bride's birth date: 25/11/1991, Goat

Groom's father: 1954 Horse
Groom’s mother: 1958 Dog
Bride's father: 1961 Cow
Bride's mother: 1968 Monkey
Groom's sister: 1982 Chicken
Bride's brother: 1993 Chicken & 1997 Cow

Looking forward to your reply!
Thanks very much!

 

[Kaycee C]

Dear Master Tong

We have chose 10/10/2020 and proceed to book pur banquet, however recently we realised that it clash with groom mother zodiac (dragon).

1) Will like to seek your expert advice ways to resolve the clash.
2) I saw your comments that 9 to 11am is the good timing to fetch bride. So meaning before 9am we can proceed with gatecrash? Do we have to reach groom side by 11am?

Groom and Bride: 1992 Monkey (groom teochew, bride hokkien)

Groom's father: 1959 Pig
Groom’s mother: 1964 Dragon
Groom's brother: 1996 Rat
Bride's father: 1958 Dog
Bride's mother: 1965 Snake

 

[Kaycee C]

Dear Master Tong

We have chose 10/10/2020, may I know when and wat time is suitable to do GDL?

Groom and Bride: 1992 Monkey (groom teochew, bride hokkien)

Groom's father: 1959 Pig
Groom’s mother: 1964 Dragon
Groom's brother: 1996 Rat
Bride's father: 1958 Dog
Bride's mother: 1965 Snake

 

[Tpqpqpq]

Dear Master Tong,

Would like to seek your expert advice on suitable dates to hold wedding in December 2020.

Groom's birth date: 01/06/1989, Snake
Bride's birth date: 19/08/1991, Goat

Groom's father: 1962 Tiger
Groom’s mother: 1963 Rabbit
Bride's father: 1957 Rooster
Bride's mother: 1959 Pig

I look forward to your positive reply. Thank you for taking time!

 

[SophieAL]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to seek your advice on suitable dates to hold wedding in 2020. We re looking at 12/12/2020 for our reception and a day for our ROM.

Groom: Tiger 1986
Bride: Tiger 1986

Groom's father: Horse
Groom's mother: Tiger
Bride's father: Pig
Bride's mother: Ox
Groom's bro: Rat
Bride's bro: Goat

Thank you for your time.

 

[ptan]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to have both my customary and ROM on same day. Can I check if 10/10/20 or 18/10/20 is a good date for us? What would be the time to fetch the bride? Bride is teochew and groom is hokkien.

Groom: Monkey 1980
Bride: Rooster 1981

Groom's father: Tiger
Groom's mother: Snake
Bride's father: Rooster
Bride's mother: Goat
Groom's bro: Rat/Ox (Born before mid-night of CNY)
Bride's bro: Dog

Thank you for your time.

 

[Miyako]

Hi Master Tong

Please advice if 28 Feb 2021 is good for AD? Is there any difference between Solemnization and AD dates? Or must check both?

Thank you.

 

[T_PL]

Hi Master Tong,

My fiancé and I are planning to get married on 12 Nov 2021. Is this an auspicious day for us. And is there any auspicious timing for gatecrash and to pick bride up?

Our details as follows:
Groom chinese zodiac - snake 1989 (Teochews)
Bride chinese zodiac - snake 1989 (Hokkien)

Groom side
Father - Rat 1948
Mother -Monkey 1956

Bride side
Father - pig 1971
Mother - OX 1973

thank you very much in advance!

 

[rosymosy]

Hi Master Tong,

My BF and I are planning our wedding on 23rd Oct 2021. General online search shows auspicious day but am not sure about the clashing of animal portion. Any other information on

Our details as follows:

Bride: Goat (1991)
Groom: Tiger (1987)

Groom parents both Rooster (1957)
Bride mother: Dog (1959)
Bride dad: Goat (1955)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi rosymosy

it is a very bad day. it is a Po Ri, best to change. and clash to dog, one of your parents too

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi T_PL

12th Nov is not a good date for wedding purpose. For tong shu good dates it will only be out in Aug/sep this year. right now, the only way to select is using bazi

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Miyako

28th feb is a very bad date. it is a 破日.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi ptan

10th oct is a general good date for wedding and dont clash anyone. the other date is bad date, cannot be used. fetch the bride timing will be 5 to 7am or 9-11am

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi SophieAL

12/12 is not a good date for wedding purpose. all good weekends in dec clashes to your or parents. if ard that few months, 21st nov will be the nearest good date to Dec

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tpqpqpq

for dec weekends, only 6th Dec is good and dont clash any of u

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Kaycee C

the nearest good weekend for GDL will be 19th Sep, 9-11am

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Pei Yee

the only gd general weekend and dont clash anyone will be 19th Dec

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi imalibaba

6th june is a general good date. clash to Dog. fetch the bride timing will be 9-11am

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joysl82

fetch the bride timing will be 9-11am

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi K.Mich

You r welcome

 

[joysl82]

Hi joysl82

fetch the bride timing will be 9-11am

Hi Master Tong,

Can I check what would be the wedding date for us in around June - Sep 2021. We are thinking of shifting wedding date due to current pandemic situation. I can PM you privately bazhi if needed.
Thank You so much!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joysl82

if u r looking at generic dates, the tong shu for 2021 will only be out in Aug/sep (probably delay due to COVID). now the only way is using Bazi to do it, which is the accurate and correct way. tong shu dates are generic dates only.

 

[SBMeh]

Hi David

We are looking at Jan - May 2021 for our wedding, could you share with us the general good dates? So far we are looking at 28 Feb or 14 March 2021. Many thanks for your help

Bride & Groom: Horse, Goat
Parents: Goat, Monkey, Rooster, Snake

 

[joysl82]

Hi joysl82

if u r looking at generic dates, the tong shu for 2021 will only be out in Aug/sep (probably delay due to COVID). now the only way is using Bazi to do it, which is the accurate and correct way. tong shu dates are generic dates only.

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the explanation. Do we need tong shu + bazi to calculate the dates? Or bazi is good enough?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joysl82

Bazi is enough., no need tong shu. if u wait for tong shu, no need do at hotel already. all full!