Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Discussion in 'Advice By The Experts' started by chinleng, Nov 10, 2008.

  1. Bbss

    Bbss New Member

    Hihi! Is the tongshu out already? Thanks master tong
     


  2. LightHouse

    LightHouse New Member

    Hi Master Tong.

    We are looking for a date for our wedding, appreciate if you could let us know on a good date/month in 2019. Thank you!

    Groom: Monkey (Apr 92')
    Bride: Monkey (Dec 92')

    Groom Mom: Snake (65')
    Groom Dad: Dragon (64')
    Sister: Pig (95')

    Bride Mom: Tiger (62')
    Sister: Rat (96')
     
  3. Kryskel

    Kryskel New Member

    Hi Bbss

    I think the Tong Shu for 2019 is out. You may wanna email him!
     
  4. Bbss

    Bbss New Member

    Thank you!!!
     
  5. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

  6. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi bbori

    April is qing ming so usually no one get married that mth
     
  7. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    HI Remy Tan

    the 2020 tong shu will only be out next year sep . for 2020 dates now the only way is using bazi to select
     
  8. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi RKcorner

    yes 2019 clash bride, so not a good yr for wedding.
     
  9. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Kryskel

    10/10/2020 clash Dragon, so that date is out for u
     
  10. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Bbss

    for 2019 yes
     
  11. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi LightHouse,

    pls repost stating which month u looking at
     
  12. Kryskel

    Kryskel New Member

    Hi Master Tong

    Thank you for your reply.

    How about 01 08 2020?

    Thank you!

    Groom: Rabbit 1987
    Bride: Dragon 1988

    Groom's Mother: Dog

    Groom's Elder Sister: Pig

    Bride's Father: Goat
    Bride's Mother: Dog

    Bride's Twin Sister: Dragon

    Bride's Auntie: Monkey
    Bride's Grandma: Rat
     
  13. LightHouse

    LightHouse New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    We are looking at Sep or Nov 2019.

    Also, is it true that if we have alot of Water elements in our bazi, we should avoid the "winter" period?

    Thank you.
     
  14. Muddlehead

    Muddlehead New Member

    Hi Master Tong.
    My Fiance and I would like to get hitch in Sep2019.
    Could you let us know which date is suitable for us pleaseeee. :)

    Groom: Snake 23 Sep 1989
    Bride: Rooster 25 Sep 1993

    Groom's Father: Rat
    Groom's Mother: Tiger
    Groom's Younger Brother: Monkey, Rat


    Bride's Father: Monkey
    Bride's Mother: Rat
    Bride's Older Brother: Rooster, Pig, Rabbit
     
  15. Prislalala

    Prislalala New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Can trouble you to see if 8 March 2020 a good date for our wedding?

    Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
    Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

    Groom's Father: Chicken
    Groom's Mother: Cow
    Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

    Bride's Mother: Cow
    Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

    Thank you very much.
     
  16. yukime

    yukime Member

    Hi Master Tong,
    I would like to ask if after calculating the auspicious timing that groom and bride have to step into Groom house after 11am,
    Could we change the venue “groom house” to Hotel? So it’s like stepping into groom house at 11am.
    Because only can step into groom house at 11am or 3am(no one will want to do that).
    It will be too rush for us to rush back hotel from groom house.
    Because we will be holding Lunch Banquet.
    And after consulting the person who helped us to calculate the timing, she said it’s okay to treat hotel as the groom house. Just need to reach there by 11am will do. Nowadays a lot of youngsters do that too. Ask us don’t worry.
    But my Mother in law heard from other relative that no, it’s a must to step into groom house.
    So I’m very very confuse now.
    Please advice me.

    Your Sincerely,
    Worried girl.
     
  17. Lala20

    Lala20 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    My cousin is getting married on 2nd Nov 2019.

    My fiance and I are looking at to get married in Dec 2019.

    Would it clash with my cousin?
    Are the 2 families able to go to each other wedding?

    Thank you.
     
  18. DOLLYAFFAIR

    DOLLYAFFAIR New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    For 2020, you are based on bazi to calculate. However, the chance of tong shu date to be similar to bazi is super slim right? Would like to know what is the difference between bazi and tong shu? and which approach is better?
     
  19. Passion99

    Passion99 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Is it ok to hold wedding on my English birthday in 2019?

    My English birthday is on 02/11/1990

    Thank you!
     
  20. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Kryskel

    1st Aug dont clash anyone. but has to wait for tong shu to be out to see if it is a general good date
     
  21. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi LightHouse

    some of the general good dates are

    6/9, 13/9, 12/10, 24/10

    Also, is it true that if we have alot of Water elements in our bazi, we should avoid the "winter" period?

    no such thing
     
  22. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Muddlehead,

    2019 is a bad yr for wedding as pig year clash to groom snake
     
  23. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Prislalala

    8th march 2020 is generally not a good date for wedding purpose
     
  24. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi yukime

    traditionally yes u must step into groom house to represent 过门 (meaning you are married into his family).

    but this is a tradition. if all are ok to treat hotel as groom house, there is no negative impact. most MIL will want this step to be performed at their house, rather than hotel though
     
  25. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Lala20

    then you cannot go each other's wedding. will clash and bring bad luck. must be 100 days apart
     
  26. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Passion99

    yes so long as your are not pantang abt it. no feng shui impact. more of superstition.
     
  27. Joelyn0610216

    Joelyn0610216 New Member

    Hi Master Tong.
    My Fiance and I would like to get married on 9 Aug 2020 or 18 Oct 2020.
    Could you let us know which date is most suitable for us both. Thanks a million!!

    Groom: dragon 17 may 1988
    Bride: Rooster 10 dec 1991

    Groom's Father: monkey
    Groom's Mother: rat
    Groom's Younger Brother: goat


    Bride's Father: monkey
    Bride's Mother: Rooster
    Bride's Sister : pig, cow
     
  28. xkrybabyx

    xkrybabyx New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    My fiancé and I plan to ROM in 25th May 2019 and dinner on 04th or 05th Jan 2020. Please advise if these are good dates for us

    Groom: 20th Apr 1981 Rooster
    Bride: 05th Jan 1993 Monkey

    Groom's Father: Rooster
    Groom's Mother: Rat
    Groom's Older Brother: Rabbit

    Bride's Father: Horse
    Bride's Mother: Monkey
    Bride's Younger Brother: Rooster
    Bride's Younger Sister: Tiger

    Thank you!
     
  29. Prislalala

    Prislalala New Member

    In that case could you let us know which dates are suitable for me & my fiance, starting of 2020.

    Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
    Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

    Groom's Father: Chicken
    Groom's Mother: Cow
    Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

    Bride's Mother: Cow
    Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

    Thank you very much.
     
  30. Gerald LW

    Gerald LW New Member

    Dear Master David Tong,

    We have two dates in mind in September 2019, and would like to check if either one is fine.

    Priority 1 : 15 September 2019
    The other option is 22 September 2019

    The birthdates are as follow (based on western calendar):
    Groom: 1986 Nov 19 Tiger
    Bride: 1987 Nov 12 Rabbit

    Groom's Mother: Pig
    Groom's Father: Pig
    Grooms two sisters: Dragon and Goat

    Bride's Father: Goat
    Bride's Mother: Pig
    Bride’s Brother: Horse

    As we are currently quite late into the planning and trying to confirm venue, would appreciate if you can help to give advise as to whether 15 september 2019 is a good date for us to ROM and have the customary wedding.

    Thank you so much!

    Regards,
    Gerald
     
  31. tanghaouser

    tanghaouser New Member

    Hi David,
    Is 1 Oct 2010, 11 Nov 2010 a aupicious date for AD?
     
  32. joeljoel

    joeljoel New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I would like to check something regarding 冲喜.

    My fiance and I are planning to ROM this year (just solemnisation, no customaries or banquet). However, my parents suggested for us to postpone our ROM because my sister is having her chinese wedding (customaries and banquet) this year as well. They mentioned that there will be a clash which will affect either of the couples. I have checked online, some mentioned that ROM and customary marriage are 2 separate events as ROM is just the legalising of the marriage. Some also mentioned that as long as the 2 events are not within the time frame of each other (eg 3 months/4 months). Please advise. Thank you very much.

    Best regards,

    Joel
     
  33. Find TJ

    Find TJ New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    May I check with you whether is it totally hopeless if we are people belonging to S, SW group but we have purchased a house facing NW.

    In fengshui, can everything be remediate and balanced? (Ie. if we purchased a house we like but it is not our favourable facing).

    We have come across a good fengshui master who told us that so long we like the house, it doesn’t matter which facing or whether there is a temple near it. I think the fengshui master seems to have a way to fix it. Problem is this fengshui master is no longer around.

    We hope you can provide us your opinion from tour experience as a fengshui master.

    Many thanks.
     
  34. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Joelyn0610216

    9th Aug dont clash any of you. 18th Oct is a very bad date cannot be used.

    will have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it is a general good date. for now, the only way to calculate will be based on bazi
     
  35. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi xkrybabyx

    25/5 is a general good date and dont clash anyone, so it is fine

    4/6 bad date/ 5/6 clash to rabbit, so ok to use but rabbit can only go dinner etc, cannot help u
     
  36. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Prislalala

    2020 is rat year clash to horse, so that year is bad for wedding . 2021 goat yr clash Ox. so both yrs no good. 2019 is better
     
  37. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Gerald LW

    both are very very bad dates for rom or wedding
     
  38. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi tanghaouser,

    the tong shu will only be out in Aug/sep then i can check. right now the only way and authentic way is using both ur bazi to calculate
     
  39. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi joeljoel

    yes ideally is 1 year apart for siblings wedding. if really zero choice, minimum is 100 days apart
     
  40. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Find TJ

    i dont agree. some facing are just lousy due to the energy flow and intake. Not everything can be remedied once u buy coz unless landed and you willing to hack and change , else for flat/condo you cannot change the door location if u buy one that the door location dont match the house direction hence receiving bad qi. how i wish finding a good house is simple, but in reality, it is tough, that is y more bad houses than good ones.
     
  41. Mauky

    Mauky New Member

    Dear Master David Tong,

    We are planning our wedding in 2020 and have two dates in mind, Would like to check with you if either one is fine to hold the wedding and rom together on the same day.

    8 August 2020
    25 July 2020

    Our birthdates are as follow (basing on western calendar):
    Groom: 1991 April 19 Goat
    Bride: 1993 August 23 Rooster

    Groom's Mother: Rabbit
    Groom's Father: Monkey
    Grooms brother: Dragon

    Bride's Father: Dog
    Bride's Mother: Rooster
    Bride’s sister: Dragon


    Thank you very much!
     
  42. lforlav

    lforlav New Member

    Hi Master David,


    Saw your reply to one of the inquiry that 18 October 2020 is a bad date. However, my fiancé and I plan to have our ROM and wedding lunch on that day as it my birthday.. Please advise if would really be a bad date for us. And if is really a bad date, is there anyway can resolve as we are quite firm with this date..


    Groom: 06 August 1983 Pig

    Bride: 18 October 1987 Rabbit


    Groom's Father: Tiger

    Groom's Mother: Snake

    Groom's Older Brother: Monkey


    Bride's Father: Rabbit

    Bride's Mother: Pig

    Bride's Eldest Sister: Rat

    Bride's Younger Sister: Dragon


    And may I also understand if I am (bride) allowed to 出嫁from my and fiancé new home?


    Thank you so much!!
     
  43. bluesky3000

    bluesky3000 New Member

    Wow master David is really popular, will be sending you my hubbies and his families zodiacs soon
     
  44. Yxtangy

    Yxtangy New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    We are planning to rom+dinner either in October 2020, preferably 10/10/2020 or February/March 2021. Would like to check if there is any dates that are good or dates we should avoid?

    Groom: 1/1/1993 monkey
    Bride: 12/12/1993 rooster

    Thank you!
     
  45. Tutubun

    Tutubun New Member

    Hi Master Tong @cmg_consulting

    Seeking your kind advice on wedding date.

    My sister and I are planning to have wedding banquets in 2020. However she has actually registered marriage overseas in 2018, but will be holding banquet here in 2020. Will there be any impact since she is already married?

    My zodiac below:
    Groom- Monkey
    Groom's parents - Dragon and Snake

    Bride - Monkey
    Bride's parents - Snake and Snake


    My sister zodiac- horse

    Thanks very much in advance!
     
  46. Tutubun

    Tutubun New Member

    Hi Master Tong

    We have also tentatively set our wedding date on 1 March 2020.

    Can I also check if the guideline where siblings should not get married within the same year - is this based on calendar or lunar year?

    Thank you!
     
  47. Jacqueline Tan

    Jacqueline Tan New Member

    Hi Master Tong ,

    My fiance and I would like to seek your kind advice on our wedding date.

    We are looking at 9 August 2020 for our ROM and wedding. Is it an ideal date to get married? My elder relatives were saying is not good to get married in lunar sixth month because of those wedding taboos.

    My zodiac below:
    Groom- 07 December 1992 (Monkey)
    Bride - 10 December 1992 (Monkey)

    Groom's parents - Dragon and Dog
    Bride's parents - Dog and Rooster

    Thanks very much in advance!
     
  48. ponica

    ponica New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I would like to find out more about zodiac clash.

    This is my fiancé, his parents, my parents and my profiling:

    Bride: 4th Apr 1994 (Dog)
    Bride’s mom: 8 June 1970 (Dog)
    Bride’s Dad: 21 Sept 1963 (Rabbit)

    Groom: 9 Oct 1992 (Monkey)
    Groom’s Dad: Monkey
    Groom’s Mom: Rat

    We have searched online and found out that the day clashes with the zodiac Pig. My(the bride) maternal grandmother is born in the year of Pig (8 Nov 1947) and my Cousin is born on 5th Jan 1995 (Dog/Pig).

    The issue is whether my Cousin will be affected/affect the couple and if the maternal Grandmother will be affected/affect the couple and how to neutralise it.

    Thank you very much!
     
  49. Tian Le

    Tian Le New Member

    Hi Master Tong,
    I just sent you a WhatsApp for fees and detail enquiry is it better to send email instead?
     
  50. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Mauky

    25/7 is a general good date for both
     

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