Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[Kryskel]

Hihi! Is the tongshu out already? Thanks master tong

Hi Bbss

I think the Tong Shu for 2019 is out. You may wanna email him!

 

[Bbss]

Hi Bbss

I think the Tong Shu for 2019 is out. You may wanna email him!

Thank you!!!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Happydog

you can email me [email protected] for details and fees

usually no reno, more of changing layout like bed etc

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi bbori

April is qing ming so usually no one get married that mth

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI Remy Tan

the 2020 tong shu will only be out next year sep . for 2020 dates now the only way is using bazi to select

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi RKcorner

yes 2019 clash bride, so not a good yr for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Kryskel

10/10/2020 clash Dragon, so that date is out for u

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Bbss

for 2019 yes

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi LightHouse,

pls repost stating which month u looking at

 

[Kryskel]

Hi Kryskel

10/10/2020 clash Dragon, so that date is out for u

Hi Master Tong

Thank you for your reply.

How about 01 08 2020?

Thank you!

Groom: Rabbit 1987
Bride: Dragon 1988

Groom's Mother: Dog

Groom's Elder Sister: Pig

Bride's Father: Goat
Bride's Mother: Dog

Bride's Twin Sister: Dragon

Bride's Auntie: Monkey
Bride's Grandma: Rat

 

[LightHouse]

Hi LightHouse,

pls repost stating which month u looking at

Hi Master Tong,

We are looking at Sep or Nov 2019.

Also, is it true that if we have alot of Water elements in our bazi, we should avoid the "winter" period?

Thank you.

 

[Muddlehead]

Hi Master Tong.
My Fiance and I would like to get hitch in Sep2019.
Could you let us know which date is suitable for us pleaseeee.

Groom: Snake 23 Sep 1989
Bride: Rooster 25 Sep 1993

Groom's Father: Rat
Groom's Mother: Tiger
Groom's Younger Brother: Monkey, Rat


Bride's Father: Monkey
Bride's Mother: Rat
Bride's Older Brother: Rooster, Pig, Rabbit

 

[Prislalala]

Hi Master Tong,

Can trouble you to see if 8 March 2020 a good date for our wedding?

Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

Groom's Father: Chicken
Groom's Mother: Cow
Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

Bride's Mother: Cow
Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

Thank you very much.

 

[yukime]

Hi Master Tong,
I would like to ask if after calculating the auspicious timing that groom and bride have to step into Groom house after 11am,
Could we change the venue “groom house” to Hotel? So it’s like stepping into groom house at 11am.
Because only can step into groom house at 11am or 3am(no one will want to do that).
It will be too rush for us to rush back hotel from groom house.
Because we will be holding Lunch Banquet.
And after consulting the person who helped us to calculate the timing, she said it’s okay to treat hotel as the groom house. Just need to reach there by 11am will do. Nowadays a lot of youngsters do that too. Ask us don’t worry.
But my Mother in law heard from other relative that no, it’s a must to step into groom house.
So I’m very very confuse now.
Please advice me.

Your Sincerely,
Worried girl.

 

[Lala20]

Hi Master Tong,

My cousin is getting married on 2nd Nov 2019.

My fiance and I are looking at to get married in Dec 2019.

Would it clash with my cousin?
Are the 2 families able to go to each other wedding?

Thank you.

 

[DOLLYAFFAIR]

Hi Master Tong,

For 2020, you are based on bazi to calculate. However, the chance of tong shu date to be similar to bazi is super slim right? Would like to know what is the difference between bazi and tong shu? and which approach is better?

 

[Passion99]

Hi Master Tong,

Is it ok to hold wedding on my English birthday in 2019?

My English birthday is on 02/11/1990

Thank you!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Kryskel

1st Aug dont clash anyone. but has to wait for tong shu to be out to see if it is a general good date

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi LightHouse

some of the general good dates are

6/9, 13/9, 12/10, 24/10

Also, is it true that if we have alot of Water elements in our bazi, we should avoid the "winter" period?

no such thing

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Muddlehead,

2019 is a bad yr for wedding as pig year clash to groom snake

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Prislalala

8th march 2020 is generally not a good date for wedding purpose

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi yukime

traditionally yes u must step into groom house to represent 过门 (meaning you are married into his family).

but this is a tradition. if all are ok to treat hotel as groom house, there is no negative impact. most MIL will want this step to be performed at their house, rather than hotel though

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lala20

then you cannot go each other's wedding. will clash and bring bad luck. must be 100 days apart

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Passion99

yes so long as your are not pantang abt it. no feng shui impact. more of superstition.

 

[Joelyn0610216]

Hi Master Tong.
My Fiance and I would like to get married on 9 Aug 2020 or 18 Oct 2020.
Could you let us know which date is most suitable for us both. Thanks a million!!

Groom: dragon 17 may 1988
Bride: Rooster 10 dec 1991

Groom's Father: monkey
Groom's Mother: rat
Groom's Younger Brother: goat


Bride's Father: monkey
Bride's Mother: Rooster
Bride's Sister : pig, cow

 

[xkrybabyx]

Hi Master Tong,

My fiancé and I plan to ROM in 25th May 2019 and dinner on 04th or 05th Jan 2020. Please advise if these are good dates for us

Groom: 20th Apr 1981 Rooster
Bride: 05th Jan 1993 Monkey

Groom's Father: Rooster
Groom's Mother: Rat
Groom's Older Brother: Rabbit

Bride's Father: Horse
Bride's Mother: Monkey
Bride's Younger Brother: Rooster
Bride's Younger Sister: Tiger

Thank you!

 

[Prislalala]

Hi Prislalala

8th march 2020 is generally not a good date for wedding purpose

In that case could you let us know which dates are suitable for me & my fiance, starting of 2020.

Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

Groom's Father: Chicken
Groom's Mother: Cow
Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

Bride's Mother: Cow
Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

Thank you very much.

 

[Gerald LW]

Dear Master David Tong,

We have two dates in mind in September 2019, and would like to check if either one is fine.

Priority 1 : 15 September 2019
The other option is 22 September 2019

The birthdates are as follow (based on western calendar):
Groom: 1986 Nov 19 Tiger
Bride: 1987 Nov 12 Rabbit

Groom's Mother: Pig
Groom's Father: Pig
Grooms two sisters: Dragon and Goat

Bride's Father: Goat
Bride's Mother: Pig
Bride’s Brother: Horse

As we are currently quite late into the planning and trying to confirm venue, would appreciate if you can help to give advise as to whether 15 september 2019 is a good date for us to ROM and have the customary wedding.

Thank you so much!

Regards,
Gerald

 

[tanghaouser]

Hi David,
Is 1 Oct 2010, 11 Nov 2010 a aupicious date for AD?

 

[joeljoel]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check something regarding 冲喜.

My fiance and I are planning to ROM this year (just solemnisation, no customaries or banquet). However, my parents suggested for us to postpone our ROM because my sister is having her chinese wedding (customaries and banquet) this year as well. They mentioned that there will be a clash which will affect either of the couples. I have checked online, some mentioned that ROM and customary marriage are 2 separate events as ROM is just the legalising of the marriage. Some also mentioned that as long as the 2 events are not within the time frame of each other (eg 3 months/4 months). Please advise. Thank you very much.

Best regards,

Joel

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Joelyn0610216

9th Aug dont clash any of you. 18th Oct is a very bad date cannot be used.

will have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it is a general good date. for now, the only way to calculate will be based on bazi

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi xkrybabyx

25/5 is a general good date and dont clash anyone, so it is fine

4/6 bad date/ 5/6 clash to rabbit, so ok to use but rabbit can only go dinner etc, cannot help u

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Prislalala

2020 is rat year clash to horse, so that year is bad for wedding . 2021 goat yr clash Ox. so both yrs no good. 2019 is better

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Gerald LW

both are very very bad dates for rom or wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi tanghaouser,

the tong shu will only be out in Aug/sep then i can check. right now the only way and authentic way is using both ur bazi to calculate

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi joeljoel

yes ideally is 1 year apart for siblings wedding. if really zero choice, minimum is 100 days apart

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Find TJ

i dont agree. some facing are just lousy due to the energy flow and intake. Not everything can be remedied once u buy coz unless landed and you willing to hack and change , else for flat/condo you cannot change the door location if u buy one that the door location dont match the house direction hence receiving bad qi. how i wish finding a good house is simple, but in reality, it is tough, that is y more bad houses than good ones.

 

[Mauky]

Dear Master David Tong,

We are planning our wedding in 2020 and have two dates in mind, Would like to check with you if either one is fine to hold the wedding and rom together on the same day.

8 August 2020
25 July 2020

Our birthdates are as follow (basing on western calendar):
Groom: 1991 April 19 Goat
Bride: 1993 August 23 Rooster

Groom's Mother: Rabbit
Groom's Father: Monkey
Grooms brother: Dragon

Bride's Father: Dog
Bride's Mother: Rooster
Bride’s sister: Dragon


Thank you very much!

 

[lforlav]

Hi Master David,


Saw your reply to one of the inquiry that 18 October 2020 is a bad date. However, my fiancé and I plan to have our ROM and wedding lunch on that day as it my birthday.. Please advise if would really be a bad date for us. And if is really a bad date, is there anyway can resolve as we are quite firm with this date..


Groom: 06 August 1983 Pig

Bride: 18 October 1987 Rabbit


Groom's Father: Tiger

Groom's Mother: Snake

Groom's Older Brother: Monkey


Bride's Father: Rabbit

Bride's Mother: Pig

Bride's Eldest Sister: Rat

Bride's Younger Sister: Dragon


And may I also understand if I am (bride) allowed to 出嫁from my and fiancé new home?


Thank you so much!!

 

[bluesky3000]

Wow master David is really popular, will be sending you my hubbies and his families zodiacs soon

 

[Yxtangy]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to rom+dinner either in October 2020, preferably 10/10/2020 or February/March 2021. Would like to check if there is any dates that are good or dates we should avoid?

Groom: 1/1/1993 monkey
Bride: 12/12/1993 rooster

Thank you!

 

[Tutubun]

Hi Master Tong @cmg_consulting

Seeking your kind advice on wedding date.

My sister and I are planning to have wedding banquets in 2020. However she has actually registered marriage overseas in 2018, but will be holding banquet here in 2020. Will there be any impact since she is already married?

My zodiac below:
Groom- Monkey
Groom's parents - Dragon and Snake

Bride - Monkey
Bride's parents - Snake and Snake


My sister zodiac- horse

Thanks very much in advance!

 

[Tutubun]

Hi Master Tong

We have also tentatively set our wedding date on 1 March 2020.

Can I also check if the guideline where siblings should not get married within the same year - is this based on calendar or lunar year?

Thank you!

 

[Jacqueline Tan]

Hi Master Tong ,

My fiance and I would like to seek your kind advice on our wedding date.

We are looking at 9 August 2020 for our ROM and wedding. Is it an ideal date to get married? My elder relatives were saying is not good to get married in lunar sixth month because of those wedding taboos.

My zodiac below:
Groom- 07 December 1992 (Monkey)
Bride - 10 December 1992 (Monkey)

Groom's parents - Dragon and Dog
Bride's parents - Dog and Rooster

Thanks very much in advance!

 

[ponica]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to find out more about zodiac clash.

This is my fiancé, his parents, my parents and my profiling:

Bride: 4th Apr 1994 (Dog)
Bride’s mom: 8 June 1970 (Dog)
Bride’s Dad: 21 Sept 1963 (Rabbit)

Groom: 9 Oct 1992 (Monkey)
Groom’s Dad: Monkey
Groom’s Mom: Rat

We have searched online and found out that the day clashes with the zodiac Pig. My(the bride) maternal grandmother is born in the year of Pig (8 Nov 1947) and my Cousin is born on 5th Jan 1995 (Dog/Pig).

The issue is whether my Cousin will be affected/affect the couple and if the maternal Grandmother will be affected/affect the couple and how to neutralise it.

Thank you very much!

 

[Tian Le]

Hi Master Tong,
I just sent you a WhatsApp for fees and detail enquiry is it better to send email instead?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Mauky

25/7 is a general good date for both

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi lforlav

it is a 破日, very bad date. so got to change date

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Yxtangy

for general good dates, for 2020 the tong shu wil only be out in Sep this yr. 2021 dates will only be out next year sep. so now the only way is use bazi to select .

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tutubun

based on lunar year

1st march 2020 is not a general good date for wedding.