Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

LightHouse

New Member
Hi Master Tong.

We are looking for a date for our wedding, appreciate if you could let us know on a good date/month in 2019. Thank you!

Groom: Monkey (Apr 92')
Bride: Monkey (Dec 92')

Groom Mom: Snake (65')
Groom Dad: Dragon (64')
Sister: Pig (95')

Bride Mom: Tiger (62')
Sister: Rat (96')
 

Kryskel

New Member
Hi Kryskel

10/10/2020 clash Dragon, so that date is out for u
Hi Master Tong

Thank you for your reply.

How about 01 08 2020?

Thank you!

Groom: Rabbit 1987
Bride: Dragon 1988

Groom's Mother: Dog

Groom's Elder Sister: Pig

Bride's Father: Goat
Bride's Mother: Dog

Bride's Twin Sister: Dragon

Bride's Auntie: Monkey
Bride's Grandma: Rat
 

Muddlehead

New Member
Hi Master Tong.
My Fiance and I would like to get hitch in Sep2019.
Could you let us know which date is suitable for us pleaseeee. :)

Groom: Snake 23 Sep 1989
Bride: Rooster 25 Sep 1993

Groom's Father: Rat
Groom's Mother: Tiger
Groom's Younger Brother: Monkey, Rat


Bride's Father: Monkey
Bride's Mother: Rat
Bride's Older Brother: Rooster, Pig, Rabbit
 

Prislalala

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can trouble you to see if 8 March 2020 a good date for our wedding?

Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

Groom's Father: Chicken
Groom's Mother: Cow
Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

Bride's Mother: Cow
Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

Thank you very much.
 

yukime

Member
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to ask if after calculating the auspicious timing that groom and bride have to step into Groom house after 11am,
Could we change the venue “groom house” to Hotel? So it’s like stepping into groom house at 11am.
Because only can step into groom house at 11am or 3am(no one will want to do that).
It will be too rush for us to rush back hotel from groom house.
Because we will be holding Lunch Banquet.
And after consulting the person who helped us to calculate the timing, she said it’s okay to treat hotel as the groom house. Just need to reach there by 11am will do. Nowadays a lot of youngsters do that too. Ask us don’t worry.
But my Mother in law heard from other relative that no, it’s a must to step into groom house.
So I’m very very confuse now.
Please advice me.

Your Sincerely,
Worried girl.
 

Lala20

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My cousin is getting married on 2nd Nov 2019.

My fiance and I are looking at to get married in Dec 2019.

Would it clash with my cousin?
Are the 2 families able to go to each other wedding?

Thank you.
 

DOLLYAFFAIR

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

For 2020, you are based on bazi to calculate. However, the chance of tong shu date to be similar to bazi is super slim right? Would like to know what is the difference between bazi and tong shu? and which approach is better?
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi LightHouse

some of the general good dates are

6/9, 13/9, 12/10, 24/10

Also, is it true that if we have alot of Water elements in our bazi, we should avoid the "winter" period?

no such thing
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi yukime

traditionally yes u must step into groom house to represent 过门 (meaning you are married into his family).

but this is a tradition. if all are ok to treat hotel as groom house, there is no negative impact. most MIL will want this step to be performed at their house, rather than hotel though
 

Joelyn0610216

New Member
Hi Master Tong.
My Fiance and I would like to get married on 9 Aug 2020 or 18 Oct 2020.
Could you let us know which date is most suitable for us both. Thanks a million!!

Groom: dragon 17 may 1988
Bride: Rooster 10 dec 1991

Groom's Father: monkey
Groom's Mother: rat
Groom's Younger Brother: goat


Bride's Father: monkey
Bride's Mother: Rooster
Bride's Sister : pig, cow
 

xkrybabyx

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My fiancé and I plan to ROM in 25th May 2019 and dinner on 04th or 05th Jan 2020. Please advise if these are good dates for us

Groom: 20th Apr 1981 Rooster
Bride: 05th Jan 1993 Monkey

Groom's Father: Rooster
Groom's Mother: Rat
Groom's Older Brother: Rabbit

Bride's Father: Horse
Bride's Mother: Monkey
Bride's Younger Brother: Rooster
Bride's Younger Sister: Tiger

Thank you!
 

Prislalala

New Member
Hi Prislalala

8th march 2020 is generally not a good date for wedding purpose
In that case could you let us know which dates are suitable for me & my fiance, starting of 2020.

Groom: Horse 14 Nov 1990
Bride: Goat 25 May 1991

Groom's Father: Chicken
Groom's Mother: Cow
Groom's Younger Sister: Pig

Bride's Mother: Cow
Bride's Older Sister: Dragon

Thank you very much.
 

Gerald LW

New Member
Dear Master David Tong,

We have two dates in mind in September 2019, and would like to check if either one is fine.

Priority 1 : 15 September 2019
The other option is 22 September 2019

The birthdates are as follow (based on western calendar):
Groom: 1986 Nov 19 Tiger
Bride: 1987 Nov 12 Rabbit

Groom's Mother: Pig
Groom's Father: Pig
Grooms two sisters: Dragon and Goat

Bride's Father: Goat
Bride's Mother: Pig
Bride’s Brother: Horse

As we are currently quite late into the planning and trying to confirm venue, would appreciate if you can help to give advise as to whether 15 september 2019 is a good date for us to ROM and have the customary wedding.

Thank you so much!

Regards,
Gerald
 

joeljoel

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check something regarding 冲喜.

My fiance and I are planning to ROM this year (just solemnisation, no customaries or banquet). However, my parents suggested for us to postpone our ROM because my sister is having her chinese wedding (customaries and banquet) this year as well. They mentioned that there will be a clash which will affect either of the couples. I have checked online, some mentioned that ROM and customary marriage are 2 separate events as ROM is just the legalising of the marriage. Some also mentioned that as long as the 2 events are not within the time frame of each other (eg 3 months/4 months). Please advise. Thank you very much.

Best regards,

Joel
 

Find TJ

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

May I check with you whether is it totally hopeless if we are people belonging to S, SW group but we have purchased a house facing NW.

In fengshui, can everything be remediate and balanced? (Ie. if we purchased a house we like but it is not our favourable facing).

We have come across a good fengshui master who told us that so long we like the house, it doesn’t matter which facing or whether there is a temple near it. I think the fengshui master seems to have a way to fix it. Problem is this fengshui master is no longer around.

We hope you can provide us your opinion from tour experience as a fengshui master.

Many thanks.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Joelyn0610216

9th Aug dont clash any of you. 18th Oct is a very bad date cannot be used.

will have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it is a general good date. for now, the only way to calculate will be based on bazi
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Find TJ

i dont agree. some facing are just lousy due to the energy flow and intake. Not everything can be remedied once u buy coz unless landed and you willing to hack and change , else for flat/condo you cannot change the door location if u buy one that the door location dont match the house direction hence receiving bad qi. how i wish finding a good house is simple, but in reality, it is tough, that is y more bad houses than good ones.
 

Mauky

New Member
Dear Master David Tong,

We are planning our wedding in 2020 and have two dates in mind, Would like to check with you if either one is fine to hold the wedding and rom together on the same day.

8 August 2020
25 July 2020

Our birthdates are as follow (basing on western calendar):
Groom: 1991 April 19 Goat
Bride: 1993 August 23 Rooster

Groom's Mother: Rabbit
Groom's Father: Monkey
Grooms brother: Dragon

Bride's Father: Dog
Bride's Mother: Rooster
Bride’s sister: Dragon


Thank you very much!
 

lforlav

New Member
Hi Master David,


Saw your reply to one of the inquiry that 18 October 2020 is a bad date. However, my fiancé and I plan to have our ROM and wedding lunch on that day as it my birthday.. Please advise if would really be a bad date for us. And if is really a bad date, is there anyway can resolve as we are quite firm with this date..


Groom: 06 August 1983 Pig

Bride: 18 October 1987 Rabbit


Groom's Father: Tiger

Groom's Mother: Snake

Groom's Older Brother: Monkey


Bride's Father: Rabbit

Bride's Mother: Pig

Bride's Eldest Sister: Rat

Bride's Younger Sister: Dragon


And may I also understand if I am (bride) allowed to 出嫁from my and fiancé new home?


Thank you so much!!
 

Yxtangy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to rom+dinner either in October 2020, preferably 10/10/2020 or February/March 2021. Would like to check if there is any dates that are good or dates we should avoid?

Groom: 1/1/1993 monkey
Bride: 12/12/1993 rooster

Thank you!
 

Tutubun

New Member
Hi Master Tong @cmg_consulting

Seeking your kind advice on wedding date.

My sister and I are planning to have wedding banquets in 2020. However she has actually registered marriage overseas in 2018, but will be holding banquet here in 2020. Will there be any impact since she is already married?

My zodiac below:
Groom- Monkey
Groom's parents - Dragon and Snake

Bride - Monkey
Bride's parents - Snake and Snake


My sister zodiac- horse

Thanks very much in advance!
 

Tutubun

New Member
Hi Master Tong

We have also tentatively set our wedding date on 1 March 2020.

Can I also check if the guideline where siblings should not get married within the same year - is this based on calendar or lunar year?

Thank you!
 

Jacqueline Tan

New Member
Hi Master Tong ,

My fiance and I would like to seek your kind advice on our wedding date.

We are looking at 9 August 2020 for our ROM and wedding. Is it an ideal date to get married? My elder relatives were saying is not good to get married in lunar sixth month because of those wedding taboos.

My zodiac below:
Groom- 07 December 1992 (Monkey)
Bride - 10 December 1992 (Monkey)

Groom's parents - Dragon and Dog
Bride's parents - Dog and Rooster

Thanks very much in advance!
 

ponica

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to find out more about zodiac clash.

This is my fiancé, his parents, my parents and my profiling:

Bride: 4th Apr 1994 (Dog)
Bride’s mom: 8 June 1970 (Dog)
Bride’s Dad: 21 Sept 1963 (Rabbit)

Groom: 9 Oct 1992 (Monkey)
Groom’s Dad: Monkey
Groom’s Mom: Rat

We have searched online and found out that the day clashes with the zodiac Pig. My(the bride) maternal grandmother is born in the year of Pig (8 Nov 1947) and my Cousin is born on 5th Jan 1995 (Dog/Pig).

The issue is whether my Cousin will be affected/affect the couple and if the maternal Grandmother will be affected/affect the couple and how to neutralise it.

Thank you very much!
 

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