Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Discussion in 'Advice By The Experts' started by chinleng, Nov 10, 2008.

  1. Erikomj

    Erikomj New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Many thanks for the advice. However, as we are getting our BTO this year, we have to ROM this year.

    Is there any good dates that we can ROM that can reduce the clash?

    Details as follows:

    Bride: Rabbit 1987
    Groom: Dragon 1988

    Bride's Mother: Snake 1953
    Bride's Father: Tiger 1950 (Deceased)

    Groom's Mother: Snake 1965
    Groom's Father: Rooster 1957 (Deceased)

    Thank you.
     


  2. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi xkate, Yi ling, Mi5sy,

    that is leap mth, just like qing ming n 7th mth, chinese believe it is not gd to get married in that period. by feng shui isok if the date match ur bazi, but again, as chinese we usually follow this rule when calculating wedding dates

    hope this helps
     
  3. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

  4. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi WMKD

    20th may is gd and dont clash anyone

    25th jun is not gd
     
  5. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Xiaohuibebe

    21st may is not a general tong shu gd date

    and 2017 clash rabbit and 2018 clash Dragon, so by right both not gd yrs for wedding and rom
     
  6. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    HI Livia Tan

    18th Oct is good and dont clash anyone

    23rd sep clash Goat cannot use
     
  7. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

  8. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi qmjlweds

    17th Dec clash monkey, cannot be used
     
  9. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Ocean29

    for 2017 i need to know which mth

    for 2018 the tong shu will only be out in sep this yr so for now can only use bazi to calculate

    ps pls repost all details in next thread with the mth you want
     
  10. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    HI Erikomj

    yes 2017 rooster clash rabbit not a good yr for rom and wedding
     
  11. Erikomj

    Erikomj New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Thanks for the advice.

    I know that it's not a good year for Rabbit for ROM/wedding. But we need to ROM as our BTO is ready this year.

    Is there any good dates base on bazi for ROM?
     
  12. Candy.Derrick

    Candy.Derrick Member

    Thanks Master Tong:)
     
  13. yiqii

    yiqii Member

    Hi Master Tong, I'm looking to marry on June 16th 2018.

    Girl -Snake
    boy - Horse

    Is it advisable?
     
  14. yiqii

    yiqii Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Here's more details from us to check a good date for our wedding:

    Bride : 13 August 1989 (Snake)
    Bride Dad: 11 August 1961 (Ox)
    Bride Mum: 2 January 1963 (Tiger)

    Groom: 25 May 1990 (Horse)
    Groom Dad : 21 May 1949 (Ox)
    Groom Mum: 23 February 1960 (Rat)

    Will 16th June 2018 be a good date for our wedding?

    Thank you!
     
  15. Clover89

    Clover89 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Thanks for your advice. Understand that 2018 will be a better year for Snake and Rabbit.

    1. Know that Rabbit clash with 2017 Rooster. Heard that if the year is not good for the zodiac, is possible to do a marriage to 冲喜? Is that really the case?
    2. If we really need to ROM in 2017 because of house, which would be a better month / date in the year?

    Here's our details again, for your reference:
    Bride: 1989 (Snake)
    Groom: 1987 (Rabbit)

    Bride’s Father: Jan 1957 (Monkey)
    Bride’s Mother: Jan 1960 (Pig)
    Bride’s Brother: 1991 (Goat)

    Groom’s Father: 1955 (Goat)
    Groom’s Mother: 1959 (Pig)

    Many thanks for your advice!
     
  16. Peanut-Corgmum

    Peanut-Corgmum New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Will like to seek your advice to help check a good date for our wedding.

    Bride: 26 October 1989 (Snake)
    Bride Mum: 18 June 1957 (Rooster)
    Bride Dad: 2 Aug 1950 (Tiger)

    Groom: 5 Nov 1987 (Rabbit)
    Groom Mum: 31 Aug 1948 (Rat)
    Groom Dad: 16 July 1946 (Dog)

    Is 8 Sept 2018 a good date for ROM and Wedding?
     
  17. Jasnpq

    Jasnpq New Member


    Hi, Will 28/12/2017 be a good date?
     
  18. Ahyue

    Ahyue New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Would like to seek your advise for an auspicious date & time to enter our new house for the first time.

    Hubby: 22 April 1985 (Ox)
    Wife: 29 Sept 1985 (Ox)

    Many thanks.
     
  19. fredling

    fredling New Member

    Hello master tong,

    I'm planning for wedding and ROM on 24/3/2018, Saturday (year of dog).
    Would like to seek your advice if this date is good.

    Bride: Snake, birthdate: 16/8/1989

    Groom: Dragon, birthdate: 8/4/1988

    Many thanks master tong!
     
  20. waiii

    waiii New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I am planning for the banquet in 2018, ROM already settled this yr. Appreciated if you can advise on good dates between March and October.

    Bride: 19 Mar 1990 (Horse)
    Bride Mum and Sis: Tiger
    Bride Dad: Rat

    Groom: 26 Oct 1990 (Horse)
    Groom Mum and Dad: Pig

    Thanks a lot!
     
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  21. helloyou

    helloyou Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    My fiancé and I would like to ask if the dates are ok:

    12 July 2018 (ROM)
    1 December 2018 (Banquet)

    Details of us and our parent are:
    Bride: 2 March 1992
    Mum: Jan 1962
    Dad: Oct 1957

    Groom: 15 Nov 1991
    Mum: Jan 1966
    Dad: May 1959

    Thank you in advance!
     
  22. Latte_gal

    Latte_gal New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I just got my wedding date counted for next year 2018. However, when I checked the lunar calander, it shows that it is a bad day to marry. Does this thing happen often? Is it advisable to go ahead? Thank you in advance!
     
  23. Fierystar

    Fierystar New Member

    Hi Master Tong

    Is it true that we can't attend a friend's wedding 3months before/ after our own? If can attend, is it ok to be the jie mei? Thanks.
     
  24. unicorncandy

    unicorncandy New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Can i check, if my sister is getting married in Dec 2017, how many months do i have to wait before i can get married.

    Thanks!
     
  25. Frenz8

    Frenz8 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Appreciate if you could help us check for a good date in May 2017? We are looking at 20th May 2017 if possible.

    Bride : 27 March 1988 (Dragon)
    Bride Dad: 4 August 1958 (Dog)
    Bride Mum: 23 January 1958 (Rooster)

    Groom: 26 April 1990 (Horse)
    Groom Dad : 19 December 1963 (Rabbit)
    Groom Mum: 7 March 1963 (Rabbit)

    Will 20th May 2017 be a good date for our wedding?

    Thank you!
     
  26. ryanthelion

    ryanthelion New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I would like to have your advice on a good date for our ROM and wedding. I have listed a few possible dates we are looking for ROM and wedding. Do advise on the earliest dates based around the possible dates if none fits the bill.

    Bride : 21 December 1986 (Tiger)
    Bride Dad: 02 March 1947 (Pig)
    Bride Mum: 16 June 1948 (Rat)

    Groom: 25 July 1988 (Dragon)
    Groom Dad: 27 Feb 1954 (Horse)
    Groom Mum: 06 July 1957 (Chicken)

    ROM possible dates: 20 May 2017 (best date if possible), 03 June 2017, 10 June 2017
    Wedding possible dates: 3 June 2018, 21 July 2018, 28 July 2018 (best date if possible), 29 July 2018

    Thank you so much!
     
  27. homegirl85

    homegirl85 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,
    Please advice if 21st May 2017 is a good date to move in to new house? My date of birth is 16/10/1985 (Ox)
    If not, please advice which day between 22nd-25th May is auspicious?
    Thank you.
     
  28. antiseptic

    antiseptic New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    We are looking at having our wedding on 3 or 17 Dec 2017. Please advise if it's ok.

    Groom: 1983 (Pig)
    Bride: 1991 (Goat)

    Groom Dad: 1947 (Pig)
    Groom Mum: 1949 (Ox)

    Bride Dad: 1961 (Ox)
    Bride Mum: 1964 (Dragon)

    Thanks!
     
  29. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Erikomj

    Even use Bazi is the same. If no choice, then choose the best dates using bazi to do it
     
  30. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi yiqii

    16th jun 2018 dont clash any of you, but have to wait for tong shu for 2018 to come out in Aug/sept to determine good or bad. Now the only way is using Bazi to calculate
     
  31. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Clover89

    the yr is bad so usually all the dates are bad. if no choice , then have to choose a very good date to rom using Bazi, not the general tong shu method which is too superficial
     
  32. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    HI Peanut-Corgmum

    8th Sep 2018 is within the 7th lunar month, cannot be used
     
  33. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Ahyue

    when are you looking at?
     
  34. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi fredling

    this date clash Rooster . If none of ur parent are rooster, then potentially good date but for general dates, have to wait for tong shu to be out in sep to check. Now the only way is using bazi check
     
  35. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi waiii

    the tong shu for 2018 will only b out in Aug or Sep this yr hence can only check then. For now, the only way and more accurate way is using Bazi to calculate
     
  36. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi helloyou

    12th jul clash Pig
    1st Dec clash Rooster

    So if none of you or parents are above zodiac, then potentially good date. have to wait for tong shu to be out in Aug/sep to check for general good date.
     
  37. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Latte_gal

    If you count it using Bazi, yes it can be that way. Bazi override the tong shu . So long as you trust the master you engage :)
     
  38. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Fierystar

    yes correct and you cannot be jie mei as well. believed to bring bad luck to yourself
     
  39. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi unicorncandy

    ideally one yr apart. if really no choice, at least 100 days
     
  40. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi Frenz8

    20th may is a general good date and dont clash anyone, can be used :)
     
  41. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi ryanthelion

    for rom, all 3 dates are general good dates and dont clash any of you, all can be used

    For customary, it is Dog yr and clash to Groom Dragon, hence a bad yr for wedding.
     
  42. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi homegirl85

    For move in date, we cannot calculate it based on tong shu as very dangerous . the tong shu dont factor in the house direction, hence cant which day or month or yr, based on the hse direction, is bad to move in. Coz if you choose a bad date, will suffer from bad luck after that.
     
  43. cmg_consulting

    cmg_consulting Active Member

    Hi antiseptic

    17th Dec is a general gd date and dont clash anyof you, can be used
     
  44. oohh

    oohh New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Our parents selected our AD on 25 Nov 17 based on the tong shu:

    Groom - 10/03/1984 (Rat)
    Groom Mum - 16/02/1959 (Pig)
    Groom Dad - 21/05/1960 (Rat)

    Bride - 25/09/1986 (Tiger)
    Bride Mum - 08/03/1957 (Rooster)
    Bride Dad - 28/01/1957 (Monkey)

    May I ask if there are any auspicious timings for us to use for the 过门 etc? I understand there are different versions of the tong shu, and they gave vastly different auspicious timings. Which tong shu should I use?

    Many thanks for your help!
     
  45. homegirl85

    homegirl85 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Any good date between 22nd-25th May? Thanks
     
  46. mlz88

    mlz88 New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I would like to ask if these dates are ok:
    16 Dec 2017 (ROM)
    17 Dec 2017 (Dinner banquet)

    Details (Lunar dates):
    Bride: 15 Oct 1988 (Dragon)
    Mum: 25 Dec 1961 (Ox)
    Dad: 18 Mar 1960 (Rat)

    Groom: 29 Apr 1988 (Dragon)
    Mum: 27 Oct 1949 (Ox)
    Dad: 12 July 1952 (Dragon)

    Thank you very much!!
     
  47. Kai xuan

    Kai xuan New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    I'm looking at 21 July 2018 for my solemnisation and banquet. Is this date ok?
    English dates:
    Bride 25 January 1989
    Mum: 27 July 1960
    Dad: 16 January 1956

    Groom 22 december 1988
    Mum: 26 September 1961
    Dad: 27 july 1960

    Thanks! :)
     
  48. xSUMMER

    xSUMMER New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    We are looking at having our ROM/lunch reception on 28 Oct 2018 (Sun). Please advise if it's okay.

    Groom: 1990 (Horse)
    Bride: 1993 (Rooster)

    Groom Mum: 1960 (Rat)

    Bride Dad: 1962 (Tiger)
    Bride Mum: 1965 (Snake)

    Looking forward to your reply! Thank you ! :)
     
  49. chocsorbet

    chocsorbet New Member

    Hi Master Tong,

    Can I check if the following dates are good for ROM? If not, could you kindly advise on when is a good date between 17 June - 31 July 2017? Another question is, is the timing important?

    22 Jun, 4 Jul, 16 Jul, 21 Jul

    Groom: Ox
    Bride: Dragon

    Groom's Dad: Snake
    Groom's Mum: Dragon
    Groom's Sister: Rooster

    Bride's Dad: Sheep
    Bride's Mum: Monkey
    Bride's Brother: Pig

    Thanks a lot in advance! :)
     
  50. hibell

    hibell New Member

    Hello Master tong,

    Can I check if 25 Nov 2017 is good for wedding based on our details below?

    Bride: Dog, birthdate: 23/4/1982

    Groom: Horse, birthdate: 24/11/1978

    Many thanks!
     

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