Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[junie88]

Hi Master Tong, we are looking on the day 15th April 2017, 17th June 2017. Myself is 16 June 1988 and husband is 20 January 1076. Will it be a good day for wedding?

Hi Master Tong,

Bride: Dragon
Mum: Snake (pass away)
Dad: Rat

Groom: rabbit
Mum: Goat
Dad: Ox

 

[whitesnow888]

Hi Master Tong,

Please help me look at a suitable ROM date for the 3rd and 4th quarter of 2016.
We are currently looking at 6th Sept 2016, not sure if good. Would prefer more options too.

Bride: snake
Mum: rabbit
Dad: dog

Groom: tiger
Mum: sheep
Dad: sheep

Thanks lots!

 

[loverosesg]

Hi master tong, im looking for wedding dates for 2016 n 2017.

Bride: horse
bride father: horse
bride mother: dog

Groom:dragon
groom father:tiger
Groom mother:dog

Hi

For 2016, looking at Nov and Dec. Thanks

 

[Iridis.joy]

Hi Master Tong,

We have planned for our wedding in Nov this year. However my grandfather is admitted to hospital and things are not looking good.

Is it true that if there's a white event, I've have to quickly hold the wedding within 100 days? If not have to wait for 3 years?

Thanks

 

[Uma Cheng]

Hi Master Tong,

Can I check with you if 11th November 2017 would be an auspicious time to hold my wedding?
Are there any timings that I need to look out for?

Bride: Dragon
Mum: Rooster
Dad: Horse

Groom: Pig
Mum: Ox
Dad: Monkey (he passed away when my partner was very young )

Do let me know.

 

[charlott]

Hi Master Tong,
We will be holding our wedding in a hotel which doesnt allow us to burn the 龙凤烛 can i ask if it is compulsory or can we give this step a miss?

Also is it true that once we 安床 cannot move the bed to another house within a year? (our new home may not be ready hence we may be temporarily living with his parents).

The last questions we have: me and my other 2 sisters plan to get married next year. Some friends have advised us not to do so. However, we could not delay anymore as our flats are coming soon (3 of us r getting keys in the same year)... Is there anything we can do to ward of bad things etc?

Would greatly appreciate if u could answer our quries.

Thank you.

 

[Xuannyloves]

HI Xuannyloves

The tong shu for 2017 will only be out in Sept this yr, hence for general dates can only check after it is out. For now, the only way is using both your bazi to select

Hi Master Tong,

May I know what info do I need to provide for using bazi?

Sorry to ask u as I'm not familiar with bazi and tong shu.

Than you so much!

 

[Elsa.Nasir]

Hi Master Tong,

I am looking for an auspicious date for my solemnisation followed by a wedding lunch reception on 3 Feb 2018.

Thus I would like to get your opinion if the date is suitable for us:

Groom's mum : rooster
Groom dad: rabbit
Groom: year 1978 which is horse but he was born before Chinese New Year which is snake. So which is his, snake or horse?

Bride mum : rooster
Bride dad : rat
Bride : rooster
Bride Son : goat
Bride Daughter : rooster

Thank you for your time to go through this.

 

[jetaimeliow]

Thanks Master Tong!

How about ROM and marriage in 2017? will it clash for me(Snake) and him(Tiger) ?

Thank in advance!

 

[labbit87]

Hi Master Tong,

I saw you wrote this in one of your replies:
"FYI by right 2016 Monkey yr clash Tiger and 2017 Rooster yr clash Rabbit, so by right both yrs cannot ROM or hold customary"

Our zodiacs got both Rabbit and Tiger... Please help...

Groom: Rabbit
Bride: Rabbit

Groom's dad: Dog
Groom's mum: Dog

Bride's dad: Ox
Bride's mum: Tiger

We actually planned to get married in 2017 but we only knew last week that Monkey year 2017 clash with Rabbit.

But if we bring forward to 2016, Monkey year clash with Tiger, which is my mum. Does that mean I can't get married in both 2016 and 2017?

I really need to get married by 2017 as my flat will be coming in 2017... please help...

I really appreciate it!!! Thank you very much!!!

 

[fannfannhuang]

Hi fannfannhuang

All Dogs, irregardless of age

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you, how about for Monkey? if 1 of my sister is born in the year of Monkey.

And if the dog is not my sister, she is just following me to hubby place, is it possible?


thank you
Fanny

 

[fannfannhuang]

Hi fannfannhuang

All Dogs, irregardless of age

Hi Master Tong,
Thank you, how about for Monkey? if 1 of my sister is born in the year of Monkey.

And if the dog is not my sister, she is just following me to hubby place, is it possible?

As my sis-in-law is dog, she need to bring my nephew down to open the bridal car door and also to jump on our bed.

thank you
Fanny

 

[Sica2611]

Dear Master Tong, what is the difference between using bazi to calculate auspicious wedding dates and using the tongshu? Is tongshu a better source for finding the best comparable dates? What are the chances of having a bazi comparable date but on the tongshu it's incompatible? We are looking at a wedding date in 2017 using the tongshu but since it will only be out after August/sept, does it mean we can only get a late date since most banquet need 1 year booking in advance?

 

[Sica2611]

Also, my husband to be is born in the year of rabbit. Does it mean we really cannot get married in the year of the rooster in 2017?

 

[Sica2611]

Hi Sica2611

25th june is a Po Ri Year Breaker day, very bad day

Hi Master Tong, the date 25th June was calculated by another geomancer i visited in Chinatown. What does this imply? She uses the Tongshu to get the date and i believe she should also know that it is a Po Ri Year Breaker Day?

 

[cherryame]

Hi Master Tong,

I am looking for an auspicious date in Feb or Mar 2017, after CNY for both my solemnisation and actual day. We can only do Sat or Sun.

Bride: Dragon (1988)
Father: Rat (1948)
Mother: Horse (1954)

Groom: Rat (1984)
Father: Chicken (1957)
Mother: Pig (1959)

Pls also let me know which signs will be clashing as we have quite a big family. Thanks!!

 

[BitBit58]

Hi Master Tong,

Can I check with you if 22 May 2016 would be an auspicious date for my ROM? If not could you advise any suitable dates in May or June 2016?
Are there any timings that I need to look out for?
This will be my 2nd marriage and Groom's first.

Bride: Monkey
Mum: Dog
Dad: Snake
Sons: Dragon, Rooster, Dog


Groom: Monkey
Mum: Dragon
Dad: Deceased
Elder Sis: Horse

Please advise me, thank you very much.

 

[dreamycandy]

Hi,
My wedding date is on 1st Oct 2016.
Is wondering which will be the best date for An Chuang & GDL?
Please advice. Thanks.

 

[wAt3v3r]

Hi Master Tong, could you please help to advise which date is feb or mar 2017 would be good for our customary wedding? Details as follows:

Bride: horse
Bride mother: dog
Bride father: dragon

Groom: tiger
Groom mother: rat
Groom father: cow

Thank you!

 

[Tth88]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to know the general good dates for Sept 2016 to Oct 2016 (except 29 oct) if not general good dates from june 2016 onwards. Thanks!!

Details as followed:
Groom (snake)
Bride (dragon)

Groom's dad (rat)
Groom's mum (monkey)

Bride's dad (ox)
Bride's mum (ox)

 

[jx77]

Hi Master Tong

for Wedding, we have decided to choose 3rd Dec 2016, would appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious Date and Time for the followings:


a) Gatecrashing (time that groom has to arrive)
b) Fetching Bride
c) Reaching Groom’s Place
d) Tea Ceremony for both side (Bride & Groom)

Below are the zodiac n years:
Groom : 05 Oct 1977 Snake
Groom Father : 13 Jan 1940 Rabbit
Groom Mother : 9 Jul 1944 Monkey


Bride : 10 Aug 1982 Dog
Bride Father : 1956 (Monkey)
Bride Mother : 1955 (Goat)


Thanks in Advance...

jx77

 

[BitBit58]

Hi Master Tong,

Can I check with you if 6 June 2016 would be an auspicious date for my ROM?
Are there any timings that I need to look out for?
This will be my 2nd marriage and Groom's first.

Bride: Monkey (1980)
Mum: Dog (1946)
Dad: Snake (1942)
Sons: Dragon(2000), Rooster(2005), Dog(2006)


Groom: Monkey (1980)
Mum: Dragon (1953)
Dad: Deceased
Elder Sis: Horse (1978)

Please advise me, thank you very much

 

[Rib6on]

Hi Master Tong,

1. Need an advise on u for the An ChuAng.
Currently I'm staying with my HTB. Will have the an chuang at his place. After an chuang can we sleep on the bed or until our wedding day?
( his hse is small and don't have space to sleep on the floor ) can advise what we can do ?

2. For the prosperity lamp we need to on it on the day of an chuang or wedding day or both day ?

3. My wedding will be on 23 Sept 16.
Both of us zodiac OX.
My GDL & An ChuAng which date is advisable?
( Hope to be on the same day )

4. What is the best timing to fetch the bride ?

Thank so much for your kind advise in advance.
Appreciate it!

 

[kiwiorange]

Hi master tong,

Understand that Qing Ming period couldn't send out invitation card to guest, may I know how long does it takes? 10 days before and after of actual qing ming? Or the entire lunar 3rd month couldn't?

Thanks

 

[Ambersan]

Hi Master,

I just want to know in general is the following 2017 dates good for wedding for us.

20/05/2017, 10/06/2017, 23/09/2017 & 25/11/2017

Bride: Dragon
Bride's parents: Monkey & Rat
Groom: Tiger
Groom's parents: Rat & Rooster

 

[Staralyn]

Hi Master Tong,

I'll be holding my wedding banquet in July this year.. will it clash if i were to organise a housewarming in May?

 

[jessmiko]

Hi David,

After my confinement. may I check if I can be my girlfriend sister for her wedding?

 

[Superxyz]

Hi Master Tong,

We are holding our rom and wedding on 18 Dec 2016. We would like to seek your advice on the following .

1) date/time for GDL
2) date/time for An Chuang

3) Gatecrash

4) Fetch bride (the time groom enter bride house)

5) time when bride and groom enter groom house for tea ceremony

6) time to enter bride bride house for tea ceremony

7) time of tea ceremony if it is different from 3 and 4.

Our details below:
Groom and bride: both are snake 1989

Groom father: rat (1960)
Groom mother: Ox (1961)
Groom brother: tiger (1986)

Bride father: goat (1955)
Bride mother: horse (1954)
Bride brother: rat (1996)

 

[lovmoment]

Hi Master Tong,

Can we go for photoshoot during qing ming period?

how about send invitation cards?

Thx

 

[hwing10]

Dear Master Tong,

Is there any good dates for ROM/Wedding in Oct and Nov 2016?
We are looking at 11th Nov 2016.

Groom: Oct 1985 Ox
Bride: Dec 1987 Rabbit
Groom's Dad: Deceased (Pig)
Groom's Mum: Tiger
Bride's Dad: Ox
Bride's Mum: Rat

Thanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi junie88

2017 clashes to Rabbit, by right not a hd yr for wedding as clashes to your bf

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi whitesnow888

that is not a gd date for ROM/wedding

some gd ROM dates are

- 9/9, 20/9, 12/10, 21/10, 30/12

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi loverosesg,

Below r the good dates

- 5/11, 11/11, 23/11, 3/12, 25/12

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Iridis.joy

yes that is correct. Some practice 1 yr, some 3, depending on family belief

 

[mrsgrey]

Hi Master Tong,

Appreciate your advice for our ROM date and Chinese wedding banquet.

Bride: Snake
Groom: Rat

Bride Dad: Goat
Bride Mum: Monkey
Bride Sister: Horse

Groom Mum:
Groom Brother: Goat
Groom Brother: Monkey

We are looking at 8.8.2017 ROM and Tea Ceremony plus Chinese Banquet on 11.11.2017.

Thanks alot!!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Uma Cheng

that date don't clash to anyone, but the tong shu for 2017 will only be out in Aug/sept this yr, so can only check for general good dates then. Now the only way to select is using Bazi only

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi charlotte

We will be holding our wedding in a hotel which doesnt allow us to burn the 龙凤烛 can i ask if it is compulsory or can we give this step a miss?

>>hotel cannot burn. either skip , don't burn or use red packet to replace
Also is it true that once we 安床 cannot move the bed to another house within a year? (our new home may not be ready hence we may be temporarily living with his parents).

>> Nope. usually will re-an chuang at the new hse, but that need to see feng shui to do it
The last questions we have: me and my other 2 sisters plan to get married next year. Some friends have advised us not to do so. However, we could not delay anymore as our flats are coming soon (3 of us r getting keys in the same year)... Is there anything we can do to ward of bad things etc?

unfortunately siblings cannot get married same yr, if no choice at least 100 days apart, else both sides will get extreme bad luck after that

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Xuannyloves

U can drop me an email [email protected] for more info . Tks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Elsa.Nasir

too early for 2018 now. the general dates will only be out next yr sept

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI jetaimeliow

2017 is fine, no clash

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi labbit87

your only cannot get married in 2017. Only consider the clash to both of you only, parents doesn't mattter

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi fannfannhuang

Thank you, how about for Monkey? if 1 of my sister is born in the year of Monkey.

>> so long as that day don't clash Monkey that is fine
And if the dog is not my sister, she is just following me to hubby place, is it possible?

She cannot be your key personnel at all, so by right she don't follow

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Sica2611

Yes rabbit cannot get married in 2017 as rooster clash rabbit

Tong Shu are generic dates for mass consumption only, not accurate enough. Bazi is personalised to birthday and time of birth, more accurate, more precise, the right way and does not need to wait for tong shu to be out.

U can find out more on my website www.cmgconsulting.com.sg

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cherryame,

the tong shu for 2017 will only be out in Sept this yr, so can only check then. Right now the only way is using Bazi to select only

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi BitBit58

22/5 clash Dog bride mum, cannot be used

The only gd weekend in May/june will be 21/5

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi dreamycandy

I need both your animal zodiac and parents zodiac signs as well

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI wAt3v3r

the tong shu for 2017 will only be out in Sep this year, hence if you looking at general dates, I can only check then. Now the only way is using bazi to select

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Tth88

These are the general gd dates

- 3/9, 20/9, 28/9, 2/10, 12/12

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi BitBit58

6th June is not a general good day

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi dreamycandy

I need both your animal zodiac as well as parents animal signs