Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Petallz

1. Sorry for this silly question. Can I know what if we never An Chuan or postpone after the wedding when we have a house? What will happen?

An Chuang is our Chinese custom to symbolise lots of children. It is a custom, doesn't mean if you don't do means no kids

2. My best friend is also getting married next year. Is it right that we have to keep our weddings 100 days apart?

Yes correct
3. "The 100 days apart", is it applicable to ROM or gatecrash or church or wedding banquet? (Sorry to ask this question in such a weird way. This is because that I may be having different events on different days to pace it out and we only want a Sunday banquet and most Church weddings are usually offered on Saturdays only. So, we may want to have it on 2-3 different days.)

All. So long it is a red event, the 100 days rule apply. so the more you split, the more you have to consider.

4. As I may be having different events on different days, how many wedding dates do I need? Which one is counted under the Chinese customs?

ROM and Customary. Customary is the date you serve tea to parents.

 

[canniechanky]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to ask regarding whether 11 / 11 / 2016 Friday, is a good date for wedding?

My zodiac (bride): 15/11/1988 dragon
Groom: 21/06/1976 Dragon
Bride mom: Monkey 1956
Bride dad: dragon 1952
Groom mum: ox 1949
Groom dad: snake 1941

Thank you so much, Master Tong

 

[milkbone81]

Hi milkbone81

these are the general gd weekend - 3rd Jan , 20th March

12th march is not a gd date

Hi Master Tong,
Thanks for replying. Can you suggest any Saturday in January or March? Thanks!!

 

[jerloves]

Hi jerloves

All the 3 dates are not general tong shu good dates for wedding

Hi Master Tong, in that case, are there any good dates (Sat or Sun) for ROM and banquet inMarch and June 2016?

Bride: Horse
Groom: Rabbit
Parents: Rooster, Goat, Rabbit, Ox

 

[polaris_qq]

Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check if 26 Nov 2016 is a good date for wedding?

My zodiac (bride): 27/08/1987 rabbit
Groom: 27/06/1986 tiger
Bride mom: Monkey 1956
Bride dad: Rooster 1957
Groom mum: Rooster 1957
Groom dad: Rabbit 1951

Thank you!

 

[antiseptic]

Hi Master Tong,

Could you advise if 2 July or 3 July 2016 is good for weddings?

Groom: Pig
Bride: Goat

Groom Dad: Pig
Groom Mum: Ox
Groom Bro: Dragon

Bride Dad: Ox
Bride Mum: Dragon
Bride Bro: Rooster

If the 2 dates are not suitable, could you advise on other suitable weekend dates in the second half of the 2016?

Thank you.

 

[ahgongbeast]

Hi ahgongbeast

April is qing ming no dates. let me know exactly which mth you looking at

Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your reply.

I would like to check with you from May to December 2016, which 3 months are good for holding wedding solemnization cum wedding banquet?
Appreciate if you can provide a weekend date for each month. Thanks for your help and time.

Groom: Rat (1984)
Bride: Rabbit (1987)

Groom's mom: passed away
Groom's dad: Dragon

Bride's Father : Dog
Bride's Mom: Cow

 

[Superxyz]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold ROM together with tea ceremony and lunch/dinner banquet in end 2016.

Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates between sept 2016 - dec 2016, preferably on weekends.

Here are our details:
Groom and bride: both are snake 1989

Groom father: rat (1960)
Groom mother: Ox (1961)
Groom brother: tiger (1986)

Bride father: goat (1955)
Bride mother: horse (1954)
Bride brother: rat (1996)

Also, one of my cousin is holding tea ceremony in 2016. Would this clash even if we do not attend each other wedding?

Thank u!

 

[wanytan]

Hi master tong, my wedding is on 12 nov 2016, may i know what is the auspicious timing to fetch the bride?
Thanks

Bride : rabbit (1987)
Groom : horse (1978)
Bride mum : ox
Bride dad : rooster
Groom mum :rabbit

 

[Petallz]

Hi Petallz

1. Sorry for this silly question. Can I know what if we never An Chuan or postpone after the wedding when we have a house? What will happen?

An Chuang is our Chinese custom to symbolise lots of children. It is a custom, doesn't mean if you don't do means no kids

2. My best friend is also getting married next year. Is it right that we have to keep our weddings 100 days apart?

Yes correct
3. "The 100 days apart", is it applicable to ROM or gatecrash or church or wedding banquet? (Sorry to ask this question in such a weird way. This is because that I may be having different events on different days to pace it out and we only want a Sunday banquet and most Church weddings are usually offered on Saturdays only. So, we may want to have it on 2-3 different days.)

All. So long it is a red event, the 100 days rule apply. so the more you split, the more you have to consider.

4. As I may be having different events on different days, how many wedding dates do I need? Which one is counted under the Chinese customs?

ROM and Customary. Customary is the date you serve tea to parents.

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the reply!

Is it true that the couples should not meet a day before the wedding?

If I am planning the church wedding/ROM on Sat, and follow by banquet on Sunday, is it possible?

Thanks!

 

[TT999]

Hi Master Tong,

We need your expert advice. We are going to get married in 2016. What dates are good for us? Please advise us several dates on weekends.

1. 14 February 2016
2. 19 or 20, 21 Feb 2016
3. 27 or 28 February 2016

Groom: 31 Dec 1981 (rooster)
Bride: 20 June 1982 (dog)

Groom's dad: passed away
Groom's mom: passed away

Bride's dad: 27 Sept 1960 (rat)
Bride's mom: 8 March 1962 (tiger)

My brother 22 April 1985 (ox) is getting married in 25 sept 2016

Thank you in advance..

 

[peejay]

Hi Master Tong,
Would like to know any dates in from Nov to Dec 2016 weekends good for customary. Was looking also at 19th June 2016. is this a good day for us? Thanks

Groom : 1984 ( Rat)
Bride : 1989 (Snake)

Groom's father : passed away
Groom's mother : 1956 (monkey)

Bride's father : 1950 (tiger)
Bride's mother: 1954 (Horse)

thank You!

 

[kathybaby]

Hi Happygirlgirl,

Yes you can still select your wedding dates using a combination of other date selection techniques as well as both you and your spouse's Bazi. In fact, for wedding dates selection, the Bazi for both of you has to be taken into consideration. This is very important as date selection using Bazi (in combination with other techniques) is much more precise than using the Tong Shu alone, which is very generic. And with this method, we can select dates for ANY year, including 2010 dates, which is very popular now since most of the auspicious 2009 weekend dates are now almost fully booked if you are signing up with hotels.

Hope this helps

How can i have your contact number?

 

[lynlai]

Hi Master Tong!

We are planning to hold ROM together with tea ceremony and lunch banquet in end 2016.

Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates between Nov 2016 - Feb 2017, preferably on weekends.

Here are our details:
Groom: Sheep (1980)
Bride: Dog (1982)

Groom father: Dragon (1952)
Groom mother: Dog 1958
Groom brother: Dog 1982

Bride father: Ox (1949)
Bride mother: Rabbit (1951)
Bride sister: Dragon (1988)

THANK YOU!!!

 

[BerryDreamy]

Hi Master Tong

I'm currently pregnant, can i attend weddings or baby showers during the whole pregnancy period?

 

[Shoogal]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check whether the date 17 September 2016 is a good date for marriage.

Groom : 28 Nov 1977 0045 hr Snake
Groom Father : 30 Dec 1953 Snake
Groom Mother : 9 Apr 1952 Dragon

Bride : 27 Nov 1976 1303 hr Dragon
Bride Father : 2 Jan 1949 Rat
Bride Mother : 21 Sep 1948 Rat

Thank you!
Shoo

 

[lizz0901]

Hi Master Tong,

My partner and I are looking to get married in 2016. We are actually got a date for our wedding which is on 25/9/16.May I know is this ok?Is there any crash?

Groom:1986(Tiger)
Groom's Dad:1965(Snake)
Groom Mother:1961(Ox)

Bride:1990(Horse)
Bride's Dad:1958(Dog)
Bride's Mom:1963(Rabbit)

Thank you for your time.

 

[Roxyjas]

Her(bride):
己丁己庚
酉丑卯午

Him(groom):
壬壬丁丁
子戌未卯

Bride's:
Mum: 1956 monkey
Dad: 1951 rabbit

Groom's:
Mum: 1958 dog
Dad: 1956 monkey

Can help us choose auspicious wedding dates in first half of 2017 (March- may)

As well as move in to new bto dates in second half of 2016 (June to December). Thank you so much for your help we really appreciate it if you can help us.

 

[jx77]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold ROM and Wedding Dinner on 2 different dates. Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates & time

a) ROM during March 2016 or June 2016

b) Wedding Dinner between (Nov 2016 till Jan 2017) – Preferably on Saturday

c) BTO [in second half of 2016 (June to December)]

d) An Chuan


Groom : 05 Oct 1977 Snake
Groom Father : 13 Jan 1940 Rabbit
Groom Mother : 9Jul 1944 Monkey


Bride : 10 Aug 1982 Dog
Bride Father : Require?
Bride Mother : Require?

Thanks in Advance….

 

[jx77]

Hi Master Tong

please ignored the earlier post... I have amend something....


We are planning to hold ROM and Wedding Dinner on 2 different dates. Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates & time

a) ROM during March 2016 or June 2016

b) Wedding Dinner between (Nov 2016 till Jan 2017) – Preferably on Saturday

c) BTO [in second half of 2016 (June to December)]

d) An Chuan


Groom : 05 Oct 1977 Snake
Groom Father : 13 Jan 1940 Rabbit
Groom Mother : 9Jul 1944 Monkey


Bride : 10 Aug 1982 Dog
Bride Father : 1956 (Monkey)
Bride Mother : 1955 (Goat)

Thanks in Advance….

 

[Jero]

Hi Master Tong,

Is 4 June 2016 is a good date for wedding? Thanks!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi canniechanky

Yes it is a general good date for wedding and don't clash to any of you

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi milkbone81

All the gd sat in jan and mar clashes, which is y not given

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jerloves

These are the general gd dates

- 13/3

Only 1 gd date in march. June has no general good dates.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi polaris_qq

It is not a general good date for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi antiseptic

3rd jul is a general good date but it clashes to Dragon (bride mum), hence cannot be used

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi ahgongbeast

U can use the following general good dates

- 14th May
- 10th July
- 2nd Oct
- 29th Oct
- 5th Nov
- 25th Dec

Hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Superxyz

These r the general gd weekend

- 2/10, 29/10, 5/11, 18/12, 24/12

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi wanytan

Fetch the bride timing will be 9-11am (7-9am is bad timing)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Petallz

Is it true that the couples should not meet a day before the wedding?

>>Yes this is an old tradition. Some don't practice nowadays, so it really depends on you
If I am planning the church wedding/ROM on Sat, and follow by banquet on Sunday, is it possible?

>>yes no problem. ideally both on gd date. If not possible, then the ROM on a better date

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi TT999

All dates you listed are bad. Coz 4th Feb to 4th March is 破月, bad month for wedding.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi peejay

19th june is bad date + clash tiger

the gd date in nov/dec are

- 5/11, 3/12, 18/12, 24/12

hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi kathybaby

My email is: [email protected]

Mobile 98299670

U can drop me an email to reach me. tks

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi lynlai

The tong shu for 2017 (after 4th feb) will only be out next yr Aug/Sep (so for now I can only use Bazi to select 2017 dates)

- 5/11, 25/12, 7/1

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi BerryDreamy

Pregnant cannot go red white event, including wedding, baby showers and wakes

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Shoogal

17th sept 2016 is a VEY bad date. Cannot be used for ROM/Wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi lizz0901

It is an average date and don't clash to anyone, But not a very ideal date for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Roxyjas

The tong shu for 2017 will only be out in Aug/sep next yr. Now the only way is using Bazi to select.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jx77

ROM: 13/3, 9/6, 21/6
Customary: 5/11, 18/12, 25/12, 7/1

hope this helps

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Jero

4h june is not a general good date in the tong shu for wedding (can only be used if bazi fit)

 

[peejay]

Hi peejay

19th june is bad date + clash tiger

the gd date in nov/dec are

- 5/11, 3/12, 18/12, 24/12

hope this helps

Den what about june 18?

 

[milkbone81]

Hi milkbone81

All the gd sat in jan and mar clashes, which is y not given

Ok. Thanks.

 

[jiejieningning]

Hi master tong,

We are planning to hold our rom in March 2016. Any weekdays date is good?

Our customary we are planning to hold on 24th Dec 2016. Is it a good date?

Bride: 12 Oct 1991 (goat)
Bride dad: 1961 (cow)
Bride mum: 1964 (dragon)

Groom: 10th Jan 1989 (dragon)
Groom mum and dad (rabbit)

Thank you in advance!!

 

[Roxyjas]

Hi Master Tong,

If based on bazi (in my earlier post) what are the good dates in first half of 2017 for wedding? Thanks!

As well as bto move in dates in second half of 2016! Thanks!

 

[canniechanky]

Hi canniechanky

Yes it is a general good date for wedding and don't clash to any of you

Sure, Thank you Master Tong
Have a good day ahead!

 

[jx77]

Hi jx77

ROM: 13/3, 9/6, 21/6
Customary: 5/11, 18/12, 25/12, 7/1

hope this helps

Thanks for ur advice, Master Tong... However, is there any suitable weekday on March 2016?

 

[Alexis23]

Hi Master Tong,

Need to seek your assistance for a date with my bf on ROM date in Jan 2016 (prefer

Bride - 31/05/83 Pig
Bride mother - 06/03/62 Tiger

Groom - 06/09/82 Dog
Groom mother - 12/08/53 Snake
Groom father - 16/08/46 Dog

Hope to hear from you soon

 

[catgirl22]

Hi Master Tong,

Just want to know the general good dates in March 2016 for ROM and Wedding

Groom: Snake (1989)
Groom's parents: Snake

Bride: Rabbit
Bride's parents: Both monkeys

Thank you!!

 

[antiseptic]

Hi antiseptic

3rd jul is a general good date but it clashes to Dragon (bride mum), hence cannot be used

Hi Master Tong,

Can u advise if there are any good weekend dates from Jul to Dec 2016 that doesnt clash?

Groom: Pig
Bride: Goat

Groom Dad: Pig
Groom Mum: Ox
Groom Bro: Dragon

Bride Dad: Ox
Bride Mum: Dragon
Bride Bro: Rooster

Thanks.

 

[simpleE]

Dear Master Tong,

We planning to hold ROM either on 19/2/16 or 26/3/16.
Could you advise is both dates auspicious for us or there is other better weekends date during Feb 2016 -March 2016?

Groom : Dog
Bride : Dragon


Thanks.