Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jole

too early to select 2016 dates now. I will start in aug/sept this year to select based on bazi, and hotel will open for booking 2016 dates ard end of this year. If using tong shu , will have to wait for tong shu to be out in 2015 Aug.

 

[christy_ym]

Thanks! Will check again after tong shu is out.
Anw, are there any general good dates for wedding in Dec 2015?
Thanks again.

 

[gabsch]

Hi Master Tong,

Can you please advise the best date for us in 2015 as well?
Thinking on 31 January 2015

Details as below:

Groom: ox 1985
Bride: rabbit 1987

Groom father: horse 1942
Groom mother: mouse 1948

Bride father: tiger 1950
Bride mother: dog 1958

Thank you!

 

[Carrie Chen]

Hi Master Tong,

Could you please advise the best date for us in 2015? We are actually looking at 17 May 2015 ?


Details as below:

Groom: dog 1982
Bride: rat 1984

Groom father: goat 1955
Groom mother: monkey 1956

Bride father: horse 1954
Bride mother: chicken 1958 (passed away)


Thank you !

 

[Emika]

Hi Master Tong,,

Can you please advise us on what dates would be best for us to get married.

Groom: August 1985 - OX
Bride: April 1984 - Rat

Preferred wedding dates: Weekend of March/ April/ May 2015
What date do you think is the best date for our wedding?

Thank you so much.

 

[sangogal]

Dear Master Tong,

Like to find out which are the suitable wedding dates for Dec 2014, Feb & Mar 2015 (only Sunday).

Groom: Dog (28 Sept 1982)
Bride: Rooster (21 Sept 1981)

Groom's Dad: Goat (1955)
Groom's Mum: Pig (1959)

Bride's Dad: Horse (1954)
Bride's Mum: Goat (1955)

Thank you!

 

[sangogal]

Do also including sat dates.

Thanks!

 

[defi]

Dear Master Tong,

My brother and his girlfriend want to getting married on 2015.
Could you please recommend what month is the auspicious month and date which is suit with my brother and his girlfriend for their wedding in 2015 ?

Groom: Year 1986, Tiger
Bride : Year 1986, Tiger

Groom's Father : Year 1930, Horse
Groom's Mother : Year 1942, Sheep
Groom's Sister : 1980, Monkey

Bride's Father : Year 1952, Dragon
Bride's Mother : Year 1955, Sheep
Bride's Sister : 1988, Dragon

Thank you very much Master Tong.

 

[defi]

Dear Master Tong,

My brother and his girlfriend want to getting married on 2015.
Could you please recommend what month is the auspicious month and date which is suit with my brother and his girlfriend for their wedding in 2015 ?

Groom: Year 1986, Tiger
Bride : Year 1986, Tiger

Groom's Father : Year 1930, Horse
Groom's Mother : Year 1942, Sheep
Groom's Sister : 1980, Monkey

Bride's Father : Year 1952, Dragon
Bride's Mother : Year 1955, Sheep
Bride's Sister : 1988, Dragon

Thank you very much Master Tong.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi christy_ym

For general dates, i have to check the tong shu when out before i can revert you

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI gabsch

31st Jan 2015 is a super bad day (破日）, cannot be used

Have to wiat for tong shu for 2015 to be out to advise on general good dates

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Carrie Chen

The 2015 tong shu will only be out in Aug/sept this year . Right now can only use Bazi to select only.

17th May is the last day of the Qing ming 3rd lunar mth, cannot be used as chinese dont get married in 3rd lunar mth

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Emika

2015 is Goat yr and clashes to Ox, hence not a good yr for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi sangogal

Dec 2104 is a bad month (岁破), hence not a good month for wedding.

For 2015 dates, will have to wait for tong shu to be out in Aug/sept this yr before i can advise you. Now the only way is using Bazi to select

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi defi

The tong shu for 2015 will only be out in Aug/sept period, so can only check for general dates then. Right now, can only use bazi to select, which is the right way and tong shu dates are more for mass consumption and generic dates only

 

[4ever]

Dear Master Tong,

I read through your advise to other members that year 2015 of goat will clash with ox for marriage.
Will 2016 be ok?

Groom: 1985 ox
Bride: 1984 rat

Groom dad: 1948 rat
Groom mum: 1955 goat

Bride dad: 1955 goat
Bride mum: 1956 monkey

Thank you!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi 4ever,

Yes 2016 will be perfect

 

[Happylicious]

Hi master tong,

My bf and I would like to hold our wedding next year 2015, need your professional advice to check if the following months will be a auspicious date for us?

Jan or June 2015

Groom: Monkey 1980
Bride: Rat 1984

Groom Dad: Pig 1947
Groom Mum: Dragon 1952

Bride Dad: Goat 1955
Bride Mum: Horse 1954

Thank you.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Happylicious

June is better coz Jan is still horse yr and clashes to rat, one of you.

 

[snowchilli]

Hi master Tong ,

Would like to check. I understand that me n my bf clash. I'm dog (1982) n he is dragon (1988). Is there any way that our wedding will not add on the clash? We are trying to look at next year. Thanks.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi snowchilli

Zodiac clashes does not automatically mean you will have bad marriage. You can still have a happy marriage as we have to look at both your whole bazi in depth to see if the marriage aspect is good or bad. So not to worry too much yet

Next year is goat yr,clashes only to Ox. So long as both of you are not Ox, all you need is a good date

 

[cheryl89]

Hi Master Tong

My fiance and I need ur advice. I understand that year 2015 clashes to Ox. However my fiance and I were born in e year of Snake. My dad is an Ox though. So will it still be possible for us to hold our wedding in 10 Oct 2015?

Thanks!

 

[Soh Lili]

Hi Master Tong

I read in your previous posts that 2015 is a bad year for Ox to be married, but you also mentioned in one of your posts that if the ROM is 2014 and the banquet is 2015 then it's not that bad. How about the other customary ceremony events like Guo da li and tea ceremony? We are thinking of holding our ROM this year but the guo da li, tea ceremony and banquet in 2015. Is that still a bad idea?

For info, here are our details:

Groom: 11 May 1982 (Dog)
Bride: 13 Nov 1985 (Ox)

Groom's father: 11 April 1957 (Rooster)
Groom's mother: 25 Jan 1953 (Dragon)

Bride's father: 17 Sept 1949 (date might not be accurate) (Ox)
Bride's mother: 6 Jan 1952 (Rabbit)

Thank you!

 

[Memories101]

Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I would like to hold our wedding in 2015, and would like your advice on the suitability of the following dates based on our birth years:

21 Mar
13 Jun
14 Jun
20 Jun

Groom: 1984 (Rat)
Bride: 1986 (Tiger)

Groom's dad: 1955 (Goat)
Groom's mum: 1954 (Horse)

Bride's dad: 1955 (Goat)
Bride's mum: 1960 (Rat)

Thank you!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi cheryl89

So long as both of you not Ox will do. Parents doesnt matter. they are not the ones getting married

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Soh Lili

It will be ideal to bring the tea ceremony for parents + ROM to 2014 as these are the 2 most impt thing for chinese wedding. Rest u can do in 2015 if no choice

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Memories101

Only 14th & 20th June doesnt clash to anyone. But have to wait for tong shu to be out in Aug to check if it is a general good date

 

[David_t]

Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold our wedding in December this year (2014). Is it a suitable month for us and if so, any good date to recommend?

Groom: 1981 (Rooster)
Bride: 1982 (Dog)

Groom's mum: 1952 (Dragon)

Bride's dad: 1956 (Monkey)
Bride's mum: 1960 (Rat)

Thank you!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi David_t

Dec 2014 is 岁破 month, a bad month for wedding this yr.

 

[zhuzhu9292]

Hi Master Tong,

Will 2016 (Monkey) be a ideal year for us to get married ?
Thinking of 27 February 2016

Groom: 1989 (Snake)
Bride: 1992 (Monkey)

Groom's Parents: 1964 (Dragon)

Bride's Parents: 1966 (Horse)

Thank you.

 

[suyan]

Hi Master Tong,

Will 2014 4th Jun or 6th june better for move in house?
Married on 31 aug 2014? will it be fine?

Groom: 1983 (pig)
Bride: 1985 (ox)

Thank you..

 

[adampoh]

Hi Master Tong,

I have a question.
The groom born in 1984 rat
The bride born in 1985 ox.

Understand that rat clashes with this year horse 2014. And ox clashes with goat next year 2015.
Anyway to resolve this if we planning to wed(tradition chinese dinner and ROM) either Dec 14 or sep 15. Or do we use Baizi to have have a better dates?

Need your opinion.

Thanks and regards,
Adam Poh

 

[Daph0620]

Hi David,

My fiancé's younger brother will be getting married in Jan 2015. How many months apart will our wedding have to be from the brother's? We are thinking of having our wedding in August 2015. Will that be alright? Kindly advice. Thank you.

 

[snowchilli]

Hi Master Tong.

Can help me see if me n my bf clashes. Actually plan to get married next year. But something crop up. I thinking if shod I continue this r/s.

Guy: 21/10/1988
Gal: 23/09/1982

Thanks a lot

 

[Paragon]

Dear Master Tong,

My fiance and I would like to get married in 2015 as we noted your advice that 2014 is a bad year for Rat. Appreciate your advice on which of the following dates would be suitable:

• 8 March 2015 (we heard that it is not advisable to get married on the first month of the year, is this true?)
• 14 March 2015
• 30 May 2015
• 13 June 2015

Groom: May 1984 (Rat)
Bride: May 1984 (Rat)

Thanks in advance!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi zhuzhu9292

Yes the year is fine but too early to calculate anything now. the tong shu will only be out in 2015 sept (f0r 2016) and if using bazi to calculate, i will start this yr Aug/Sep for 2016 dates

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi suyan

For move house dates, i have to go down to your new house to measure the direction of the house so as to match occupants bazi in order to derive the dates . so i cannot tell like this.

For wedding dates, 31/8 is a general good date, so long as none of your parents are Dragon (as clash dragon that day)

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Adam Poh

the year, no matter what, is still bad. So you can only choose the better dates in a not so good year...best is 2016 of course if you can wait,

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Daph0620

Aug is fine . by right siblings cannot get married same lunar yr and must be at least 100 days apart

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi snowchilli

We need to arrange for a Bazi session to do it. This is part of my consultation service .

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Paragon

you need to repost everything again, with all your parents animal signs.

 

[suyan]

Hi suyan

For move house dates, i have to go down to your new house to measure the direction of the house so as to match occupants bazi in order to derive the dates . so i cannot tell like this.

For wedding dates, 31/8 is a general good date, so long as none of your parents are Dragon (as clash dragon that day)

thanks..
i dunno my house direction too.. lol

 

[suyan]

btw, is it true that we cant attend our fren wedding at least 3 month apart to our own wedding?
i have a fren wedding that is 1 mth apart from my big day, able to go down?

 

[adampoh]

Hi Adam Poh

the year, no matter what, is still bad. So you can only choose the better dates in a not so good year...best is 2016 of course if you can wait,

Thanks Master Tong for your advise.

A few more questions:
So even if we have choose earlier dates in Jan 2016( it will still consider as 12月 in lunar month) and it is consider as ox clashes in goat lunar year right?

I understand that there's a auspicious timing for fetching the bride to the groom house. Is there also auspicious timing to reach both groom or bride house for tea ceremony?
Cause we are planning to go church after fetching the bride from [meaning to say after gate crush, go to church first (on the way to groom house), than to groom house (with tea ceremony), and lastly to the bride house].

Thanks again

 

[Paragon]

Dear Master Tong,

My fiance and I would like to get married in 2015 as we noted your advice that 2014 is a bad year for Rat. Appreciate your advice on which of the following dates would be suitable:

• 8 March 2015 (we heard that it is not advisable to get married on the first month of the year, is this true?)
• 14 March 2015
• 30 May 2015
• 13 June 2015

Groom: May 1984 (Rat)
Bride: May 1984 (Rat)

Groom's dad: 1951 (Rabbit)
Groom's mum: 1953 (Snake)
Groom's sibling: 1981 (rooster)

Bride's parents: deceased
Bride's sibling: 1985 (ox) and 1987 (rabbit)

Thanks in advance!

 

[Liping84]

Hi, if I need to ROM this year by September, and wants to have the date on saturday, what are the good dates that I can consider?

My boyfriend - 1983 Dog
Me - 1984 Boar

We are actually looking at 6th July or 6th September but seems like both dates may not be suitable? If my mum is born in the year of goat, can 5th July be a good date?

Thanks

 

[snowchilli]

Hi snowchilli

We need to arrange for a Bazi session to do it. This is part of my consultation service .

Hi Master Tong.

I tried calling u in the afternoon. But no answer. Is there a better time to call to arrange. Would like to know the charges for bazi sessions n mayb fix an appt?

Does my bf need to around?

 

[applelicious10]

Hi Master Tong,

May I know if 2 May 2015 is a good day for wedding?

Bride: 1988 (Dragon)
Bride's mum: 1960 (Rat)
Bride's dad: 1956 (Monkey)

Groom: 1985 (Ox)
Groom's mum: 1957 (Rooster)
Groom's dad: 1954 (Horse)

Even though I know that it's not a good year for wedding for Ox, but like to know if 2 May 2015 is ok?

Thanks!

 

[angelonearth]

Hi Master Tong, please advise us on the auspicious dates for our case.

Our ROM and wedding banquet are most likely to be on the same day. Our proposed dates are:
15 Nov 2014, 16 Nov 2014, 22 Nov 2014, 29 Nov 2014, 20 Dec 2014, 27 Dec 2014, 4 Jan 2015, 17 Jan 2015, 18 Jan 2015, 29 Jan 2015

Groom- 1976 dragon
Bride - 1976 dragon
Groom's father - 1949 ox
Groom's mother - 1951 rabbit
Bride's father - 1943 sheep
Bride's mother - 1950 tiger

Is it necessary to know our siblings' year of birth and zodiac signs too?

Thank you , Master Tong!

 

[Daph0620]

Hi Daph0620

Aug is fine . by right siblings cannot get married same lunar yr and must be at least 100 days apart

Thank you for the advice!