Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

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Jozjoz

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are considering to hold our wedding lunch and ROM on either 22 Nov or 29 Nov 2014.
Appreciate if you could advise us if this is a good date, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1981, Rooster
Bride: Year 1985, Ox

Groom's father: Year 1957, Rooster
Groom's mother: Year 1960, Rat
Groom's sister: Year 1984, Rat
Groom's bro in law: Year 1979, Goat

Bride's father: Year 1954, Horse
Bride's mum: Year 1964, Dragon
 


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cerealc

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are considering wedding customary, ROM and banquet in either late 2014 (Jun - Dec) or early 2015 (Jan - Jun).
Would appreciate your expert advice on any suggested auspicious months. Thank you.

Groom: Year 1985, Ox
Bride: Year 1988, Dragon

Groom's father: Year 1946, Dog
Groom's mother: Jan Year 1951, Tiger

Bride's father: Year 1959, Pig
Bride's mother: Jan Year 1963, Tiger
 
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snowiedeer

Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi snowiedeer

I guess you can only check with him. Usually according to chinese customs, 10days before Qing ming day is sweep tomb period, and that day falls within the 10 days. Although date selection is not abt chinese customs, but as chinese, these must still be factored in
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Thank you Master Tong for your advice. I have actually have all arrangments more or less fixed for end Mar already and quite unlikely to make changes anymore...could you give me some advice on how to make the best of the current situation? ie. anything to do/not do to make the day abit better or not as bad pls?
 
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Jotys88

New Member
Hi master tong,

Could you advice on whether it's okay for us to get married in the year 2015?

Groom: 1988 , rabbit
Bride: 1988 , dragon

Thanks!!
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jozjoz

Both are general good dates and doesnt clash to anyone :)

* Note that tong shu dates are general auspicious dates only and both your Bazi are not taken into consideration. Hence a good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the dates are not compatible with both your bazi**
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi snowiedeer

There isnt anything you can do coz this is date "selection". you have to choose a good date. Anyway, Qing ming etc are chinese customs, not feng shui. Hence so long as that date is a good date, this is still fine . but since this is selected by another master, i cannot comment much since i wont know how he select etc etc :)
 
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Michellemybell

New Member
Hello Master Tong,

I have chosen Sept 19, 2015 for my wedding date? Is there a problem getting married in the year of the goat since I am an ox?

Groom: Boar 1983
Bride: Ox 1986
Father in law:dragon 1952
Mother in law: monkey 1956
Father: Rat 1960
Mother: tiger 1962


Thank you!!!
 
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michy_tmy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise if we can hold our wedding customary & banquet in year 2015?
And for a good date, is it recommended to select based on our bazi? Or it would be ok to select according to the tong shu?

Groom: Rabbit (1987)
Bride: Dragon (1988)

Thanks.
 
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ckm

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My gf and I are considering to hold our wedding dinner and ROM on 16 Oct 2014.
Appreciate if you could advise us if this is a good date, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1982, Dog
Bride: Year 1983, Pig

Groom's father: Year 1953, Snake
Groom's mother: Year 1960, Rat

Bride's father: Year 1952, Dragon
Bride's mum: Year 1957, Rooster
 
senkzz

senkzz

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My Girlfriend and me are planning to have a wedding on september 2015. we'ree planning between 12th or 19th september 2015.
Could i ask your advice about that date, or would you advise a better date? we would like about between september-october 2015.

Groom: Year 1989, Snake
Bride : Year 1988, Dragon

Groom's Father : Year 1955, Horse
Groom's Mother : Year 1960, Rat

Bride's Father : Year 1965, Snake
Bride's Mother : Year 1963, Rabbit

Thanks for your advices
 
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defi

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

My brother and his girlfriend want to have an engagement on March 2014, We are planning to do engagement on 16th March 2014.
And for wedding is in the year 2015.
Could you please recommend what time, around what month is the auspicious month which is suit with my brother and his girlfriend for their wedding in 2015 ?
Could you please give your opinion about 16th March 2014, whether it is suitable and auspicious date and time for them ?

Groom: Year 1986, Tiger
Bride : Year 1986, Tiger

Groom's Father : Year 1930, Horse
Groom's Mother : Year 1942, Sheep
Groom's Sister : 1980, Monkey

Bride's Father : Year 1952, Dragon
Bride's Mother : Year 1955, Sheep
Bride's Sister : 1988, Dragon

What we should bring for engagement ?
Thank you very much Master Tong.
 
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kateang

New Member
Dearest Master Tong

Thank you for your kind advices.

We are looking to ROM during the month of MAY 2014, this year. Can you kindly advice us what dates should be avoided?

Groom: 28 dec 1975
Bride: 11 march 1987

Groom dad: 10 sept 1950
Groom mom: 21 march 1951

Bride dad: 11 june 58
Bride mom: 22 march 1960

Thanks so much in advance :)
 
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Irene92323

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

On the Month of Dec(2014), Jan and Feb 2015(Still in horse year), which saturday and time is good for rom?

Groom : 6 July 1987, Rabbit
Bride : 2 October 1991, Sheep

Groom Mother : Dragon, 1952
Groom Father : Horse, 1954

Bride Father : Ox ,1961
Bride Mother : Tiger, 1962
Bride Sister , Dog, 1994
Bride Brother , Ox , 1997

Which hour to pick the bride?

Thanks.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi michy_tmy

Yes 2015 is fine for both of you. Tong shu are generic dates for mass consumption. it is not accurate as it doesnt factor in both your bazi . Hence using bazi to calculate is the only accurate way.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi senkzz

The tong shu for 2015 is not out yet, hence if you are looking at only general tong shu dates, have to wait till Aug this year for the tong shu to come out, then can calculate the dates. For now, the only way is using bazi to calculate

12th sept is defintiely a super bad day. Avoid this day

19th sept clashes to Dragon, hence out too

Hope this help :)
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
HI defi

For 16th march, 11-1pm will be good

For the dates in 2015, the tong shu is not out yet til sept, hence i can only advise the dates after it is out. For now, the only way and accurate way to calculate will be using both ur bazi
 
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kateang

New Member
Thank you for your advice Master Tong. Are there any bad dates for any of the weekends in May for us? Again, thanks so much for your advices.
 
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evezhong

New Member
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Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are considering to hold our ROM on 1 Mar 2014 (Sat).
Appreciate if you could advise us if this is a good date, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1986, Tiger
Bride: Year 1985, Rat

Bride's father: Year 1953, Snake
Bride's mother: Year 1960, Rat

Groom's mum: Year 1954, Horse
 
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delphi512

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Me and my husband just got married and we are placing the bed in our bedroom.
His zodiac is Dog and mine is Ox. Could you advise us which direction should we place our bed?

Thank you! :)
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi delphi512

For bed location n direction there is no generic answer as every hse is different. So have to see the house feng shui to determine
 
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Elo47

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married on either Dec 6 or Dec 19, 2015. Will it be an auspicious date for those born under the signs of Boar(Male) and Ra(Female) and if there's conflict is there a way to mitigate this?

Thanks in advance.
 
felcia

felcia

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are considering to hold our morning wedding and ROM on 1 July 2016
Appreciate if you could advise us if this is a good date, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1984, Rat
Bride: Year 1989, Snake

Groom's father: Year 1950, Tiger
Groom's mother: Year 1957, Monkey

Bride's father: Year 1948, Rat
Bride's mum: Year 1958, Dog
 
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rubieeee

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

My fiancé and I are considering on holding our wedding in the month of March 2015 on a weekend.
We've sourced around some hotels and are now considering between 21st March 15 and 7th March 15. Please do advise if the dates are good!

Appreciate your help!

Groom: Year 1982, Dog
Bride: Year 1988, Dragon

Groom's father: Year 1951, Rabbit
Groom's mother: Year 1955, Goat

Bride's father: Year 1954, Horse
Bride's mum: Year 1960, Rat
 
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kcp_pris

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

My fiance and I are holding our wedding in september this year. One of my friend who is going to be one of my bridesmaid on my wedding is pregnant. Her expected date of delivery is in july. I not sure if she can attend my wedding and be my bridesmaid or not? Could you advise?

Thanks.
 
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wis

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

My boyfriend and I are considering holding our ROM following possible dates:
1 Oct 2014
1 Nov 2014

Here are our details:
Groom : 7 Dec 1981, Rooster
Bride : 8 October 1980, Monkey

As my brother is also holding his ceremonial wedding on 15 Nov 2014, we are also wondering if there will be problems like clash of luck or something.
If we were to hold our ceremonial and the ROM on that day itself will it be a problem?
 
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cerealc

New Member
Hi Master Tong, you had advised that 2015 goat yr is not good for Ox to get married. May I know does it matter if I hold my ROM in 2014 year but Chinese customary/ dinner in 2015? Is it also not advisable?

Also for Ox, if 2015 is not a good yr to marry, will it apply to all dates in 2015 or still depends on bazi? Thanks!
 
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pejn17

Member
Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are considering to hold our wedding on 6 June 2015
Appreciate if you could advise us if this is a good date, pls? Thank you.

Groom: Year 1985, Ox
Bride: Year 1987, Rabbit

Groom's father: Year 1950, Tiger
Groom's mother: Year 1958, Dog

Bride's father: Year 1954, Horse
Bride's mum: Year 1959, Pig
 
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Beanny

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We would like to check which will be the best date for our wedding in 2014. We are considering these dates:

September 2014
Fridays: 19, 26
Sunday: 28 (preferred)

October 2014
Fridays: 3 (most ideal date), 10, 17 , 24

November 2014
Fridays: 7 & 21 (preferred), 28

December 2014
Friday: 5 & 19 (preferred), 12, 26
Sunday: 14 (preferred)

Details as follows:
Groom: 6 Feb 1980 (Goat)
Bride: 15 Sep 1980 (Monkey)

Groom's Father: Rat
Groom's Mother: Cow
Bride's Father: Should be Tiger (born on 8 Feb 1939)
Bride's Mother: Rooster

Appreciate your advise soon. We are trying to secure a ballroom after CNY.
Meanwhile, can I check how much is the fee you charge for detailed wedding consultation(e.g. guo da li, auspicious time to pick bride, an-chuang)?
Thanks a lot.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi elo47

2015 is ok. 19th dec clash pig, cannot be used.

6th dec no clash, but have to wait for tong shu to be out to check if it is a general good day
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi rubieeee

7th clash Rat, cannot use

21st clash tiger, none of you, but have to wait for tong shu to be out in sept to check if it is a general good day. Now the only way to check is using bazi

Hope this helps
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi kcp_pris

Shr can only attend wedding/jie mei after her 1 mth confinement period is over. and your cannot meet after her delivery till after 1 mth confinement period is over too
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi wis

First, i need both side parents zodiac, so repost all your info again after you get these

Seondly, siblings cannot get maried same yr. Will clash and bring bad luck to both.
 

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rubieeee

New Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi rubieeee

7th clash Rat, cannot use

21st clash tiger, none of you, but have to wait for tong shu to be out in sept to check if it is a general good day. Now the only way to check is using bazi

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

Thank you so much for your reply. Does 9th May 2015 clash with any signs then?

Groom: Year 1982, Dog
Bride: Year 1988, Dragon

Groom's father: Year 1951, Rabbit
Groom's mother: Year 1955, Goat

Bride's father: Year 1954, Horse
Bride's mum: Year 1960, Rat
 
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