Hi Nguik2
Yes pregnant and anyone whose family member pass away cannot attend weddings or participate in any wedding related activities
What things that groom must bring for bride for guo da li ?
what things that bride must bring for groom for guo da li ?
And what things must be prepare for an chuang bridal bed setting ?
>> For these, there are too many items to list here. when you go and buy in chinatown etc, they will advise you what to buy and do. I usually will explain everything to my clients when we meet for wedding dates selection and give them a guide, but i can't post it here, else it will be unfair to them if i give everything here.
Whether during gou da li, groom and groom's parents should not be come ?
>> yes parents should not go. Usually matchmaker (elderly auntie or uncle) will follow, or in modern days, friends or siblings will do
Whether for an chuang, bride and groom can do bed setting by themselves ?
>> By right, a good fortune couple must do it. In modern days, some couples do themselves (but i prefer you do the traditional way if u want do it properly)
How about if my little brother married first before me as his brother, what should he give for me ? whether it will affect my future ?
No such thing. Won't affect anything. In old days, they will hang your pants on the main door for him and his spouse to walk under during fetch the bride session. This is the only way if you want to do something, but this is 21st century already, only 0.00001 % of my clients do that!