Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi blackdiamond

Both dates doesn't clash to any of you, but they are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. Can only be used if that date and your bazi are compatible

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi chocklate

If pregnant, the pantang part will be you cannot attend any red/white events such as weddings and funerals.

The feng shui (which is real, not pantang) part is you cannot move house or renovation your house during pregnancy period.

Hope this helps
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beautillusion

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

This is a lil complicating cos groom's parents divorce and both sides have remarried... He is staying with his mum currently. Do you need the groom father's and stepmum zodiac?

I saw in one of your post that oct-nov is not really good for wedding... will you be able to advise a suitable date between Oct-Dec 2012 which dates will be a good date for wedding? am looking at weekends.

Groom: Rat
Bride: Ox

Groom's mum: dog
Groom's stepdad: horse
Bride's mum: rabbit
Bride's dad: rat

thanks!
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conniehuang

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are keen on having our wedding on 02 Dec 2012(19 Oct 2012 Lunar Calender) or 15 Dec 2012 (03 Nov 2012 Lunar Calender). Please assist if it will be a good date for us to hold the wedding. Below are our details for reference:

Groom: Feb 1984 Rat
Bride: Feb 1984 Rat

Groom Dad: 1948 Rat
Groom Mum: 1948 Rat

Bride Dad: 1946 Dog
Bride Mum: 1955 Goat

Thank you in advance and we look forward to your reply.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi chocklate

If minor drilling of a few mins, it is ok. If major drilling, esp if last more than 20 mins, then generally it is considered reno already.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi beautillusion

So long as your are in contact, then i will need their info. Else i don't need (btw the more person i take into consideration, the less dates you have). Hence let me know if you need to change your info provided.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Huang Ruizhen

Both are not general tong shu good dates for wedding. 2/12 does not clash anyone, 15/12 is a very bad date for wedding

Hope this helps
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gester

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are keen on getting married late 2012 or in 2013 and would greatly appreciate if you could kindly advise us on some auspicious date.

Groom : August 1987 - Rabbit
Bride : September 1987 - Tiger

Groom Dad (Deceased) : January 1952 - Dragon
Groom Mom : May 1956 - Monkey

Bride Dad : October 1954 Horse
Bride Mom : October 1961 Ox

Thanks in advance Master Tong
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Deny

I need to know which year and which months you are looking at. 2 years is too big a range for me to give you dates as there are tons
 

beautillusion

New Member
Thanks for the advice Master Tong
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kindly use the details below... will appreciate advise a suitable date between Oct-Dec 2012 which dates will be a good date for wedding? am looking at weekends. I understand that the more ppl taken into consideration, there will be lesser dates...

Groom: Rat
Bride: Ox

Groom's mum: dog
Groom's stepdad: horse
Groom's dad: rooster
Bride's mum: rabbit
Bride's dad: rat

thanks!
 

cquek

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for the dates, however we are hoping to get more options on weekends besides 9th. So is is there any other dates after 9th Dec 2012,on weekends suitable for us?

Thank you in advance!

Groom: 1981 / Rooster Groom'sFather: Tiger Groom's Mother: Ox
Bride: 1978 / Horse Bride's Father: Dragon Bride's Mother: Snake
 

littlebottle

New Member
Hi Master Tong

We are looking at 23 Nov 2012 and would like to check whether it is a good date for our wedding.

Groom & Bride: Pig

Groom's dad: Dog
Groom's mum: Rabbit
Groom's younger brother: Tiger

Bride's dad: Rabbit
Bride's mum: Tiger

Thanks a lot!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Is it ok for my fren to be my sister and also attend my wedding if her aunt (father's sister) just pass away 2 weeks before my wedding?

Please advise. Thank you!
 

kler

New Member
Hi David Tong,

Is 22 Dec 2012 or 6 Oct 2012 a good date for marriage? Could you advise some dates for Nov to Dec 2012?

Groom: Ox
Bride: Tiger

Groom dad:Rabbit
Groom Mum: Horse

Bride Dad: Rat
Bride Mum: Ox

Many thanks!
 

pinkangel17

New Member
Hi Master David,

We are planning to ROM next year 2012, could you advise a good date till Jun 2012?

Groom: 1982
Bride: 1981

Groom's Parents: 1951 & 1959
Bride's Parents: 1950 & 1955

Thanks in advance.
 

defi

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

Whether pregnant women and people whose family member just passed away should not participate in the wedding ceremony, nor to touch the newlyweds clothing or anything in the new home is that true ?
What about tea ceremony, an chuang and gou da li ? whether pregnant women and whose family member just passed away also should not participate ???
What things that groom must bring for bride for guo da li ?
what things that bride must bring for groom for guo da li ?
And what things must be prepare for an chuang bridal bed setting ?
Whether during gou da li, groom and groom's parents should not be come ?
Whether for an chuang, bride and groom can do bed setting by themselves ?
How about if my little brother married first before me as his brother, what should he give for me ? whether it will affect my future ?

Thank you very much.
Best Regards,
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are keen on getting married in 2nd half of 2012 and would greatly appreciate if you could kindly advise us on some auspicious date.

Groom : July 1983 - Pig
Bride : October 1983 - Pig

Groom Dad : Feb 1956 - Monkey
Groom Mom : March 1962 - Tiger

Bride Dad : Nov 1945 Rooster
Bride Mom : Nov 1952 Dragon

Thank you very much.
 

conniehuang

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you very much for your advice. Appreciate it.

We would greatly appreciate if you could kindly advise us on some auspicious date for us between Oct to Dec, preferably on weekends.

To reiterate:

Groom: Feb 1984 Rat
Bride: Feb 1984 Rat

Groom Dad: 1948 Rat
Groom Mum: 1948 Rat

Bride Dad: 1946 Dog
Bride Mum: 1955 Goat

Thank you so much and we look forward to your reply.
 

chloe_belinda

New Member
Hi, I have a question here. I heard from other people that, those who are having wedding themselves are asked to AVOID attending other peoples' wedding 3 months before and after. Kindly advise what do they mean by "clash of happiness". And, why is there such a customary? Actually, we will like to find out more. My best friend of more than 10++ years is getting married 1 month before mine and will reallllllllly love to attend. Is there any fenshui things which we can do to avoid being 'clashed' . Pls advise.
 

kitminish

Member
Hi master,

Is it true that groom and bride should not meet 1 day before wedding? We are planning to ROM 1 day before our banquet, is it possible?

Secondly, I was born on lunar 27 Dec, am I a rabbit or dragon. Some master said I am a rabbit new year is not over but some said I am a dragon as dong zhi is over.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Missy Mimi

Yes no problem as that is not immediate family member, unless she is v close to her and want to avoid wedding as a respect for her
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Kerl

Both are not general good dates for wedding

here are the general gd dates:

- 13/11, 15/11, 25/11, 26/11, 27/11, 07/12, 09/12, 21/12

** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Nguik2

Yes pregnant and anyone whose family member pass away cannot attend weddings or participate in any wedding related activities

What things that groom must bring for bride for guo da li ?
what things that bride must bring for groom for guo da li ?
And what things must be prepare for an chuang bridal bed setting ?

>> For these, there are too many items to list here. when you go and buy in chinatown etc, they will advise you what to buy and do. I usually will explain everything to my clients when we meet for wedding dates selection and give them a guide, but i can't post it here, else it will be unfair to them if i give everything here.

Whether during gou da li, groom and groom's parents should not be come ?

>> yes parents should not go. Usually matchmaker (elderly auntie or uncle) will follow, or in modern days, friends or siblings will do

Whether for an chuang, bride and groom can do bed setting by themselves ?

>> By right, a good fortune couple must do it. In modern days, some couples do themselves (but i prefer you do the traditional way if u want do it properly)

How about if my little brother married first before me as his brother, what should he give for me ? whether it will affect my future ?

No such thing. Won't affect anything. In old days, they will hang your pants on the main door for him and his spouse to walk under during fetch the bride session. This is the only way if you want to do something, but this is 21st century already, only 0.00001 % of my clients do that!
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Huang Ruizhen

I assume it is 2012? If yes, here are the weekend dates for oct - dec

- 18/11, 25/11, 30/11, 07/12,

These are the only weekend dates, hope this helps
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** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Chloe

Yes this is our chinese superstition that within 3 mth before and after your wedding, you cannot attend other's wedding, wakes and child birth. If you do, there will be a clash of luck. The person that goes to get the bad luck. Ie if you go, you get the bad luck, not the wedding couple, and vice versa. As i say, this is a chinese superstition. Up to you if you want to follow or not. But marriage is once in a lifetime thingy so better be safe than sorry. You are not the only person to experiene such things. I have tons of clients that have this problem too, so you are not alone. To attend or not, it's your choice as superstition cannot be measured right or wrong, else it will be science, not superstition
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Kit

This is a chinese belief. But now, some still practice it, some don't, up to you. There is no right or wrong answer, just have to please your parents with it. But if you have a choice (which i believe you have, just have to make changes to your plans) why don't you ROM earlier or on same day? This will solve all problems without the need to think so hard

I need your english birthday to tell you what animal sign you are. ALternatively, go to my website www.chineseweddingdates.com and there is an article there to teach you how to determine your own sign. I suggest you read that first, and later on, when you have your own kids, you know how to do that, and btw, both masters you heard from are wrong!!!
 

melody12

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are getting married in 2nd half (Jul onwards) of 2012 weekends and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious dates.

Groom : Mar 1983 - Pig
Bride : Jan 1983 - Dog

Groom Dad : Dec 1952 - Dragon
Groom Mom : Apr 1950 - Tiger

Bride Dad : Sep 1954 Horse
Bride Mom : Oct 1960 Rat

Thank you very much
 

shirley84

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

we are getting married on 04-Feb-2012 and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us the auspicious time on that day.

Groom - Jun 1978 - Horse
Bride - Jan 1984 - Pig

Groom Dad - Apr 1955 - Goat
Groom Mum - Oct 1957 - Hen

Bride Dad - Aug 1955 - Goat
Bride Mum - Sep 1962 - Tiger

Thank you!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi YX

Here are the general good dates:

- 30/09, 18/11, 09/12

Only 3 weekends available. Rest clashes or not general tong shu good dates.

** note that this is general tong shu good date only. A good date in the tong shu can still turn out to be inauspicious if the date and both your Bazi are not compatible.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi MelMel

As groom is born Dog yr 2012 Dragon yr clashes with Dog, hence not a gd yr for wedding. But 2013 snake will clash to Pig, which is you. Hence let me know if you still want proceed coz 2014 will be a long wait and 2011 is ending soon.
 



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