Justice of Peace-Prof Yu Shi Ming

Hi Victoria

Thanks, it's ok, I still have his email addy. I'll still recommend my friends to email him first and wait for his reply.
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Cheekrene, u noe, sometimes emails dun hv any tones and voice to it so one may come across as not being friendly. Our email correspondences have been formal and straight to the point. No niceties to each other
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hi gracie,

his email is very informal. that's why i feel that his email correspondence is so much different from other JP
 
Oh issit...then that is bad.....the email that I received from my confirmed soleumniser is very fast, and he reply from blueberry (can see from the email), that he is now on the way to catch a flight and confirm with me when to meet me and even asked me to call him anytime if got problem in applying the application from ROM.
 
ya victoria.

Prof yu has a habit to write informal email so i find that his email is slightly harsh.

i like mr chia. his email is very formal and gave us long instruction. very polite person when we met him personally..
 
Hi Cheekrene.......you still able to receive his email.....hahahaa....
He dun even have the courtesy to reply mine, not like the rest of the JPs that I had found, all replied
 
Victoria >> Personally i find Prof Yu very nice. He was very polite and helpful with all my queries and during the solemnisation he even helped us to tie the rings on the ring pillows cos we didn't know how to do it. Since you already engaged someone else, don't have to go on "commenting" about him here. He might have his own reasons not to reply to your e-mail, and if you are busy with work, obviously he is too. Don't forget that he is not obliged to be your JP. And as a JP who is doing it on a volunteering basis, he has a right to pick whom he wants to solemnise and impose any requirements he wants on the couple. If the couple don't like it, then don't engage him, simple as that, no need to make themselves miserable and upset.
 
Just wanna check if Prof Yu is still a JP? He wasn't listed in the licensed solemnisers which I have downloaded from the ROM site.
 
All> Well I personally feel that getting a JP is heng sway... Either you get it or not. My JP is Prof Yu too... his email reply is short that kind.. Eg. "OK" or "Done". There is once my spouse call him to confirm the date of our ROM (3 days before our ROM date) we call once and he did not pick up and also knowing that he might be working in the Uni so we left a sms on his mobile.. Prof Yu did receive our sms because he return our call and he speak very softly and also not very convenient to talk so he end the call in a rushing manner. Sometimes got to give and take for things like this... We even plan for the worst if JP dun come we will still process with the ROM and just head down the ROM office the next day of the ROM la.

Most important is the person you are marrying to not the JP or which BS or which banquet will the wedding be held. Always have a contingency plan for every thing in case the initial one fail
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Ollie> Prof Yu you got to search under the Grassroot Leader section and go to West Coast Division... his nema is just there.
 
Pearl> when is your ROM? he just advise me that he could only advise adv 3months before our ROM... so sad..now gotta look for other JP le..
 
annisan> huh, really? my ROM is on Christmas day, together with my customary. It is a PH and a long weekend, hence the urgency for looking for one now... oh god, fingers crossed!!!!!!! (>.<")
 
Pearl> yup...my ROM is on the 19.09.09 consider one of the HOT date so did checked with him but then he replied saying he cant commit to me now due to his work schedule... so do u still want his contact? right now taking down as much JP's contact as possible then call one by one... haha =D
 
annisan> Ya I managed to get his email address, do you have his telephone contacts? I have actually contacted 4 JPs already, 2 replied said cannot make it... 1 quite possible provided Im doing with the Buddhist sharing which takes abt 15-20mins (but i prefer the straight-forward one), and the 4th one said can't confirm now! *faintz*
 
Pearl> icic... Prof is my the 2nd JPs i have contacted hu turn me down le... sob sob =( aniwae his HP NO is 9736 6131 i nv call on his mobile so dont noe this no correct de mah as get from forum de... as i emailed him and he response fast... (:
 
Pearl> Hi, Prof Yu does conduct the solemnisation in Chinese. For our ROM he start off in English and Chinese telling what we are doing only the vows is in English no translation.

I also got the same reply from Prof Yu too... to call or contact him back 3mths before our ROM date... I went back to him 3.5mths before our ROM date.. our ROM day is also a hot date last year.. its chinese 8th mth and F1 race date I also kanchong scard cannot get JP too.
 
annisan> thanks, i will note down the number. i have sent him an email this morning, still waiting for his reply. *fingers crossed*

Christy> Hi! Thanks for the info!
 
Carol> Hi and congrets... Aiyo the contact details is in this thread already... the email addresses and contact no. all in this page.
 
thanks alot christy! hehe....
I've jus emailed him. Hopefully he can make it on my solemnisation as mine is a popular date.
 
Lisa> Hi and congrets to your ROM. Erms... the contact details on this page of the thread le..
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You go thru again and you will find it..

Smurf> Yes I get my hubby to call Prof Yu personally cause for ROM thingy he did not do much so I assign him the job think you also can get your partner to call him too... if cannot get Prof Yu just leave a SMS. He will reply one.
 
Yan Mei>>I know JP is on volunteer basics and I know they have the right to select their couple base on their own schedule. You dun have to tell me that.
He treated you nice is you 'heng', I just comment on this forum base on my experience with him. I never ask ppl to stop using him as their JP.
And after all, this forum is for brides to be or marry couple to share their view on wedding etc. I am just stating my own story.
 
Victoria> We appriciate your comments on the forum or thread but if you look back on your post just now "You dun have to tell me that" do sound a little hash.

If I have the choice I would close or delete this thread if I can but of coz I cannot.

Here I do feel a little hurt even for Yan Mei.

As a forumer for so long this is the first time that I have to post such things online.
 
Hi All, I am new in this forum...
I had saw the post from victoria88, Yan Mei and Christy, I personally think that what victoria88 had said is also not so wrong, I can understand the frustation in her. It is just the way she speak and maybe the way Yan Mei speak also. We cannot stop people on how they respond/comments. This is a 'open' forum and people can choose to reply in whatever way. Unless this forum restrict how do we post.
 
I do not denied that some of the users here sound hush, maybe also sound unreasonable. But they are just stated the true and they want to let it out!!
I gone thru the post sent by this ladies, victoria88 didnt pick point on any user on her 1st post. She just state her side of story, instead some users seems to 'pick' on her story. And the way Yan Mei respond seems 'lecturing' her.
Christy>>would you want some one to respone to you in that way?? Or you prefer some one to stand on your side??
 
I know some of our brides here can't wait to share their JP with those bride to be, but not everyone 'click' with the JP they going to invite.
So someone might sound good base on this forum, then in the end, the feedback they get is not good, for sure they will be un-happy.
If you think victoria88 is such a nuisance and bad to this forum, maybe you can seek the webmaster help to 'block' her. So you don't have to feel sad to see her post and feel sad for those she 'attack'.
 
Peipei> Yes I would not say that Victoria88 is wrong but she could be more tactful in her comments or would I rather say maybe she should not use the sentence ¡°You dun have to tell me that" cause it really feel hash from my point of view. Yes I agree that it¡¯s a open forum and anyone can post anything they want so I am also stating my view.. just as what you have done as above.

Of cause I would not want anyone to treat me with the sentence ¡°You dun have to tell me that¡± if one day someone do mention this to me I would be very glad to just tell them ¡°I think its not very wise of you to use ¡°You dun have to tell me that¡±

Maybe from my point of view Victoria88 sound very hash to me but from another person¡¯s view she may not sound hash at all so it boils down to personal¡¯s point of view.
 
Peipei> Yap like you say not everyone click with the same JP... (Which I posted this some time ago)

I dun think its a need for the webmaster to block Victoria88 as this is a free forum and free country I would also say
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Hi Christy, it is just individual view I guess so.....wedding is a very stress thingy and no brides want hipcups on their big day even it is just ROM.
I think when responding, we have to consider our or the user's mood on that moment and whether it is being 'attack' or just simply casual remarks.
Like both of us now, we are 'calm'
 
Peipei> Haha calm... Erms... I dun know if I am but I always have back up one. Like for JP in case he dun come I just proceed on lor.. Its even taught in the ROM website.

So when is your good date?? And have you settle your wedding stuff?
 
I attended a friend wedding and the JP 'play her out', didn't come and then cannot be contacted. So her ROM got to cancel and then she complain to the ROM and then heard they suggested she hold her ceremony there some other days.....oppss...
She cruse and swear like hell......my goodness.....
I am married for 4 years already.....
 
Peipei> OIC. According to the ROM office if the JP dun turn up just proceed the reception as usual and get to ast ast the "JP" for exchange of the ring. But still the next day both couples got to got down to ROM office to redo everything. But normally not a lot of pple prepare for the worst like me I even print out what the acting JP got to do...

Married for 4 yr liao... kids?? 1 or 2??
 
I was aware of it also, but you know...bride...they want their guest to see everything...and relatives and friends sure question them and then that's add pressure to the day and mood.

No kids....(we are on JP topics right??? Will anyone chase us away for changing the topics??) HAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA~~~~~
 
Peipei> Yap I fully understand how your frnds feel. Thats very sway... first time hearing that the JP did not turn up sia.

No la no one will chase you out one... Hahaha
 
hi all,

i have got professor to solemnise for me in june. we send an email to him and his reply was short and sweet. glad that finally we managed to get one....
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Yen> I ROMed last yr. My GDL is in May and AD is in Oct 09. Waiting for the date to come only as I have finish my planning and stuff.
 
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