Justice of Peace-Prof Yu Shi Ming

ya...thanks u guys for all e recommendations! Anw, i had contacted Mr Chan and fortunately he can make it! So happy!! Hope there's no hicupps...
 


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Does anyone know if Prof Yu does solemnization on sunday?

I have not confirm the venue and time so did not try to contact him yet.

Maybe you guys can recommend me any good JP that does solemnization on Sunday as a backup plan.
 
Thanks Yan Mei.

I emailed him but he said he need to know the venue before he can commit. I'm still looking for the venue.
 
hi, I've finally get PROF YU SHI MING, PBM as my ROM solemniser on 28 Dec 08. His contact nos: 64672092(H)/ 68743401(O)/ 97366131(HP)
 
hi, I've finally get PROF YU SHI MING, PBM as my ROM solemniser on 28 Dec 08. His contact nos: 64672092(H)/ 68743401(O)/ 97366131(HP)
 
hi ladies, I've changed my timing to afternoon hence Prof Yu is not available as he got 2 more event on 28 Dec .. Lucky, I manage to get Mr Chan (JP)to solemnise for us =D
 
Hi all, we just ROM on last Sunday and we had Prof Yu as our solemnizer he is very presentable person and speaks well. He did ask if we want to do our vows in English or Mandarin and of coz we choose the English one. He will start off in English and translate in Chinese as we have parents who only understand in Mandarin.. very professional (we also did not ask him to translate in mandarin but he did) Too bad that the restaurant did not offer any carpark complimentary cause Prof Yu as asking for it. The carpark belongs to CK Tangs not Marriott. Prof Yu did not stay for lunch and he seems like he have another place to rush to. Totally recommand Prof Yu as solemnizer
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I'd strongly recommend Assoc Prof Yu Shi Ming too. He's very prompt in his email replies, was on time (arrived 5 mins earlier than the solemnisation time) and was very humourous. He made us feel relaxed and asked if we want to do the solemnisation in Mandarin too. In the end, he did both English and Mandarin. We did our solemnisation in my hubby's house garden 2 weekends ago, and he was the one who helped to gather our relatives and friends forward to witness our matrimonial ceremony.
 
Hi hi all


Does anyone know is Prof Yu Shi Ming still do soleminisation?

As I don't seems to find his name on ROM list of registered soleminiser...


Please advise?

Thanks!
 
Hi Joy

Yes he does. He did mine 2 weekends ago. Google search him and you can find him (with his photo) on the NUS website.
 
shu_ai> Yap I agree with graciie that the question should ask Prof Yu. But I think you also want to know if he have ever solemnize on a Sunday at 5-6pm or not... yes he have done it before on my friend's ROM yesterday. Check with Prof Yu on his time if he is available.
 
i tried to contact prof yu which is 2 weeks before my e-filing. he told me to ask him again on that day before i e-file. is he like that?
 
cheekrene:

I emailed Prof Yu within 3 months to my AD (you can only e-file 3 months to yr AD), like 2 months to my AD. And he responded within 1-2 days. My first question to him is if he's available to solemnise my wedding on <date>. As he's agreed then I got his JP licence no from him. But there were a few email exchanges before we finalised. He's pretty responsive. Maybe he's busy now or can't commit to your AD date?

Well, if u r really not comfortable, then suggest u look for another JP. But if Prof Yu has committed the date and time to u, he's trusted. U'll not regret in choosing him as yr JP
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hi graciie,

i managed to get another popular JP who agreed to solemnise my wedding. maybe i am lucky....

i gave up on Prof Yu as i think he is too popular. sometime he can commit early sometime he cant so i rather try another one just in case he cant commit when i ask him. =)
 
Hi all,

I am in the midst of shortlisting the JPs in case some are not available for my solemmnisation in June 2009. Prof Yu Shi Ming is one of my shortlisted JP. Could you all share with me your experience and procedure when selecting him as your JP?

Thanks in advance.
 
Juz had my solemnisation with Prof Yu this afternoon.He is very patient and very friendly though we were very late due to delay in schedule for the customary before that.I highly recommend him!
 
Ladies, I want to share some information on Pro Yu. I dunnot what to say about him, extremly disappointed, I asked my wedding planner to call him to check if I can have him to solemnise my wedding in March this year, you know what he replied? HE DUN TAKE INSTRUCTION FROM WEDDING PLANNER AND WANT COUPLE TO CALL HIM PERSONALLY. Please......I in banking line, almost cannot use the phone, and expect me to call him......?
Nevermind, I called him the next day, you know what he said: ACTUALLY I'M NOT SO FREE TO SOLEMNISE PEOPLE WEDDING, IF I AM A REGULAR TO THE WHATEVER FORUM, PLEASE STOP DISTRIBUTING THE CONTACT.
Extremely disappointed for someone like him to say things like this....
 
hi victoria,

i agreed with u. i wanted him to solemnise my wedding in this coming march. he wanted me to ask him exactly 3 months before my wedding. i even tried luck few days before 3 months of my wedding. he was very unfriendly to answer me back. i got fed up so i look for another one.

actually u should personally invite the solemniser which will be sincere. this is from my point of view. u can email them instead as they replied back very fast...
 
Hi Cheekrene, thanks for sharing with me...to be honest, I emailed numerous times....since August 2008, he didn't bother to reply at all. And cannot call him on weekend (he never answer HP)Then I have to ask someone to help me, since I cannot do it during work. But dun have to be so unfriendly right.......??
 
Hi Victoria

I agree with Cheekrene, you should personally invite the solemniser. It's stated on ROM website that the solemnisers are all on volunteer basis. They aren't paid any salary for officiating our wedding, so the least we can do and also it's only polite that we talk to the solemniser directly, and not make demand of their services and time. Don't forget, they have a day job too.

I emailed to Prof Yu throughout my correspondence with him and waited patiently for his reply. The most he took was 2 days to reply to my emails. FYI, I looked for him less than 3 months before my AD, not earlier. And I asked him if he prefer to do solemnisation during the day or night. And since he said he values family time in the evening, I did my solemnisation during the day before my tea ceremony. He was very friendly and polite to all my relatives and friends, and wasn't at all what was said of him here. FYI, my AD was 2 months ago.
 
However, my planner had gotten me someone else already, from Grasswood, super-friendly, and even request for a casual meet up to know each other better before the day.
 
Too bad, maybe his mood is no good.

And I truely know that they are not being paid at all. But since he never reply my email which I sent to him months ago, and never pick up phone when I call on weekend. Then you tell me lah, what should I do? I totally lost and really have to seek help from others, I working as a teller in a bank, what can I do?
 
If a person cannot even be cordial or have the most basic courtesy facelessly over the telephone, how can we be encouraged to even attempt to meet him in perosn for a risk of an arctic shower?
 
hi Victoria

If I put myself in yr situation, and I don't get any response on emails or calls since months ago, I'd look for other solemnisers as a precaution
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ya, graciie is right. we have to wait for his email unless he don't response. he dont welcome couple to ask him so much earlier than usual. but i still find that when he reply, he sound unfriendly. this is how i feel.

i met him in person at my friend's solemnisation. he is a nice guy but in email, he is very different.

anyway i got mr chia to do my solemnisation.

victoria,
when is your AD?
 
Thank you graciie, I do understand that calling and emailing any JPs months before my ROM is kind of long, and that is why I choose to do it this months, and I didnt expect to get this kind of stupid respond by 'someone'. And thank you once again, I already gotten another person to solemnise my wedding.
 
Oh I never have Assoc Prof Yu's cellphone number except for his office phone which he's teaching in lectures so I left messages with his admin lady. My correspondence with him has always been on emails, only spoke to him 3 days before my AD on the phone. Also never met up with him before my AD. I sent my wedding vows to him via emails too.
 
Hi cheekrene, you get Mr Chia Ti Yu for your wedding?????????
My planner recomand him, but the time that I would like to solemnise has been taken up....I using Mr Chew Siong Hee.......he seems nice and his secretary is very helpful also.
 

yup i already invited him. luckily he can solemnise for me or else my head go big.

he's a very detailed and friendly guy. met him once and he seemed to teach us what we should do.
 
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