Is he having an affair now?

[choclatte]

Hi Winnie,

Wanna share something with you. Can you kindly pm me? Coz you did nt activate your pm.

 

[simpleman]

choclatte,

wonder why you post in different threads asking threadstarter to PM U?

 

[clark]

i think choclatte is addicted to PMing.

Everybody be careful !!!!!!!

 

[maryjane]

hi to post something similar that happened to me. i found my husb knowing another girl and he admitted he liked her before but that was in the past.
i want a separation but he wants to save the marriage but feel that he doesnt have the love for me anymore.
we seldom talk and i couldnt be the energizer bunny trying to be nice every single time. likewise he is also very quiet towards me and since his love for me has withered, i wonder how miracle can happen and love me as before.
really dont know what to do.
appreciate your advice.

 

[blackforest]

Hi MaryJane,
Why dun both of you try marriage counselling? Mine was too late to salvage. He went astray and refused to come back. I also realised I have been playing the energizer bunny too but it is not appreciated and I was hurt over and over again. I am now in healing stage seeking psychologist and psychiatrist help due to frequent panick attack.

 

[marilyn28]

Oh .. its an old post.

I hope she is in a better condition now.

From what she described, her husband was really suspicious... but hope things can work out well for them.

Don't know why men always like that ...

Maybe they never put themselves in women's shoes. Let them have menses, get pregnant 10 months, give birth to kids, get hormonal change, and still need to work like cow at work and home, see how they like it. (No offence to good guys out there )

 

[scarred]

Hire a PI (Private Investigator)to do the job. I hired before and I really found out all the evidence of his affairs.Prior to that,I nearly went crasy, digging his phone, digging his everything. It was not very expensive I remembered. Interested parties who wish to contact my PI can PM me.

 

[powderful07]

MAR Tan...is that you again?
So now come up with another new nick is it?

How freaking stupid can you get...

 

[powder]

hehe tat's wat i thought too... but i'll let u have the honour...

 

[skylar]

lol....
My exact thots!
let the 2 brothers picak the lobang..

 

[salsa_babe]

hahahaha....now he has to start thinking of another new nick liao...

 

[alcifertoh]

Any good new email domains to reccomend? Hotmail sucks nowdays and I have problems getting into gmail. Maybe you can reccomend us some as you been registering at so many domains to come up with new nicks.

 

[kennyg7]

Actually what is an affair? After married or when in bgr then one party seeing(sex involved?) another person is considered an affair? I know of a girl-friend and her boy-friend quarrel and within one week the man apologize and she is with him again(now they have married and have kid). But during that week, a friend of mine got to know her and immediately they have sex in his hse during that one week period. So is this called an affair? She keep on assuring that she isn't that sort of "anyhow come" type and she did it for love. So how abt if i were to tell her then bf(now husband), can he accept? Sometime, ignorance is better than knowing. As long as the person can built a better life with you and you truly love each other is ok already.

 

[glex]

He is having affairs if :

1 ) he is over protective his gadgets
2 ) suddenly well groom
3 ) over defensive when asking what you do routinely
4 ) suddenly smile and happy
5 ) put carefully the credit card and phone bill
6 ) anger arouse quickly
7 ) he always busy outside

 

[andyboyrewind]

just to share with u coz u said u want looking for p.i that is rliable.. well i engage once b4 when i got to know my wife having affair.. they do a good job indeed.. u can contact the Operation Executive of Glen Iris Investigations,Fendi at 82087511.. talk to him and see what he can do for u.. i engaged Glen Iris Investigation b4 so thats what i wanna share with u..

 

[ckgal]

u agent from there? are u getting a commission for refereral?

U have post in many threads already. stop pls

 

[miloice]

simple reason : andyboyrewind = Fendi at 92087511.

 

[applepie2]

Winnie..

Hmm...I rem 1 post u shared that ur hubby say u 2 fat...Y not take it as a hint tat he hope u do something abt weight /physical appearance. I know u want to try to win him over...but start from dressing good...I would suggest u go for image consultant for that..u can search internet for one. Dress well, look well...maybe what TOW attracted him is how attractive they look...

Just a suggestion..only since i can tel u wanted to win him over..

Honestly, if i m u, i wont want to win him over if he has affairs, cos to me, no point to keep a man whose heart /soul is somewhere else...but of course, everyone's is different.

Jus rem ok, YOUR self worth is not dependent on how he treats you ok .

Take care.

 

[lovingyou]

This is an old post, hope TS had resolved her issue..

 

[applepie2]

Littlewoman :

Hi, thanks for telling me...i did not notice is a old post ...ha...BTW, i always see pp use the term "TS"...what is that...?

I wonder how is Winnie doing now ? hope she is fine .

 

[cuclainne]

TS = thread starter

 

[applepie2]

Thanks cuclainne...!!