Kani,its good that u have decided to sit down n have a chat with ya partner. M sure something productive will come outta ur discussion.
As for venues, jess has given a couple of gd ideas.....here's a few on ma part, mirichi esplanade has a very elegant setting. One of ma gf's had her weddin recep at garuda padang (indon rest) near heeren. It was quite classy i tot. Like i said earlier botanical gardens...hmmm.. or like in sum bars/restaurants @ the hotels... M hotel?
Else follow ya heart and go with the temple wedding. Ask your parents n in laws for help...M sure they'll be more than happy to help. You dun have to do it all alone dear. Also seek the help of ya close frens....hey it can all turn out to be fun?
Relax, chill,dun freak out... think abt it ova the weekend.
Jess, edible type of favor eh? If thats the case then, u can order in s'pore or Jb right? What do u have in mind? Cupcakes...choco...honey kinda? Or laddu, jilebi sorta... Prob ma parents are thinkin abt giving aways bags with laddus n some gifts (maybe a fancy kumkum holder?).
I think u can find the lenghas in a new mall called "express mall" in chennai. I also need to get a lengha....Heard, T-nagar is where its all happening...where u'll get a bulk of ur shoppin done. I'm praying that, i'll find a lengha there....or i'll have to end up at the door steps of the gd old pricey stylemart!
VG/PG- thinkin of edmund leung n Moses....might have to look for another pg for more traditional photos...u know the group shots and stuff.