I need advice

[paewling]

I am to be married soon to a man who is my parents choice. I do not love him. He thinks I am a virgin. I first had sex at 12 years of age but jusr=t a few times. Then, when I was 17 I had sex with an older man.. he was quite "BIG" and know doubt my future husband will know when he thinks he is taking a virgin. Can antone give me advice on what to do. If you want to answe in private write personally to me [email protected]

 

[judetan]

u love him anot? arranged marriage? OMG

 

[mootie]

Wat the! hey Paew Ling, wat's ur question about? to marry him or not? or to disclose that u r not a virgin anymore to him? or to tell him that u do not love him? watever u said sounds very vague. so pls elaborate further.

 

[lovingyou]

Paew Ling: I dun quite get what you mean... U are with someone now, but going to get married to a man whom your parents arranged for you? Hmm... How old are u btw?

 

[blingbride]

To my understanding.. she's concerned bout her future husband who's a choice of her parents and how is he gonna accept the fact that she's not a virgin.. Guess the men she engaged in sex with were from the past.. What I can suggest is if you are consenting to this marriage, have a good interaction with this man and get to know him better and when you catch an understanding of what kinda person he is, ask if he's 'traditional' in his thinking in wanting a virgin wife and slowly break it to him that you are not a virgin.. I cant feel your interest in this man/marriage though.. maybe you can elaborate..

 

[mootie]

er... i kept reading her post and seriously dun understand wat she meant by: he was quite "BIG".. pls enlighten me..

 

[bobochacha]

strange qns..

i got a feeling it's like the macker case..hehe...

 

[pasir_ris_beach]

Arranged marriage in this day in singapore?? hmmm

are u indian?

 

[simpleman]

blissful,

Quite "BIG" refers to the prick?

She meant, the man quite big.. so must have seen to have de-virginize her..

 

[mootie]

yah lo.. might be another bo liao person..

 

[bobochacha]

ya Blissful..could be tat macker again ah..wana test our reaction to the thread..hahhaha

 

[mootie]

yea chris... we juz diam diam first and see wat goes =P

 

[its_fate]

blissful - alamak, U all already "phua kangtang" liao.. U think TS will still come back kanna whack meh?? wahahahahahah.............. =)

 

[mootie]

haha.. iris, juz wait lo. am quite interested in her complicated story lei.. sekali she juz popped by again and say it's true story. keke...

 

[its_fate]

Simi true story?? To start having sex at 12yrs of age?? And only for a few times?? These sentences sounds more "show-off" to me... =)

Hmmmm... wonder who are those who did that to her... Call police ahhhh... Having sex with Minor, must rotan!! Hehehehhe...

 

[mootie]

haha... if she really wanna show off then let her be lo. then we can read it as non-fiction story mah.

wah.. iris fierce ar.. true la. muz rotan all those guys who had sex with her. 12 is like primary 6 only. goodness! does she even know wat's sex at tt point of time? this cha bo quite cool lei. very happening..

 

[green_tranquility]

The email account is an Australian ISP one. In overseas, it's not unusual for some teens to engage in sex very early.