maybe we can form a divorcee's club or something! Super 3-in-1 coffeemix club, kekeke! well, at least for me, I'm a 1+2 children...
Well, as mentioned above, there are quite a number of avenues. I have not tried them yet.
Not to border on procrastinating, I am actually enjoying the quiet moments I have right now when the mother takes the children. I have the whole house to myself. Bought myself a toy to stream movies to my tv, catching up on episodes of House, Heroes as well as other unwatched movies. Playing peaceful music or the 80s at a comfortable volume that I can enjoy.
I know this cannot go on forever. But at this stage, I'll cross the bridge when I come to it.