Siling,
honestly if u r keen on FRF, no point waiting till Nov roadshow, cos by now, there's high chance tat ur intended date for 2009 would be fully taken up..frm now till then, there's 5 mths more...these days, FRF has higher wedding dinner rates like mashi said...more n more couples r considering FRF nowadays...
as for the venus n mercury difference, i guess u can't see in terms of the food quality n menu...generally, most hotels do it tis way...the difference in the ballrooms would be the size of ur guestlist or rather, the capacity of ur total guests...
of cos many ppl r pretty concerned abt the pillars in the ballroom...honestly, if ur ballroom is pretty huge, even if ur ballroom doesn't have pillars, they can't quite see the bride n bridegroom either...for FRF, i'm sure u noe tat there's 'live' projectors...it wouldn't be tat much of an issue...besides, if u do the usual table to table phototaking, it's only then tat ur guests get to see u properly n clearly too
just my 2 cents' worth...
oh ya, like mashi mentioned, FRF usually dun really give more comprehensive perks during their roadshow cos their perks r pretty comprehensive alrd compared to many other hotels tat charge corkage, etc etc...