Why hold someone back... when u know u don't love them...
Why keep them to yourself... when u know you won't wanna have them?
Why let them miss other chances...when they can have them?
If you really don't love someone....le them go...hurt them NOW... not
later...for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions...
A good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is
about love and two people.
Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it
can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt
when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts
when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly
love that person.
Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and
happiness at the same time.That's the reward and that's the risk. Unless
we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to
love and be loved. Sharing love is probably the most valuable and
meaningful experience a person can ever have.And there's a difference
between being in love with someone and loving someone. It's the
difference between a love that's fickle,wild and short-lived and one
that's tender and passionate,nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is
easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us,takes work
because it's about keeping a relationship.
Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with
each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume
that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might
be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect
and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and be loved by
someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what
you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own
special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of
imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other.
True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true
love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love
to a person is undeniable. A relationship needs commitments too. What is
love without commitments from each other anyway? It's like principles
and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are
willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to
relationships, and the person we love.
"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to net, but easy to
break." Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many
of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships
which are formed only for the intense! feeling of falling in love? I know
hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"... but more
often than not, the truth is just I am IN love with you. There is a
difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a
person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes
you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the
present you. This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the
fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us
back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship... where
both were only IN love with each other. But if a person says he/she
loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who
you are now, who you were in
the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she
loves you and really means it,you have to ask yourself if you love him/her
too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to
see the difference through logical thinking. Let your heart guide u. May
you be blessed on your soul-searching journey = for your soul mate.
ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK YOURSELF!
Is this true love? Do I really love him/her? Or izzit just another
infatuation? R U willing to give? Even though you may not get back the
same amount you gave? R U cheating yourself? Thinking that you really
love him/her and not just taking him/her as a substitute for your
ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?
Friends, let today be the day....... you truly understand love....... If
after reading this and answering all the questions,you are very sure that
you love him/her,tell him/her that. Let him/her know how much you love
him/her and that you are willing to take the risks of being hurt by him/her
in the course of the development of your relationship with him/her. This
is a love that's sacrificial, R
U ready for it? If you accept someone's philosophy that is simply their
rationalisation to justify their failure, you accept their failures!"
**The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.** If
you think something will make you happy, go for it. **Remember that we
pass this way only once.**
YoU cAn'T mAkE sOmEoNe LoVe YoU, aLl YoU cAn Do Is Be SoMeOnE
wHo CaN bE lOvEd, ThE rEsT iS uP tO tHe PeRsOn To ReAlIzE yOuR
wOrTh~
Why keep them to yourself... when u know you won't wanna have them?
Why let them miss other chances...when they can have them?
If you really don't love someone....le them go...hurt them NOW... not
later...for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions...
A good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is
about love and two people.
Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it
can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt
when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts
when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly
love that person.
Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and
happiness at the same time.That's the reward and that's the risk. Unless
we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to
love and be loved. Sharing love is probably the most valuable and
meaningful experience a person can ever have.And there's a difference
between being in love with someone and loving someone. It's the
difference between a love that's fickle,wild and short-lived and one
that's tender and passionate,nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is
easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us,takes work
because it's about keeping a relationship.
Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with
each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume
that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might
be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect
and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and be loved by
someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what
you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own
special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of
imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other.
True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true
love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love
to a person is undeniable. A relationship needs commitments too. What is
love without commitments from each other anyway? It's like principles
and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are
willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to
relationships, and the person we love.
"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to net, but easy to
break." Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many
of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships
which are formed only for the intense! feeling of falling in love? I know
hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"... but more
often than not, the truth is just I am IN love with you. There is a
difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a
person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes
you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the
present you. This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the
fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us
back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship... where
both were only IN love with each other. But if a person says he/she
loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who
you are now, who you were in
the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she
loves you and really means it,you have to ask yourself if you love him/her
too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to
see the difference through logical thinking. Let your heart guide u. May
you be blessed on your soul-searching journey = for your soul mate.
ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK YOURSELF!
Is this true love? Do I really love him/her? Or izzit just another
infatuation? R U willing to give? Even though you may not get back the
same amount you gave? R U cheating yourself? Thinking that you really
love him/her and not just taking him/her as a substitute for your
ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?
Friends, let today be the day....... you truly understand love....... If
after reading this and answering all the questions,you are very sure that
you love him/her,tell him/her that. Let him/her know how much you love
him/her and that you are willing to take the risks of being hurt by him/her
in the course of the development of your relationship with him/her. This
is a love that's sacrificial, R
U ready for it? If you accept someone's philosophy that is simply their
rationalisation to justify their failure, you accept their failures!"
**The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.** If
you think something will make you happy, go for it. **Remember that we
pass this way only once.**
YoU cAn'T mAkE sOmEoNe LoVe YoU, aLl YoU cAn Do Is Be SoMeOnE
wHo CaN bE lOvEd, ThE rEsT iS uP tO tHe PeRsOn To ReAlIzE yOuR
wOrTh~
Apparently they are not bred...those sold are all caught fr the sea..like Nemo! guess the movie didn't really get the msg across 
