Divorce advice

[pokoyo]

Can anyone tell me will happen, should do or advice?
1)I have tons of reply an inreply, and these are all empty accusation craps scenario, its words against words what will happen? Is it base on judge judgment of honesty or they don't care?

2)What will happen he keep denying his assets? secret accounts?

3)My divorce is already uncontested, what will happen on this contested assets part?
When evident he submit is clearly ridiculous huge lump some amount of debt borrowed from friends incurred after divorce.
If its false is it against the law?
Will he be penalize on the division?

4)Is my personal saving consider as matrimony assets? Should it be included?

 

[advisor00]

The issue regarding divorce is actually very simple.

You sincerely want to move on and forget about chasing over the money or are you bringing the money and asset part into the picture and let the lawyers have a field day?

The fault is as much yours, in wanting to chase for the money and thereby making your ex defensive and secretive about it.

If you go about it this way, at the end of the day, only the lawyers will win.

 

[pokoyo]

This is crap. Might as well you give your whole assets and personal saving!
You are telling everyone that your personal 100% become share assets while his secret share become his owe unsharable, while I have to wear green hat still have to give them money to enjoy, including my personal saving on top of the past matrimonial assets.
You are simple doesn't mean who I am dealing with a simple person like you.
What's is mine I will take. Whats not Mine I don't take. I also won't give them extra. Donate to charity also not to them. Keep your views to yourself.
Want to share share something more legal or experience rather then your point of view to claim or not.

 

[sgbabydoll]

Carrie, you want legal advice or opinion, this is not the place to get the info you seek. Pay some money and receive proper legal advice since you already foresee a difficult legal battle ahead. Here you will get personal or social point of view.

 

[simpleman]

My personal advice

a) There is nothing you can do with lies if it cannot be proven. If he has secret accounts stash with cash and you have no proof of it - it is as good as they are non-existent

b) Get Real.. this is a real world. Honesty counts for nothing when it comes to this stage especially if the relationship is hostile. If the relationship is good, there is still a chance for you two to lay out the cards

c) Your personal savings - if you are not smart enough to stash away like what you hb did - then you have to proof that it was there before the marriage and not part of the matrimonial asset..

 

[sgbabydoll]

If you want to get even, donate your personal savings to charity? No money for him and can enjoy tax exemption somemore.

 

[pokoyo]

Thank you, if I use them up like charity or clearing debts, will I be penalise for using them up?

 

[sgbabydoll]

Carrie, what kind of penalty do you think you will suffer?