allycinsg
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I met this guy from an online dating app. He is going through a divorce, likely to be an uncontested divorce in Singapore and both parties need to work through the ancillary matters, e.g. children custody and financials. He said it will be a few months, but never indicated on the timeline.
We meet during weekdays for lunch, never weekends. During weekday evenings, he doesn't respond after 7:00 pm in general, if lucky I will receive response around 11:30 pm, otherwise the following morning. He then says he fell asleep.
We chat on daily basis, but the frequency reduces as the week goes by ... Fri, Sat and Sun responses reduce to 1 or 2 words.
Seeking opinions on the following:
(1) How do I know if he is really going through a divorce?
(2) How can I tell if I am a bootie call or there are potentials with him?
(3) Any signs that I can look out for, as alarm bells?
Thanks in advance.
We meet during weekdays for lunch, never weekends. During weekday evenings, he doesn't respond after 7:00 pm in general, if lucky I will receive response around 11:30 pm, otherwise the following morning. He then says he fell asleep.
We chat on daily basis, but the frequency reduces as the week goes by ... Fri, Sat and Sun responses reduce to 1 or 2 words.
Seeking opinions on the following:
(1) How do I know if he is really going through a divorce?
(2) How can I tell if I am a bootie call or there are potentials with him?
(3) Any signs that I can look out for, as alarm bells?
Thanks in advance.