Difficult intercourse

[kitty_pretty_angel]

tired many times for past one yr. we still failed in intercourse..n sometimes i cant feel high enough tat he cant insert..i dont noe why but i am afraid of inserting n cant relax myself to hv a sucessful attempt

 

[denise80]

kitty, are both of you like first-timers?

 

[denise80]

bewy, if it's too 'slippery' and he keeps slipping out, how about you try 'contracting' ur muscles there?

 

[scopefun]

First timer for 1 whole year... ...

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kitty, need Scope to show you how to do it???

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[kitty_pretty_angel]

denise80. yes. 1 year onli like less than 25times attempt as we r not married yet. i felt abit pain when his penis inside the beginning of V area.

 

[scopefun]

HUH!? NOT MARRIED?????????????!

 

[denise80]

Kitty, if u r wet enough..then the initial pain is normal unless it's extreme pain. Sometimes once the thing gets past the beginning of V channel, it'll feel okay and in fact good later on. Check if you're too nervous also...if you are nervous, your muscles will tighten, making your V tighter and more difficult for penetration. If your bf is also a virgin then it'll be difficult..usually an experienced man can do it better. Or rather, an experienced man who is good in bed can do it better without causing pain.

 

[kitty_pretty_angel]

i oways tell myself to relax n dun get nervous but oways muscle will tighten..sometimes feel down tat cant succeed as i hope to hv kids rite after we get married soon. i was thinking to see dr lee but i had some financial constrant so cant see her. is it normal to feel initial pain everytime b4 the thing being inserted inner in?

 

[denise80]

It is normal especially if it's your first time. You need to focus on the 'enjoyment' instead of thinking about whether it can go in.

 

[michimichichan]

wet is a good thing wat.. i don't think it's a problem.. your hubby should like it that way

 

[guest28]

agree with u michelle. sometimes it is not easy to get wet.

 

[kitty_pretty_angel]

i had to keep applying lubricant n it will get dry after awhile..quite hard for me to get wet naturally

 

[denise80]

Kitty, do you masturbate on ur own? Do u enjoy giving urself pleasure? I thought it's important. If you don't even enjoy this, then all the more, it's difficult to enjoy it with an equally blur partner.

 

[scopefun]

Burst out loud (@Denise80)~

LOL~

 

[kitty_pretty_angel]

i dun do that as i m v busy wif work n my parents health.

 

[denise80]

Kitty, the problem is u do not enjoy sex at all. U need to reengage with ur sensual soul and look forward to making love or u'll always be dry there. Lubricant is not a solution at all.

 

[guest28]

hi kitty

maybe u & hubby shld spend more time in foreplay, once aroused & wet, shld be much easier to enjoy

 

[sueiz]

Scope Guy.. i hope you're a good looking guy.. cuz u speak wif such confidence and ya ya papaya..
super funny sia..
LOL

 

[miloice]

lolz you will be disappointed!