hi all,
sorry for the 'disappearance act' Was off to BKK for a short holiday & plenty of shopping! *winks*
hi coco,
Ur big day is still quite far off, so maybe ggjj might reply in time.. But in the meantime do keep a lookout for instructors who teach just for weddings & on the song u particularly want. I do believe there are such instructors.. U cld try Google, Yellow Pages or word of mouth of those who attend dance classes
I do rem seeing some threads in SB forum on dancing.. Do a search, tt shd give u a headstart
hi twinkle..
Having kids only 1-2 years after marriage is also the plan tt my HB & i have. And it has been 9+ mths & thank God, we've not heard unplanned pregnancy at our doorsteps..
Pill has its well-known side effects.. Dr will def check when u intend to have kids & help u work out when u've got to start getting off the pills. Generally, it's abt 6mths, if ur period comes regularly. Otherwise u had better stop earlier & start regulating ur menstrual cycle..
Hmm, as far as i know, i dun recall hearing fr anyone condoms splitting, or any loss of integrity due to manufacturing problem.. Just to be transparent, neither have i faced such a problem either *phew*
If ur period is very regular, u shd monitor ur discharge to know when u're most fertile. This is the most accurate apart fr taking body temperature. Read up more on this off the
WWW.. Here are 2 URLs to give u some clue:
http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/fam.htm
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/tools/ovu
(There are plenty more off the Internet, so take ur time to bookmark which makes most sense to u)
have a church mate who very honestly told me abt using the 'withdrawal' method.. tricky method & alot of control involve. I think u can try going to the Christian literature off the shelves in the bookstores & find books on family planning. Have a book "Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique & Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage" by Ed Wheat & Gaye Wheat. It provided me & then FH a lot of insight...Dunno if Life Bookshop still carries it though
God bless!!!