Even though I knew a cheongsam needed time, I delayed the serious shopping until 3 months prior to the wedding. This is based on an assumption that since I was not a difficult body shape; it would be easy for me to find something.Â
I was terribly wrong. A bridal cheongsam is very different from what people wear for other occasions. Also, the fit is crucial so simply altering an OTR is not ideal too.Â
I went to Mdm Butterfly but was unimpressed with the auntie styles. Mazzario was promising by research but once in the dimly lit shop, the designs were strangely similar and didn't sweep me away. Then i went to Chinatown and visited Mama and Misse, which has very innovative and modern designs. Next, at Golden Scissors, I managed to like an OTR model, and hence bought a blush color cheongsam with muted gold lace all over, in a halter design. Since the back is entirely bare, I asked for lace to cover it up which left a diamond shape bare, and this costs extra. Alterations generally were free btw.
It turned out unsuitable and badly altered. I had a small waist of 23" but the fit did not help me show off this feature. The lace was flimsy and the entire dress costing $150 was just sleazy. It might have been different if I had completely made one from scratch, but I was very unimpressed with Golden Scissors' work and advice for brides.
So I got more desperate. Mama and Misse was having a 50% store wide sale so they were too busy for urgent dress orders. I knew I could not afford Ted Wu and time was running out, so I explored rental options. The wedding.com shop at Peninsula Plaza was a cozy one that has 3 non-red or non-kua options, and they were very decent and only commanded $180 to rent with alterations. The salespeople were not pushy at all but encouraged me to consider the pieces carefully for one that could express me the most. The other option was a recommendation to online store webarina. The prompt replies to requests for pictures was amazing, and I enjoyed the correspondences a lot. I also went to Hana at Bali Lane, but the regular-looking dress i tried on costs about $2000. I ran out of the shop and pulled my fiancé with me as fast as I could.
An outdated website put up by the niece of the owner of Iris and Edel tailoring at Lucky Chinatown caught my attention. Even as outdated as it was (last post was in 2009), the designs were modern and modest. Though Lucky Chinatown sounds really sleazy to me, at that state of desperation, I had nothing to lose.Â
The small shop was cramped, but you could feel that it was a genuine tailoring business. The seamstresses were hard at work, so they barely raised their heads to say hi welcome, then went back to the sewing on hand. The sound of the sewing machine at the back was unmistakeable, but I was left on my own to browse the very crammed rack. Presuming that the business has been in existence for some time, the designs were also catered for tai-tais. I was put off by the auntie designs and was ready to call it a wrap that evening until Iris walked in. She saw that I was in the younger age group, and pulled out some bridal dresses for me to see. They were nice, and I was quite ready to settle when I heard that they only needed 2 weeks for an urgent order at about 200-300 bucks, depending on lace and material used. I promised to come back that weekend.Â
As my mum was a seamtress by training, I asked her to come and assess the work they do. That day, there was a knee-length design on the rack that I considered ideal, and so wound up making an order with my mum's blessing. I picked Shantung silk over satin, and lace applique instead of all over the dress, seeking a touch of unique-ness. I had wanted baby green with pink lace, but Iris recommended to reverse the color as pink is more bridal than green, so I agreed.Â
The moment we went home, my mum could not stop thinking about making a dress there herself. She examined their work and said that they were meticulous and neat. I could not deny her the opportunity to look elegant at my wedding, so I brought her back there to make a dress. It was agonizing to witness 2 seamstresses talk tailor jargon and keep perfecting the choice of colors. Business was brisk, and Iris was understandably sometimes distracted, but she always came back and never let you walk away dissatisfied. And so we wound up with a cheongsam dress order for mummy too.Â
My dress was made in 2 weeks time plus a little delay as they ran out of the lace that I picked. They didn't come clean with me initially but I sensed something was wrong when my mum's dress was ready before mine, so I offered to pick another lace to make things easier for everyone. However, when I went into the shop, they confessed and while I was choosing another lace, they found what i had picked. They kept saying that I brought them luck but I was just happy that they could finish the job by the next day.Â
Throughout the tailoring, no fitting was done - the measurements were done so well that none was required. My mum also said that they intentionally made the dress with allowances for weight gain or loss, as cheongsam can be unforgiving in showing off unflattering areas. In the end, I thought my mum's dress was prettier than mine, but my friends and relatives love the way we looked - me bridal and mummy elegant. My mum made me promise to bring her back there at least once every year to make a dress.Â
For those of you who are still deliberating, I would not hesitate to recommend Iris and Edel. They are affordable and come with such a wealth of experience, which we all need because most of us are brides for the first time. I kicked myself so many times for wasting money on other dresses when all it takes was just one trip to Iris. I honestly don't think Iris loses out drastically to designer cheongsam boutiques. So spare yourself all the stress and make that trip to Iris to see it for yourself.Â