Siao, u dare to run away!! Stop there!! *Grabbing Siao's collar*
Lynn, ya actually one of the reasons some ppl cannot let go is bcos they gave and gave so much till they feel depleted. In the back of their mind, they hope that their sacrifices and efforts will be worthwhile. But life is full of unpredictibility and things dont always go your way. So, when you do not receive any reciprocation, you will start to develop hate/disappointment towards the other person, and the most worrying thing is when you start hating yourself too. I been thru that. And i cant be sure that i wont go thru it again in the future. But the least we can do is to tell ourselves that things really do not always go our way and when that happens, we just have to go thru it and continue with our lives.