xiao_li_64
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Meng the Harmless, didnt see you today. Anyway, just come in to say Bye!'See' you tmr!
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heart, AWS is not stipulated in our LOA & it's not compulsory under Employment Act so this yr only get 0.5 mth bonus. VB depend on co. performance so now mgmt say co. not doing well = no VB also lor. yes the $80 is inclusive of yearly increment & salary adjustment. ='( u can imagine how pathetic & demoralising i can be. bcoz of dis stupid promotion, i have 2 take over 1 existing branch (head left) & 1 new division on the way. *sign*...
xiaoli, sad to say our company highest increment is cap at S$85 no matter how well you perform, so wu nai...
sylphide, tat's really a gd 1! hahahahaha...if i were 2 issue dis cheque, who knows mayb i will need babydoll 2 recommend me a gd lawyer 2 file for divorce! hahahahaha
cuc, yeah it happened to my ex-colleague. other colleagues (so-called her buddy - very close colleagues) asked her & she happily showed her payslip to them but when she asked them in return, they told her it's none of her biz! she was speechless for a while w/o knowing how 2 react. poor gal lor. heeheeehee
talking abt asking colleague on the bonus rite? during my younger days, actuali my 1st job lah, i so stupid go & ask the Exec Sec (who recruited me, no HR personnel) abt bonus. end up the next moment, i was called in by my MD & realised she went to 'report' wat i asked to the MD. i blur blur being backstabbed by her lor. until 1 newly join gal told me be careful of the ppl & better not ask to avoid trouble. i learnt my lesson & no next time, juz quai quai wait 4 payslip 2 tell me e ans.
another lesson learnt also during younger days was nvr shared increment amt & bonus even 2 close colleagues cum frens. i shared unselfishly & got backstabbed by them. end up got a verbal warning frm my dept VP bcoz dos colleagues who got lower increment & bonus payout gang up & complaint directly to him & i was blame of creating a hoo-hah in the dept.
xiaoli, sad to say our company highest increment is cap at S$85 no matter how well you perform, so wu nai...
sylphide, tat's really a gd 1! hahahahaha...if i were 2 issue dis cheque, who knows mayb i will need babydoll 2 recommend me a gd lawyer 2 file for divorce! hahahahaha
cuc, yeah it happened to my ex-colleague. other colleagues (so-called her buddy - very close colleagues) asked her & she happily showed her payslip to them but when she asked them in return, they told her it's none of her biz! she was speechless for a while w/o knowing how 2 react. poor gal lor. heeheeehee
talking abt asking colleague on the bonus rite? during my younger days, actuali my 1st job lah, i so stupid go & ask the Exec Sec (who recruited me, no HR personnel) abt bonus. end up the next moment, i was called in by my MD & realised she went to 'report' wat i asked to the MD. i blur blur being backstabbed by her lor. until 1 newly join gal told me be careful of the ppl & better not ask to avoid trouble. i learnt my lesson & no next time, juz quai quai wait 4 payslip 2 tell me e ans.
another lesson learnt also during younger days was nvr shared increment amt & bonus even 2 close colleagues cum frens. i shared unselfishly & got backstabbed by them. end up got a verbal warning frm my dept VP bcoz dos colleagues who got lower increment & bonus payout gang up & complaint directly to him & i was blame of creating a hoo-hah in the dept.
skylar, how not 2 trouble wif em'? c my earlier post u noe how drama yesterday 4 me liao. noe oredi but better not 2 noe lor. 'unfortunately' staying wif PIL in a hdb flat while BIL staying in terrace lor with e help of my hb...*haiz* pia ti le...kek sim
meng di-di, i tink u younger than me woh. heehee...oh i c. so u duo ying duo ying on 22nd lah. =D
meng di-di, i tink u younger than me woh. heehee...oh i c. so u duo ying duo ying on 22nd lah. =D
ya lor sky.. keke...
that marble really irritating man... zzzz...
me almost broke up with bf.. now he nvr reply me le.. i think he slp liao.. don care abt me le... i guess he is thinking: ai ya let her cool down la.. or he got nth to reply me le...
haiz.. suan liao... heart dead.. chim sim..
that marble really irritating man... zzzz...
me almost broke up with bf.. now he nvr reply me le.. i think he slp liao.. don care abt me le... i guess he is thinking: ai ya let her cool down la.. or he got nth to reply me le...
haiz.. suan liao... heart dead.. chim sim..
we can't move bcoz flat belongs 2 us & on the other hand, can't ask them 2 move now. at least luckily these 2 weeks i dun need 2 face them bcoz shifted back 2 my mum's place. it's really so great 2 b @ home wif own parents, i personally feel.
frankly, i kinda huo hui allowing them 2 move in wif us tinking it's juz a temp arrangement as told but then who noes, getting them 2 move in is ez but getting them 2 move out is a BIG challenge. so now, if they successfully 'withdraw' $$$ from the mobile ATM m/c (my hb), hopefully they can shift out to stay wif my BIL as mentioned by my BIL to my MIL. pray to god, pray to buddha, pray to allah...
frankly, i kinda huo hui allowing them 2 move in wif us tinking it's juz a temp arrangement as told but then who noes, getting them 2 move in is ez but getting them 2 move out is a BIG challenge. so now, if they successfully 'withdraw' $$$ from the mobile ATM m/c (my hb), hopefully they can shift out to stay wif my BIL as mentioned by my BIL to my MIL. pray to god, pray to buddha, pray to allah...
Mayi wat happened ah?
why liddat? sorry ah.. u all posts in the morning super fast to follow man.. ekke.. so i abit catch no balls liao.. keke
tht marble is DUMB lor.. all that he say ah.. dun even link up to anything one.. zzzz
Gallie,
u pray to all lah.. kekee.. if they really too much ah.. send them packing lah.. basket..
why liddat? sorry ah.. u all posts in the morning super fast to follow man.. ekke.. so i abit catch no balls liao.. keke
tht marble is DUMB lor.. all that he say ah.. dun even link up to anything one.. zzzz
Gallie,
u pray to all lah.. kekee.. if they really too much ah.. send them packing lah.. basket..
dogtag73
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Mayi Mayi dont cheng sim...relationship is about give and take. Talk to him when he is ready to talk about it. I believe he will change if he treasure this relationship. Dont push him too hard...
He is still young...guys heart is always playful even till he is 60! Give him some time to figure out. meanwhile u keep cool ok, we will be here to listen to your woes. What are friends for?
Now i am also big head about the divorce agreement thing...got sort of scare big time after talking with my wife lawyer and she has to be hard on me becos she is defending my wife...but i have keep cool to fight for what is fair for myself too. Trying to balance how to make her happy and me not suffer too much in the process of getting the paper work done. Well thats life, it sucks, dont dwell too long and move on.
Is tough but definately is not killing me...Ox skin are too tough, too thick to be pentrated...Lets work hard for the future.
He is still young...guys heart is always playful even till he is 60! Give him some time to figure out. meanwhile u keep cool ok, we will be here to listen to your woes. What are friends for?
Now i am also big head about the divorce agreement thing...got sort of scare big time after talking with my wife lawyer and she has to be hard on me becos she is defending my wife...but i have keep cool to fight for what is fair for myself too. Trying to balance how to make her happy and me not suffer too much in the process of getting the paper work done. Well thats life, it sucks, dont dwell too long and move on.
Is tough but definately is not killing me...Ox skin are too tough, too thick to be pentrated...Lets work hard for the future.
dragonfruit
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Morning Everyone. 1 more week to X'mas.
lynn: Hope you don't have to work OT today.
lynn: Hope you don't have to work OT today.
dragonfruit
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Gosh, hope everything are ok.
dead_heart
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lynn, wat happen last nite?
hi heart,
we finali sat down to tok, in the presence of his mum. he said he's ver tired cos i always said i wanna divorce. he lied to me again and again for many times. he promised me to keep in touch wif a ger frm his online game. they were ver close, calling one another dear....
we finali sat down to tok, in the presence of his mum. he said he's ver tired cos i always said i wanna divorce. he lied to me again and again for many times. he promised me to keep in touch wif a ger frm his online game. they were ver close, calling one another dear....
lynn.. a bit same to wad i had encountered from my bf ytd night..
to put it in short.. i saw his mail with subject; swift pictures from ur darling.. and content asking her to miss him ya + muacks..
and the girl reply him thks my dear, greatly appreaciate it + muackssss...
i see liao i really buey tahan... he say they nth de.. jus customer nia.. if i wana leave him he got nth to say.. he can only say he nvr betray my trust.. i replied him saying; if u think sending such lovey dovey message to another girl and i shouldnt be upset abt it den i have nth to say too.. u dont feel sorry for me at all..
he replied me sorry and he wouldnt do it again..
and den no replies le....
in my heart, i feel that he doesnt value me at all...
to put it in short.. i saw his mail with subject; swift pictures from ur darling.. and content asking her to miss him ya + muacks..
and the girl reply him thks my dear, greatly appreaciate it + muackssss...
i see liao i really buey tahan... he say they nth de.. jus customer nia.. if i wana leave him he got nth to say.. he can only say he nvr betray my trust.. i replied him saying; if u think sending such lovey dovey message to another girl and i shouldnt be upset abt it den i have nth to say too.. u dont feel sorry for me at all..
he replied me sorry and he wouldnt do it again..
and den no replies le....
in my heart, i feel that he doesnt value me at all...
xiao_li_64
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Morninggg! Doesnt sound such a good morning for some ppl here but whatever it is, cheer up ok
"Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful."
"Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful."
xiao_li_64
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Oh, and not forgetting, *squueeezzzeee* Hehhe