Calling all Malaysian brides/grooms
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Aihh~~ me hv BIG BIG pro now!! someoone plssss HELP....
I totally hv 4 jie mei (including one sis & 3 coll), two jie mei now tel me cna't be my jie mei, A claim she oledy do two times, n dunwan over three times, hope can left one chance mayb for own sis/friends...n the other gal B, she oly noe & closer wif A so if A go she might still consider.... B pro is her parents q strict oly allow she go JB wif parents...shan nao jin, now me hardly to get others...cos mostly r married & one been booked by other couple same date as mine...1stly, i find those friends who r well-know each other so tat they can play togeter, easy to gang up mah...n beter get those who willing travel in JB (of course got tranposrt) A is my 1st choice cos she was m'sian & go in JB sumtimes....now dunno where to find ppl, how?
I totally hv 4 jie mei (including one sis & 3 coll), two jie mei now tel me cna't be my jie mei, A claim she oledy do two times, n dunwan over three times, hope can left one chance mayb for own sis/friends...n the other gal B, she oly noe & closer wif A so if A go she might still consider.... B pro is her parents q strict oly allow she go JB wif parents...shan nao jin, now me hardly to get others...cos mostly r married & one been booked by other couple same date as mine...1stly, i find those friends who r well-know each other so tat they can play togeter, easy to gang up mah...n beter get those who willing travel in JB (of course got tranposrt) A is my 1st choice cos she was m'sian & go in JB sumtimes....now dunno where to find ppl, how?
marilyn_chh
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tlc,
i think married can be jiemei also if the person doesn't mind lah..
you have any married willing friends?
i think married can be jiemei also if the person doesn't mind lah..
you have any married willing friends?
aiyah...i got my own reason, must confirm wif them ealry o else see now...even i inform them half yr ago now still got pro, else lastt min where i gonna find ppl if got pro? ppl wil thikn me last min get them as jie mei must replacement, not good rite?
i did so as last time my coll engage me as jie mei more than half yr ago, she booked me even early! I think beter settle early, easy...i dun like last min rushing...n keep asking ard..
cos initially i marry off fm Sg house, remeber? so i beter find Sg site frend...easy for them n i more closer wif them. frankly speak, u noe lar...we most time work n stay in Sg, oly back JB few times per month....really hardly get in touch wif those schoolmate, oly meet few of them when see show house, hahah! i got few closer female college friends (cos i study IT, oly 3-4 girls ard my friends) but one married pregnant, one been booked.... so...aih..cham...
cos initially i marry off fm Sg house, remeber? so i beter find Sg site frend...easy for them n i more closer wif them. frankly speak, u noe lar...we most time work n stay in Sg, oly back JB few times per month....really hardly get in touch wif those schoolmate, oly meet few of them when see show house, hahah! i got few closer female college friends (cos i study IT, oly 3-4 girls ard my friends) but one married pregnant, one been booked.... so...aih..cham...
Mrc, well i try if can look for those old school friends...married?? is not oly my consideration, some ppl might pandang not to be if beter, rite...
do u gals think i shld persuade A 1st? cos i think there's still space...if she go, den B still can consider persuade her parents as well (A&B stay q close)
do u gals think i shld persuade A 1st? cos i think there's still space...if she go, den B still can consider persuade her parents as well (A&B stay q close)
marilyn_chh
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tlc,
true true,i also hardly intouched with my msian ex-schoolmate..my jiemei are my close cousins and 2 singaporean friends..
u have sisters or cousins? you know what, try to break the rules like my guy collegue's close friend. she asked HIM to be her jiemei..haha.. i was quite suprise but my guy collegue doesn't mind at all cos they're extremely close and she too didn't have enough jiemei. so, ask him as subsitute..hehe..
true true,i also hardly intouched with my msian ex-schoolmate..my jiemei are my close cousins and 2 singaporean friends..
u have sisters or cousins? you know what, try to break the rules like my guy collegue's close friend. she asked HIM to be her jiemei..haha.. i was quite suprise but my guy collegue doesn't mind at all cos they're extremely close and she too didn't have enough jiemei. so, ask him as subsitute..hehe..
marilyn_chh
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hi tlc,
i think most importantly is if you pantang or not? if not, then u can start asking around. If they too pantang, then bohbian, ask someone else lor..
if my good friend ask me to be her jiemei hor, i sure go one unless i'm pregnant..i already ask my gf that i want to be her jiemei when she gets married or at least involve me in her preparation. She helped me alot during my wedding and i want to do the same for her
i think most importantly is if you pantang or not? if not, then u can start asking around. If they too pantang, then bohbian, ask someone else lor..
if my good friend ask me to be her jiemei hor, i sure go one unless i'm pregnant..i already ask my gf that i want to be her jiemei when she gets married or at least involve me in her preparation. She helped me alot during my wedding and i want to do the same for her
Mrc,
r u mean look for guy coll's or hubby's close female friend? but must provided tat i familiar wif them right? if die die no choice might consider my hubby's female friends wif closer to both us lor....but i prefer hv own friends share wif me...tis is alternative if oly really really......
r u mean look for guy coll's or hubby's close female friend? but must provided tat i familiar wif them right? if die die no choice might consider my hubby's female friends wif closer to both us lor....but i prefer hv own friends share wif me...tis is alternative if oly really really......
marilyn_chh
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tlc,
miss your question.. i didn't know there's limit to be jiemei? i did it for at least 3 times liao before i got married..pantang again?
anne,
no wonder.. usually u sure the 1st to come in one..
miss your question.. i didn't know there's limit to be jiemei? i did it for at least 3 times liao before i got married..pantang again?
anne,
no wonder.. usually u sure the 1st to come in one..
Hi Mrc,
yah...my married friend she now pregnant, n she is tat kind kinda pantang one...when she marry tat time, she joking say next time can't b our jie mei liao, she even pantang cannot 3ppl take pics...i oledy 'tang ting' her 'kuo feng' , most married ppl still mind, as tis not oly not good for marrying couple oso bad for married jie mei ler...if beter avoid try not lor...my mum sure oso dun like
yah...my married friend she now pregnant, n she is tat kind kinda pantang one...when she marry tat time, she joking say next time can't b our jie mei liao, she even pantang cannot 3ppl take pics...i oledy 'tang ting' her 'kuo feng' , most married ppl still mind, as tis not oly not good for marrying couple oso bad for married jie mei ler...if beter avoid try not lor...my mum sure oso dun like
marilyn_chh
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tlc,
husband female friends is a good idea.. but of course, must be close to you also lah..else very weird right? what i mean is asking ur close male friend to be ur jiemei but then provided ur hubby dun mind lah..but leave this as a last resort loh..
husband female friends is a good idea.. but of course, must be close to you also lah..else very weird right? what i mean is asking ur close male friend to be ur jiemei but then provided ur hubby dun mind lah..but leave this as a last resort loh..
marilyn_chh
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tlc,
u urself pantang if ur jiemei is married? i think i did it for 3 times before i got married and i didn't even think abt it..Now, even after married, i don mind being a jiemei..hehe..
u urself pantang if ur jiemei is married? i think i did it for 3 times before i got married and i didn't even think abt it..Now, even after married, i don mind being a jiemei..hehe..
tlc, marilyn is rite. 1st thing is whether u pantang or not. If my good fren get married, i dun mind to be her jie mei also if i have oredi married. Will be a jie mei for the 4th time next week. Act not very close fren, but guess she cldn't get enuf jie mei, or some jie mei cannot confirm until now, so... But i dun mind lah. Plus can refresh the ceremony then next time my term not so kelam kabut, haha...
if beter can avoid dun want rite? both site mum sure dun like lor... since der's available single jie mei, y not i consider dem 1st...n my married friend she very pantang, summore she pregnant now. one thing, i must consider even i manage get married one, must find at least one jie mei they noe each other, easy to play ard...
Haha, mrc, r u offering urself der... kekek~ cos initially u dunno jie mei got pantang cannot do 3 times, n now u manage marry out wif good marriage so of course dunmind. i persuade my A coll, even do 3 times just b good enough, den she can STOP liao...
Jas,
old ppl say jie mei can oly do 3 times, if over or too often, wil hardly o cannot marry out. My company hv one coll do more than 3 times, n now she start worried liao cos she break up wif bf until now hvn't got bf n she not young...act she oso in my backup list, but i dun put 100% guarantee on her cos i understand her difficulty, so 1stly i find others 1st
Haha, mrc, r u offering urself der... kekek~ cos initially u dunno jie mei got pantang cannot do 3 times, n now u manage marry out wif good marriage so of course dunmind. i persuade my A coll, even do 3 times just b good enough, den she can STOP liao...
Jas,
old ppl say jie mei can oly do 3 times, if over or too often, wil hardly o cannot marry out. My company hv one coll do more than 3 times, n now she start worried liao cos she break up wif bf until now hvn't got bf n she not young...act she oso in my backup list, but i dun put 100% guarantee on her cos i understand her difficulty, so 1stly i find others 1st
tlc, too bad me the same AD as u, else can consider to be ur jie mei... haha... Imagine seeing each other for the 1st time on ur AD.... keke...
U still have ur coll to consider, all my current female colleagues are married, also not really close. Think will either ask my ex-coll, hometown frens or Uni frens. So far have not contacted any.
U still have ur coll to consider, all my current female colleagues are married, also not really close. Think will either ask my ex-coll, hometown frens or Uni frens. So far have not contacted any.
yaya...later sunsnow wan scold me liao~
just share to let u knoe tis...but if both ur no pantang den is fine, u beter check wif ur mum or hubby lor...u never heard 'xi chong xi' meh? tat's y our gang must say properly who gonna marry must plan schedule properly, o else all at same period, den cannot attned each other. like my coll she cannot attend her close friend wed diner since their date q near!
just share to let u knoe tis...but if both ur no pantang den is fine, u beter check wif ur mum or hubby lor...u never heard 'xi chong xi' meh? tat's y our gang must say properly who gonna marry must plan schedule properly, o else all at same period, den cannot attned each other. like my coll she cannot attend her close friend wed diner since their date q near!
marilyn_chh
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jas/tlc,
i also attended a close friend wedding who's 3 week - 1 month before my wedding.. i dun care lah..my MIL knew but she kept quiet and i didn't let my FIL know..hehe..my hubby dun believe in all these..lucky!
tlc,
haha..no lah..actually the idea of going to JB to be jiemei really not very appealing lah..sorry..
anyway, agree with you. if there's unmarried friends who're willing to be ur jiemei, then go ahead, if not boh bian right?? actually for me, ,my priority is to find very "on" jiemei.. i dun really care abt marital status...hehe..
i also attended a close friend wedding who's 3 week - 1 month before my wedding.. i dun care lah..my MIL knew but she kept quiet and i didn't let my FIL know..hehe..my hubby dun believe in all these..lucky!
tlc,
haha..no lah..actually the idea of going to JB to be jiemei really not very appealing lah..sorry..
anyway, agree with you. if there's unmarried friends who're willing to be ur jiemei, then go ahead, if not boh bian right?? actually for me, ,my priority is to find very "on" jiemei.. i dun really care abt marital status...hehe..hey... jas don't be too pantang hor...
i want to be at ur wedding unless u pantang and mind me to be there?
I don't mind ur presence hor..
usually gd frens ok one lah.. won't mind each other to be present or be the jie mei no matter how many times she has been one b4... one of my jie mei is married too..
i want to be at ur wedding unless u pantang and mind me to be there?
I don't mind ur presence hor..
usually gd frens ok one lah.. won't mind each other to be present or be the jie mei no matter how many times she has been one b4... one of my jie mei is married too..
hey i just meet my A coll, she asked me how's situation now...i direct tol her tat she is BEST candidate, cos she noe both B&C jie mei, is she opt out, scare C will reject too! she is 'guan jien ren wu' tat's y 1st jie mei i tihnk is her n she familiar wif my hubby too!
but she said she dun mind come n help me at daytime like 'pei jia' but dun wan b jie mei. but i still need look for another one jie mei to replace her mah
but she said she dun mind come n help me at daytime like 'pei jia' but dun wan b jie mei. but i still need look for another one jie mei to replace her mah
marilyn_chh
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angeldust,
forgot to welcome you
welcome lo!
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Hi Mrc,
since u r expert in woman period subject, would like check wif u basically when we excited or too nervous, it wil not come at that time rite? Eg, when we need fly oversea, tat day shld not come, instead it wil delay one day o later...
cos me worried it wil visit when my OD PS ler...it near tat few days n my period q puchure one, just diff 2-3days...
since u r expert in woman period subject, would like check wif u basically when we excited or too nervous, it wil not come at that time rite? Eg, when we need fly oversea, tat day shld not come, instead it wil delay one day o later...
cos me worried it wil visit when my OD PS ler...it near tat few days n my period q puchure one, just diff 2-3days...
marilyn_chh
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hi tlc,
wah, me no expert lah..ur claim is not very true leh..usually, when u're stress then the mense will go haywire a bit ie, delay or shortened, etc..usually delay lah..at least that happen to me..actually, this is very subjective..
wah, me no expert lah..ur claim is not very true leh..usually, when u're stress then the mense will go haywire a bit ie, delay or shortened, etc..usually delay lah..at least that happen to me..actually, this is very subjective..