me and my gf both late 30s
already plan on settling down next yr july
3 yrs together, but due to her bad financial management we need to call off all plans
long story short:
i own a 3rm resale my parents move in with me they rent out their's 4rm, in return they got some income and help me with my hse expenses.
i proposed to my gf this yr march she agreed i was happy but she DEMANDED tat she dun wanna live with in laws want privacy, so she suggested my parents move back to their home, at tat time their hse still under 2 yrs contract earliest will be 2017 May, she made a big hoo haa, quarrel like crazy i no choice discuss with my parents, and fortunately they agreed to shorted the lease to 1yr and paid the penalty.
Recently i tok to her tat my parents moving back soon so we must pay for all the expenses, i took bank loan so is cash
but i'm shock she never tot of these, she got no savings at never in her mind never thought of helping out as a couple, she said her parents both not working need to support them so no $ cant commit elsewhere, my jaw drop and told her i trusted her tot she'll spare a tot on our future, she wants privacy and yet dun want contribute.
I told her we can apply BTO when i can sell my resale which is 1 1/2 yrs time then u no need contribute but she dont want, so in the end we broke up.
I realized i've been giving in to her demand so much tat i hurt my parents feeling treat them like a ball, i felt so guilty i ask for forgiveness and they forgave me, now they carry on stay with me.
I bought her a 6k diamond ring can i demand it back? i do shower her with branded and iphone and stuffs all those are meant for her, but the ring is for marriage so is different.
already plan on settling down next yr july
3 yrs together, but due to her bad financial management we need to call off all plans
long story short:
i own a 3rm resale my parents move in with me they rent out their's 4rm, in return they got some income and help me with my hse expenses.
i proposed to my gf this yr march she agreed i was happy but she DEMANDED tat she dun wanna live with in laws want privacy, so she suggested my parents move back to their home, at tat time their hse still under 2 yrs contract earliest will be 2017 May, she made a big hoo haa, quarrel like crazy i no choice discuss with my parents, and fortunately they agreed to shorted the lease to 1yr and paid the penalty.
Recently i tok to her tat my parents moving back soon so we must pay for all the expenses, i took bank loan so is cash
but i'm shock she never tot of these, she got no savings at never in her mind never thought of helping out as a couple, she said her parents both not working need to support them so no $ cant commit elsewhere, my jaw drop and told her i trusted her tot she'll spare a tot on our future, she wants privacy and yet dun want contribute.
I told her we can apply BTO when i can sell my resale which is 1 1/2 yrs time then u no need contribute but she dont want, so in the end we broke up.
I realized i've been giving in to her demand so much tat i hurt my parents feeling treat them like a ball, i felt so guilty i ask for forgiveness and they forgave me, now they carry on stay with me.
I bought her a 6k diamond ring can i demand it back? i do shower her with branded and iphone and stuffs all those are meant for her, but the ring is for marriage so is different.