harlows harlows, i'm somewhat back from the dead, finally feel more like meself today...
ribbit - eh, these people's doggies are cute but ferocious, don't underestimate the big personality of a small doggy, hee hee... do you miss the lawyer life? have to say, we make fun of lawyers over here in the US too
so don't feel too bad, it's a western culture thing, maybe? hey, put a spin on it, you have wonderful writing skills and great communications experience! what kind of job are you looking for now anyways? or are you studying?
maddcow - that Knot bio website is awesome, i've seen it before... but you reminded me that i've not been there in a while, hee hee. i especially love the "specialty bio" categories, (can you guess, my fav are the Decorations and Theme sections) those photos are wonderful for research and cool ideas! and some of these brides have very expensive tastes (or dreams!)...
deniseK - thanks! what a sweet story, to get matchmade by a close friend...! looks like quite a few of us are in a job funk... hang in there, gals! secretarial job not bad lah, can sit around and file your nails all day, hahaha... maybe sneak in a few hours of surfing each day. hmm, come to think of it, sounds like someone i know, kekeke... (snippy, hope your boss isn't reading!)
lilo - of course you can get a JP! it's not religion specific, and besides, as long as you ask nicely and they are free, they're usually quite flexible with however you want to do the ceremony. to do the ROM thing i think the registration was only $25, but there should be no cost if you engage a JP privately and conduct your "non-official" ceremony without signing papers. you may just negotiate his preferred rate (if he's charging for his time) or give him a nice angbao or gift, can already....
eh, btw girls, are you all chatting on MSN or ICQ or something? i've finally got my silly computer fixed and can now connect (i hate PC issues!) so i'll try to see who's one one of these days... for some reason MSN messenger doesn't stay connected for me, keeps dying... grrr.