Twish, you are right! I am so sorry about it..it's just me to shoot off my mouth like that...
I must apologise to all...as that's not wat I meant. Gown, dinner, honeymoon, house, all must be done within budget constraints unless you got parental support. We didn't want the support, but luckily we are living with IL, so the house was not an issue for us. Otherwise, I can never afford to get married at 23, looking back now.
Which is why I can understand why ham wants to choose DC and the hotel, afterall, it's once in a lifetime, it's money well spent. On hindsight, I don't regret my choices and the money we spent on the photos. So that's more important.