We didn't check for dates because we think it's a hassle and we're veeerry not superstitious about these things, just picked our anni so there's one less date to remember haha.
I'm not quite sure how this works but can ask the master to suggest a few dates? Or just pick another? Maybe convince your parents you don't need to do this?
How insistent are they about the auspicious date anyway?
same here! thinking of dating anniversary date!
parents should be dificult to convince, cos i was "thinking aloud" on how to pick date for banquet then they say, "huh, just let the Master pick!" and continued saying things like that should be the norm and i shouldn't have even thought of picking a date myself... -_-
i may use dating anniversary for ROM.. banquet separately which any date chosen by the master will do..