jazz> as mentioned by master tong...
the dates in tong shu may be a gd date,
but when it clashes with both ur bazi, it will still be a bad date for both of u afterall...
vice versa, even if in tong shu it's a bad date,
it may still be a gd date for both of you if it matches with ur bazi...
so it really depends on urself...
i also get my dates from master tong..
and i've chosen to trust him and proceed with the date he's given me..
am not gg to check the tong shu...