Hi fellow 2012 brides,
I have engaged a designer for MTM - a poofy wedding gown and a slim bridal dress at a package of $3+++, together with the usual groom suit MTM and bouquet.
I already know that I wanted a poofy tulle gown for photoshoot and a slim gown for a solemnization ceremony, and I said these before I signed up. Now, the designs on paper are drawn out and they fit my requirement. The tulle gown has ruching on the bodice and layers of tulle for the skirt; the slim gown is duchess satin and has a beaded belt. There is no embroidery, no crystal, no fancy fabric, nothing. HOWEVER, the designer is asking for a top-up of 50% of the package price, which brings me to nearly $5000.
I am not with the well-known brands so the price took me by surprise. I had to ask for off-the-rack, but they are really limited. The designer pushed me to make a decision: either the designs with top-up or off-the-rack. If I don't want to top-up, I have to change my designs.
This is my only encounter with a designer so I do not know what to do. I engaged a designer because I know what I like - if I have to change my designs which I already communicated even before I signed, I feel cheated for a wedding that will be one-and-only-time in my life.
Do you have any similar experience or advice to share, please?