Jaq> Mine is focusing on church instead of gatecrashing, so no gatecrashing lor. Mine most likely planning is tat he'll come fetch me den staright go church. We'll arrange a car for my family to go church oso, while another car for his family to go church. Den all 3 cars (our bridal car & the 2 accompanying cars for fetching both families to church) will meet in church den start the ceremony, den phototaking, den lunch (buffet in church oso), den tea ceremony at the next hse (own by 1 of our brethen jus bside church) den we will go check-in hotel while both families can go home rest. Den is the dinner part liao lor.