thiasy: erm, sort of prepared. I've provided my parents with my invite inserts, and my mom is just sticking them on to the cards RH provided. Should be sent out this week. The only things left would be the confirmation of wedding favours and table settings, which my co-ordinator said is not really something to worry about.
Guest list is the hardest! I'm sort of lucky cos my hubby is ABC and he doesn't have any friends in SG, and he didn't want the hassle of taking care of his aussie friends while they are in SG. So really it's just his direct family, my family & friends. Not even colleagues cos I have none! RH minimum is 80 guests, so I just confirmed 80. I told my parents I am only taking 2 tables for my close friends, if they have anyone they want to invite feel free to. And I also managed to persuade my parents to go for the fusion menu, so if there are additional guests RH will calculate per head instead of per table. If not then 80 would be the number of fixed pax. Only thing I worry about is that guests would feel bored, but RH is providing a live band for me so hopefully it will turn out as I imagined.
Are you asking your guests to RSVP? Wow you are really going to be busy changing clothes on your big day! I sooooo cannot be bothered to, and I told my mom "Hey! I paid for it so I am going to eat!"