Thanks for all the feedback ladies.
Kit, I will go home and get the exact address and name of the goldsmith shop for you. We know the way there but I have forgotten the name. But take note that their si dian jin box is very small, so you might want to get a bigger one for yourself, for nicer presentation. Moreover that place is value for money, especially now that gold prices have exceeded $50/gm. 999 gold is $55, 916 gold is $51 (the last I checked).
I really really like the black theme offered by our hotel, but my dad and in-laws are not so happy about it. They are worried about their FACE. My mom in law asked us if it looks like a wedding event, I have to admit that it does not resemble that of a chinese wedding. To me, the overall vibe is that a black tie function or D&D. Definitely not the type that aunty/uncle would like. I am still trying to think of some variations to fit in the black theme though. Hahaha, we pay the money for the banquet to make our parents look good. But I would like to have some things done our way too...