hey friends.. just wanna share with you something.. my office got one aunty cleaner shared with me her story... how true i also don't know but should also believe loh..
Remember we need to get 2 nuptial lamps? Some say switch it on for 12 days continously, some say switch it on from the moment the groom leave house till the next day then can switch off. Whatever it is, just remember to take very good care of the lamps. DOn't break it.
Her story was..
Few days after her wedding day (within the 12 days after her AD), she was cleaning the table and she accidentally dropped one of the nuptial lamps. It broke. Thus she threw it away. It signifies that bride and groom won't last long. By the way, she is in her late 50s early 60s. Her hubby had passed away more than 10 years ago already. When her kids are still schooling. Now her kids are already in their late 20s early 30s.
Another one on nuptial lamp...
Her cousin got married and on the actual day itself, her jiemeis actually went to the bridal room.. Too crowded, one of them actually knocked down the lamp. Her cousin knew it was not a good sign. She cried on her wedding day. Not long, she actually realised she had cancer after giving birth to her son. Her son was a toddler when she passed away. Her then husband went to remarry too.
So sad. Perhaps it is really coincidence? OR is it really link with the nuptial lamp as well. For me, i think i quite believe in what she says. So i hope all of us, pantang or not, just be super careful on your wedding day. Don't break anything at all.