relax, Got time one... just list down everything tt needs to be done, and schedule a time to do them. Break it down. It'll seem much much easier and achievable. No point staring at the problems and worrying about them...
Haha rach, yeah I watched the chn 8 9pm show. I think I’m having the same symptoms as fann wong at times. Even my colleagues notice dat I keep talking to myself nowadays. Haha. I also thought I had a little of bit hallucinations. Haha. Think too stressed liao.
Rach, yeah, you sent me the emcee speech before. Cos I never requested for the planner mah. Haha
For MUA for mothers hor, my MIL even wanted me to arrange MUA to go her house in the morning wor… now dunno should do in the evening at hotel, or also must do in the morning…. Not cheap wor.
I agree with dor too… I also bao $200 for my good frens ‘ wedding. Im one who gauge the amount on how close I am to the bride or groom, rather than depending on the hotel. Hopefully wont lose too much during my wedding, cos my PIL only prepare $10k for the loss. Haiz
Green, yah lor, plus the floral décor or upgrade of menu, it will cost more de. I’m thinking of doing calla lilies as the floral décor, but my hotel coordinator says dunno sept got nice calla or not. And den must top up money somemore. If really not enough cash liao, me and fh planning to take cashline or GE or the OCBC cashline. Bo bian lor, den after dat must pay back lor. haiz, all jus cos of one night’s event only. Den dunno pay until when. Siao liao siao liao
Btw, rach,where u read abt the hotel / restaurants’ pricing? I din know got such thing in forum and I din even knw it’s outdated!!! Heehee
Wah dor, 10 bottles of hard liquor shiong leh. expensive sia
Hi Karen, btw doing montage using window movie maker is easy. You can trial and error easily... Think easier than doing powerpoint. I just tried to do one using my photoshoot snapshots. Finished it within an hour and the effect quite ok. If spend more time, definitely will turn out nicer. My HTB will be doing the childhood one later.
Rach, is ur headache better now? How u feeling now? Hope u r feeling better now.
Wah green, sentosa leh, give $80 sure super lugi one. Wah cham leh, like dat.
I also agree abt using the banquet money on holiday!! Best!! And more well worth it.
Wah cool, green, wat was ur queue no. for marsiling? Hope u get it!!!
Wow viva, you really eating a lot… all so yummy!!! Today at office, damn busy, doing stupid things, I also ate a lot, eat until my colleague has to tell me dat I’ve been eating a lot for the past 30mins!!! Haha. Den only I realize. Haha.
Viva, wat’s the rate for euro nw? so u mean abt 2.0 or smth must quickly go buy liao is it?
And yeah, viva, ur fren’s injury sounds bad leh. must have been very painful. Hope she recover soon.
Zep, I haven chosen the hand bouquet and car décor yet leh!! gosh, I completely forgot abt dat!!! Wah piang, sianz lor. btw, which flower u chose? Did u take ur own car or their car? For me, Im taking my own car. Wah u also changed ur gown? I changed my EG. Who was ur coordinator? I think they all find me troublesome liao, cos I keep changing my EG choice, until they cannot tahan me anymore liao. Haha.
Yeah, me need to get euro, cos im gg paris in oct. but hor, im very lousy at monitoring the currency rate one. How come 2.115 u dun buy? Only buy at 2.10? how to calculate one ar? (now I sound stupid, haha)
Crown, wan to ask my fren to help do the wrist corsage for u? she did my corsage, but mine dun have roses one, instead she put lace and butterfly. Haha cos I dun wan to have roses. If u wan, I can ask her for samples, let u choose, see whether u wan or not.
Wah bubbly, ur colleagues damn act blur leh. hw can 8 course lunch become buffet. *bang wall*
I also agree with green, dat banquet topic very stressful, but hor, dat’s the only way of venting it out in forum…. Cos my fh jus take things happily, bo chap kind wor.
Jrgal, im in the same situation as u…. same tired of job, I can suddenly feel like crying for no particular reason. Dunno lah
MaryPoppins>thanks. Now feeling super stressed. Parents suddenly ask for transport to venue which we have not planned for. N due to some changes on my FMIL's side, I need to hunt for MUA for both moms again. So frus.
Hi Mary poppins, thanks...i will try myself also..cut cost...
Hi Mei, i simply love your pics...love your gown...u r so so so pretty...yr pics are lovely..n no wonder they are so good...u have gotten yrself...if not the best, its the 2nd best photographer in singapore lor...Hilarion...I adore him de lor...I am his fan...
i can understand your stress. I also have the thoughts of resigning but dun have the courage cos we dont have much saving. Both of us has to work. So no matter how my boss pick faults on me, i will tolerate.
You relax ok? I also break down whenever night comes. When nobody is around then the whole room is so silent, i'll suddenly feel very lost and duno why tears just flow. No matter what, you must be strong.
Ah Net, how much is your friend charging? any pics to show?
Take care ya... Are you stressed over work or wedding preps? Do you think you can cope better when the wedding is over?
when i job switch, i have the fear too... lower pay, need to adapt to new environment, learn things all over again, etc. But i know if i gonna stay in my previous employer i will not be happy. It was hard at first, really... nobody can absorb new stuffs immediately. After a year of working with my current employer, i am happier (my fh noticed tat too), contented and worthy.
Bottomline is - be happy
decided on my hand bouquet and car deco with my BS oredi. Mine would be red roses... gosh, cant imagine i chose tat coz i am not a fan of roses But it does look nice in the picture and i want a contrasting color against my gown (ivory) hence i got tat. My fh chose the car deco for our london cab.
have a good rest ya... guess you have tire out after all these wedding preps. 2 more weeks for you!
huh? lunch at half price? If everyone thinks tat way for my wedding lunch i gonna annouce on stage the price for each table liao (juz kidding ). Your colleagues has never attend wedding lunches before i supposed, but saying it's half of the dinner rate is ridiculous @_@
i am going to ask my AD MUA to MU for my mummy too. If schedule allows i am sure she is more than happy to earn tat extra bucks.
Darn, i have a potential pimple growing between my brows -_-
Hi Kristine, welcome to the Nov'08 brides thread. We are currently all very active in this thread now. So do check back often and talk to us!
Ya lor, I also like Mei's pictures alot. N i love her gown! I like the 'pong pong' effect lor.. Haiz.. Now i wish my gown is like tat. Showed my HTB then he spill water, say aiya, u tink too much la.. N he tinks my gown is ok.. Grrr...
How about not waiting for your FH to do those tasks? If I'm u, I'll start clearing them myself and I'll even liase directly with in-laws. I agree with Dor, list tasks down and start doing them. The more we drag, the more stressed we feel.
My MIL can sense my worry about $$ matters for resale house though she is always the keep-quiet type. On the phone, she suddenly told me that not to worry so much and Zhuang2 Dao4 Jiao1 Tou2 Zhi1 Rang2 Zi2. Hehe I feel a bit touched.
My queue no is 176. There are 343 units, so we can definitely get 1 unit at mid or low floors. Thanks for your well wishes
I plan to give a token of $150-200 monthly to in-laws on top of the $800 that my bf is giving. Because they will need to cook 1 more person share for dinner. I'll try to be Zi Dong.
Woah! This thread is running very very fast! I have to read like two pages for 1 day? =) I have added some of your nick.. if you did not receive any invites from wa_seh or sonice, do let me know. Thanks!
so far, I have seen jo vin's user pic in multiply. Nice pink! My fav colour too! Do update your pictures too, k?
Just completed some of my wedding shopping:
- Red Bedsheet/ Quilt Cover set
- Mom's bag, costume jewellery
hey jo_vin, yes, i've added you in. no need paiseh - coz most of us have different IDs for our multiply sites - can be pretty confusing! i am also confused! need some time to know which multiply ID belongs to whom!
hi karen, thanks for dropping by my site.
aiyoh...me look ok only thanks to the makeup and the photographer. thanks for your compliments on my gown. and photos..
glad the photos ok. was really quite worried at first. didn't know you are such a fan of Hilarion! he will be very happy to hear that. did you manage to get him as your photographer?
i saw many beautiful gowns over you girls' multiply sites....but i got confused with the IDs! so can't comment much now! got to figure out who is who first!
seems like quite a number of you are doing animation! saw two and i thought they are very cute and interesting!
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<font color="0000ff">i juz had my hair coloured deep red...for a hefty $190(colouong for long hair, haircut, treatment and ampoule) at a neighbourhood Salon, but gt handsome hairstylists la, so dun min but now i felt kinda "tio tock" likdat...haiz...but ok la, Subtle shade... n gt nice head massage during wash hair..DrooL....crazy viv...</font>