Cyc, dun get too upset n take things slow... given ur small frame, u might wanna consider something that can make u look bigger on the overview, alternatively, u may wanan consult ur designer n see what they advise...
i believe most hubbies are the same to give the standard ans. but think positive cos this positive reply of theirs can let them go a long way n to prevent from saying all the wrong things... nonetheless, u r the bride, u r ur FH's dreamgirl n anything on u look good to him, hence the "ok" is the most appropriate ans.
All the best to your EG selection n i strongly believe the right gown and design will come along... ps: i too have yet to confirm my gown after trying out many...
Meiling, give it a serious thought bah... lots of things for u to tink off... some upfront issue would be housing before the flat is ready, how sellable will ur 'this' hse be if u wanna dispose it, and also the possibility of long term stay...