Hi Nec,
What's your budget for the wedding reception?
I didn't go for any wedding shows. We went to selected hotels (before that, we had emailed the hotels asking for their package). For us, we were more particular about the ambience of the place as well as the co-ordinator, whom we think its impt that we can communicate with them. I think for hotels, see if there's waiver of corkage charge, what are the flower arrangements included in the package, complimentary parking, changing of items in menu, deposit payment, cancellation policy, video projectors availability etc
I think, its better you don't wait until Jan 08 to book esp if its going to be Dec wedding. From what I understand, Dec weddings are quite 'hot' and some hotels are rather full already. So do try to finalise your hotel asap.
Which BS have u looked at? I'm haven't started shopping for BS yet. I do know that I will be looking for clean cut gowns, most probably satin in material. Any idea which BS are good for the type of gowns I'm looking for?