I dun wan my SO to pay for it mar... SDJ meaning is that the MIL approves of this daughter in law... so get her SDJ... for teochew lar...
For Fujian, can be as simple as a pair of earrings to tell her to ting hua... or a pair of long feng bracelet... "lock her up"...
If is my SO paying for it, then I also rather not have it le... no point mar....
Anyway, my FMIL giving me a set that she bought years ago.... better than nothing lar... at least is an effort mar.... hehe...