Hi all, thanks for all the advice. I have talk to HB, if she still dun give up then we will meet her up and talk to her. Dun think will slap her or be nusty to her, no point, that will only make HB regret his choice, HB is the 'chi ruan bu chi yin' type. From the dicovery of his affair to now, i dun feel much anger. Hurt, pain, betrayed yes, but no anger.
Kate, ya she know that we already ROMed right from the start.