hee like wat my aunt say (or maybe she say to just console me and destress me).... everything is fated so even if you do your best in preventing it, if it's meant to happen, it will still happen and vice versa...... as long as we do our best in marriage, then ok already.... and then she quote the eg of my cousin (her son) who attended another cousin's wedding (my other aunt's son) and it's only 1 mth apart and she says now both also doing well in their work and both just had a son recently..... hee, i think i'm more like trying to convince myself that it's alrite?